me n my best friend have known eachother for the past three years. we have been obsessed with eachother up to the point where we'd go everywhere together, we lived at eachotherz houses cuz our momz r best friendz too...but now...she chills with this other gurl more than me...that other gurl talks **** about me 24/7 n i hate that...one dai i while i was supposed to be at skool but i wasnt...they went to a coffee shop n hung out....eventually they decided to call me dere n when i got there i saw that they had already paid n they called me just cuz i had a car n so that i'd take them to that gurlz place...after that they made a plan they were gonna go to my other gurlz place, sarah the next dai assuming that i'd take them...but i didnt want to...i was so hurt...that gurl fully replaced me...n spent the whole week in my bed crying cuz i wud do anything for her....i told her how i felt n told her i dun think we can be friendz anymore...she denies ignoring me n everything....
2007-03-03 04:52:45 · 5 answers · asked by p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she uses me all the time...i'm not a possessive friend usually but this time i just am cuz of the way she treated me....i'm not sure if i should 4give her when she doesnt even think what she did is wrong....there really isnt anything to 4give her about...if she cared she wud've come over n try to make things better cuz i'd do that for her...but she just never felt the same way...throughout our friendship she'd steal from me....hurt me in various wayz which i didnt wanna mention to her cuz i luved her so much...i cared about her like, soooooo much...i cant believe it came to this...n shez still so confident she didnt even cry for me once...on top of that she just laughed everything off...if she could c that i'm hurt n i'm crying who in the world would laugh at sum1 like that???....i dont understand what i should do...should i start talking to her??? or should i just let thingz remain the way they r?.help me..i usually dun go on these forum thingyz but i'm desperate!...plz give me advice
2007-03-03 04:57:59 · update #1
I'm really sorry to say this, but you should really move on. A friend is someone who cares and respects you even if you do live nearly 100 miles away. If your friend really cared about you she would leave the other person and apologize to you telling the whole truth.
I am really sorry.
2007-03-03 05:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own view, i have thiz sorta feelin' where there is a friend of the best you most loved and obviously, you-could-not-live-without.
But fear not, i can tell that your friend you care the most and always-honest-with, will not last long with the girl she's curently with. Mind that she is just another obstacle in guiding your friendship.
Hence, forgive her. That is what a true friend will do. Be patient and face it toughly. Why don't you discuss it with your mother??(but i do think it's annoying if you are not so close to your mom.)
What you should do is to try make her jealous.
Maybe clinging more with ur b/f will do..(if u have one or just find one)..
Or, you can try pretending ill just to know how she will react...
Believe me, she'll be back in any second to you..
She loves you,ain't she?
just like you love her.
2007-03-03 13:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by middle of mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie you have to realize that in life people are going to let you down they are just going to its a part of life me and my best friend have been best friends for over 7 years and we are togetjer 24/7 we fight all the time but you know something she is still my best friend i still love her and i know at the end of the day she is my biggest fan, shes going to have other friends and maybe this other girl is talking about you cuz she is jealous but you did right my telling your best friend your feelings and all you can do is just deal with it or leave her alone until she realizes whats she is doing i hope it all works out though...
2007-03-03 13:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say move on! This girl steals from you and uses you for your car. I had a friend sort of like that. She used me for my car, I think she was my friend but I think that she took advantage of me with my car. I used to take her to school, to get her hair done, shopping, to get her nails done, take her mother to the grocery store, take her grandmother to work, take her to work. I was a taxi cab and eventually we fell out. Dont beg her to be your friend cause you have not done anything wrong. Brush it off as she does. Trust me you will find new friends that are on your level. Obviously she is not on your level. She is childish. You dont have time for people like that. Focus on school. And while you are focusing on school, finish, and you are successful; She is going to be somewhere wishing she was still your friend. Stop crying about her, be positive, and be you and you will find better friends that are on your level.
2007-03-03 13:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by msnothinbutalady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should forgive her because jesus forgave us for our sins by dying on the cross
2007-03-03 13:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋