2007-03-03 04:04:41 · 11 answers · asked by Katie R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
divide and rule....british policy.
2007-03-03 04:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you feel abandoned then look at yourself - did they go or did you let them go -- friends are relationships to be worked on give and take.
If you really felt like there was the potential for friendship (real) then try again slow and steady, but you will have to do a lot of the running to begin, if you don't feel you should then they were not worth the time anyway.... there are lots of people out there looking for company and good friends..
Good Luck don't be lonely be adventurous!!!
2007-03-03 04:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they've abandoned you maybe they're not the friends you thought they were. Perhaps it's time to move on and find new friends, but before you do, ask yourself why they seem to have abandoned you, or is it just a natural order of things like marriage, family, or moving away.
2007-03-03 04:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are not friends if they make you feel bad.
Make new friends, its easier said than done sometimes especially if you still want to be mates with them but in the long run you will be happier and possibly a better person if you move on.
Dust yourself off and try again.
2007-03-06 09:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by SARAH D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being & remaining a true friend to them. Sometimes people do change but it's also likely that you might be oversensitive when they are just preoccupied with whatever, stopping them being their normal selves. Continue to be their friend, showing consideration & understanding. If you really can't win them back, then I 'd say it's their loss.
2007-03-06 01:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by MoiMoii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did they abandon you in the first place? dont sound like very good friends? all i can say is.... dont try and be someone you are not... try and make new friends :-)
2007-03-03 04:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by Shellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a spectator...get in the game ...are you just sitting around waiting for people to come to you? If you are their friend call them don't wait for some special invitation...
2007-03-03 04:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by lindazgardner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. Its better to make new friends while your "main friends" are out of action.
Its not an entire loss when you have new friends to get along with.
cheers
2007-03-03 04:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by H Vice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look deep inward, perhaps you or your actions have abandoned them
2007-03-03 04:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by rocky w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't you ask them is they are still your firends if not then move on if so then keep it kool'!' and rember sometimes friends fadein and oh life
2007-03-03 04:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by pinkalishes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but make new ones
2007-03-03 04:07:27 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋