I guess what The Secret is all about it conditioning your brain which then changes your feelings for different ideas/sudbjects/love. What I am asking is can you make yourelf fall in love with someone then?
If they say you can make your feeligns change then wouldnt it work for making yourself fall in love???
2007-03-03 04:43:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As a teacher of The Secret for many years I now recommend The Secret DVD to everyone. http://www.psychic-junkie.com/does-the-secret-really-work.html
Here's a separate review and 22 lessons learned from The Secret http://www.astralcafe.com/does-the-secret-really-work.htm
2007-03-05 08:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself have been teaching for the past 6 years about the philosophies, or ideology that is consistent to The Secret and there are alot of things that is left out in the movie and on the Oprah show.
Your question: Can you make yourself fall in love with someone?
This is a good question. You do however have understand that they are explaining that you must be greatful for and to manifest (intention) or visualize love and it will come to you. They also say that it is to bring upon a reality or create your own reality.
What they did not explain is the difference between Objective Reality and Subjective Reality. They also didn't explain the how-to practice this at an intellectual daily task.
Let me put this in better perspective.
There are questions that can arise from this movie that leads each answer to a cop-out.
Do Children place an order or make wishes or intentions that make them get abused by parents?
This question cannot be answer by their explanations. It is only in Subjective Realities can this be answered.
It is not the intention of the child, but the intention of the parent.
This opens up to having competing intentions and whose is stronger than the other. You may have intentions, but you can also have alternate intentions that you are not truthful to yourself.
I have also spend a lot of time researching this topic, and still doing so, but I believe I have found a way to practice their theories by aligning our low-level day-to-day goals with our higher-level, I want to be a better person and marrying our holistic self with these goals.
Falling in Love with Someone meets the Intrinsic Motivational Behaviours the meets our Psychological need for connectedness - Intimacy.
You can find your true love - Soulmate - even attract yourself to them - but this requires a plan, something you can measure objectively - You just know you love them, without question.
If you trick yourself into loving someone - and you can do this - it will come out sometime in the future and the love will not last.
I know that I have not given you everything I know, but this would take several days to help you develop your life plan to find love and it really has to be done in person.
I wish for you to find true love and may the abundance of the world come into your life.
2007-03-03 11:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I have found that love is something that is in everyone's heart, but it takes someone special to bring it out. I too have found the secret in making my brain function for the better, but making myself love someone isn't possible unless they have particular qualities that can release it.
2007-03-03 04:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got it all wrong the secret is the law of attraction.so what you think about you bring about .feel love even if it is not there
2007-03-03 12:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by lil me t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.There is no control over your heart.The heart picks who it wants when it wants.
2007-03-03 04:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by mosrider2002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure. We need to control emotions not emotions control us.
2007-03-03 04:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mind over matter, i guess.
2007-03-03 04:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋