You know sometimes in relationships you have doubt as to whether or not you can make this work between the 2 of you? And it is usually because the man is the one who is the commitment-phobic, or ladies man, or what not. You know that on your side of the relationship you can make this work but the question is "can they?"
Well now I am having this problem but it is the reverse. I know that he is in this relationship 100% for forever but I have doubt that I cannot make this work for whatever reason...
This is my 1st healthy relationship. I have always been in emotionally abusive, cheating, sweettalking, mis-trusting and jealous relationships so when things were good things were OUT OF THIS WORLD and thats what makes those types of relationships fun and adventurous. Whereas now, I am kinda just neutral all of the time. I am happy to be with him. I am very sexual with him but I am just happy and I guess it just seems un-familiar. I love the guy I am with. He makes me laugh and I dont feel the need to "try and make him love me" cause I know he loves me for who I am.
I just hate all of the self-doubt, is there a reason for it? Is it because of my past, Is it because my ex still has a tiny piece of my heart? I dont understand! I am just not sure of myself?!?!?!!
Why all this self-doubt?
2007-03-03
03:15:42
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