We have a child together and we have never not been seeing eachother. He also has another child which he kept secret from me. I found out from a friend of mine. He got married last summer and kept that from me too. Which I also found out from a friend. He even put our kid in the wedding and I never knew about it. He says he loves us both and has to be with her for there kid. I feel horrible about it but its been going on for over 2 years now.
2007-03-03 03:58:38 · 4 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already know the answer. What you are doing is wrong on all levels. My question to you is why do you feel you don't deserve better? He lies to you, cheats on both you and his new wife, and has made another child with a third woman. Why is your self-esteem so low you feel that it is OK to be treated this way? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with a person that treats you this way? Is he the kind of man you want your child to grow up imitating? How long will it be if you guys get back together before he becomes restless and moves on? These are questions only you can answer. I think you are settling for less than you should.
2007-03-03 04:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. You obviously can't trust him and he seems to have a significant issue with commitment. Why would you want to be with a guy that has done what you said he has done? Get out and respect yourself enough to find a guy that will commit to you and be honest and treat you with respect.
2007-03-03 12:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi confused,
like ur name ur really confused. it seems ur fond of digging dead bodies from the grave yard. ex is always ex. forget and forgive him. start a new life. enjoy the life!
2007-03-03 12:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump his ***, he is cheating on both of you, you deserve better
2007-03-03 12:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋