Ok..Here it is.I dated a girl that i really liked about 1 year ago.She was perfect(for me).Everything was good..until we broke up.The next months she ignored me.One month ago,she finally talked to me.She told me why we broke up.The problem is now,that even dough i dated other girls...i cant get over her.I still want her.I do love her.But she has a boyfriend.And now..its not just a guy thing,but he is better than me...motorcycle racer,rock band....This is stupid but i dont know what to do...The question...how can i compete...?
2007-03-03 03:16:28 · 7 answers · asked by Someone Else 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way to compete someone else is by being your self. Just brink out all these things she liked about you, the things you did and made her smile. The rock band guy is good for a while but only very few women can handle it. You shouldn't try to be something you're not just to compete him, cause he's real and the competing you won't be, and that'll show. If the reason she gave you for braking up with you is something that can be fixed somehow and has something to do with you, then try. Otherwise just be patient and let go.. It sounds hard, but most of the times the second time is never as good as the first, things are not the same..
2007-03-03 03:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by helena_m_p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't (and can't) compete. The only thing to do is to be honest with her and tell her that you still have feelings for her. Let her know that you care. She might still care about you too and come back to you. It doesnt hurt to let her know. If she isn't interested at least you know and will (and should) move on with your life. This way the is no regrets with the "what if's".
Good luck.
2007-03-03 03:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're hung like a tic tac...so I'd forget competing...
2007-03-03 03:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by kingzummo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no need to compete...just show her that you care...show her that you love her...tell her that you don't want to compete because he might be better than you in these things...but when it comes to feelings...you're a winner.
2007-03-03 03:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can compete your challenger but not trying to compete with his traits...racing ,playing rock music....he might be better than you idun know...try the other way ...like motorcar racing , play piano .....you might be better than him because he learned first be more classy she might attracted to you again..friend she still likes you
2007-03-03 03:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by the_road_i_am_on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what he has if she dont like you for who you are then forget it all you do is treat her right if she still picks him then find some one else and if she means that much like my girl means to me then youll wait it out
2007-03-03 03:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry her
2007-03-03 03:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋