ok i been with my boyfriend for 2 months we were together previously for about 5 months but split for a while, he is very insecure and he doesnt trust me one bit even though i have never given him reason not to i am as faithful as a nun to God!
but just now he was on a screen name i didnt know about pretending to be someone from cornwall (male) i knew it was him, he asked if i was single etc and was asking me questions he made up that he had a g/f for 5 yrs etc, after a while i asked if he ever cheated knowing hed ask the same thing back and i said yes twice (i hadnt really but i knew hed have to say it was him in the end).
He insists that he was just messing around and playing a joke on me, i think he was testing me to try and find something out about me, what do you think?
2007-03-03 03:08:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes definitely. I hate insecure guys and clingy relationships. Its up to you what you do about this.
2007-03-03 03:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, look...the reason he thinks you may be cheating is that he is (at least) thinking about.
Was he "testing" you or was that his lame explanation for getting caught? I would not be surpirsed if he turned it around on you and started blaming you for stuff.
Find a guy what 1) won't cheat on you, 2) trusts you, and 3) won't play stupid games. You in turn stop playing stupid games too. What were you doing texting some guy when you say "I'm as faithful as a nun to God?" Would a nun be texting the devil..."Oh, but we're just texting and I'm just testing him."
God I hate these stupid teenage games.
2007-03-03 03:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he was testing you to find out about you. If hes that insecure may be he needs to sit down with a counsler(you go with him for suport).
2007-03-03 03:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by Oliver_Thomas1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he needs to get a grip be for you two split again for nonsense mess.Sounds like he has a good girl here and don't realize it.
2007-03-03 03:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he has to check up on you is it worth it?? he needs to be able to trust you, and I'm afraid there ain't much you can do about that. Hes gotta find it in himself to trust you. Any way you deserve betta. You don't want someone who checks up on you. Do you?
2007-03-03 03:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by emma p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have known this guy for seven months?
and you are already asking questions!
what do you think it will be like in 2 years time
get out and get on this guys a loser
2007-03-03 04:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by whatisfear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might have had some friends with him and was playing a joke on you so his friends could see if you said anything he wanted you to
2007-03-03 03:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to him and tell him that he has no reason why not to trust me...and if he doesnt like it this way...fine with him...he can get himself another girl....without trust there can be no relationship!
2007-03-03 03:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right- testing you. However, do you want to be tested forever?
2007-03-03 03:12:22 · answer #9 · answered by sylviavnpttn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like like my boyfriend.
yes he is VERY insecure
2007-03-03 03:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by Laura J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋