My bf of 4 years and i broke up. We had a fight and he told me to leave, in a very rude and hurtful way. I didn't do anything bad to him, i feel he was just looking for an excuse to throw me out. He had been making unsensitive comments, like he didn't care if i was with him or not, that i was wasting his time, that he didn't have a reason to love me, he called me names. When i wanted to talk about how he was making me feel he ignored me. We have had a lot of fights, and after he would tell me he didn't mean all the nasty things, that he said them because he was hurt. That made me go after him every time this would happen. I didn't want to lose him over a stupid fight. Even if it wasn't my fault. But now i think he really wants to get rid of me. I think he's just bored with me. I haven't done anything for him to hate me so much,or to 'deserve' to be treated badly. It kills me to leave things like this, should i try to talk to him? what should i say?
2007-03-03 04:56:30 · 3 answers · asked by jade 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave & drop it. There is a chance he might come after you if he realizes he misses you. Don't count on it & if he does, set some ground rules up front. One teeny bit of advice: sometimes talking just aggrevates the situation! If someone tells you he is wasting his time on you what that means is: you just wasted time on HIM.
2007-03-03 05:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by life coach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK #1 he treats you badly...Take off girl! Who cares what he thinks or feels because he is emotionally abusing you! I would just be gone and its over..People only stay with there spouses others sometimes cause that's what they are use to (being treated badly) you have got to stand up for yourself and say I am not going to take it anymore! Then Leave.
Don't let him walk all over you and treat you like a revolving door in and out of your life...Take CONTROL!
GOOD LUCK~
2007-03-03 13:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by **Mishelly** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learned that people are more able to say how they feel when they are angree with you!So, I would just leave it alone don't go after him for sure!If you need to have your closure then try writing a goodbye letter!Goodluck!
2007-03-03 13:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by rere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋