Family & Relationships - 3 March 2007

okay heres the dealio .........i like a .....somehow she found out...... she says she likes me 2........ but shes gotta bf unfortunetly.......and she dont want to hurt him.......... which i can understand....... but the other night........ in a church van........ on the way home........ i was puttin some moves on her........i did the whole yawn and put the arm around her move.............she moved in and leaned on my shoulder.............it was awsum....... i love this girl..........i pulled back her hair........ i asked her out........ she said i cant i hav a bf...........i was upset.........she asked if i would wait for her until she could find the strength to break up w/ him.......i said yes........ i told her i'll always love her no matter what......did i do the wrong thing..........

2007-03-03 06:05:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Love at first sight or no?

2007-03-03 06:04:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Currently I was on a cruise and the waiter would always smile and stare and me from across the room. At one point he came over to me and held my hands very tightly and said it was nice to meet me on this cruise.When we would talk he would always look at me directly into my eyes without looking away. I mean I just felt such a connection. He wanted me to come to the main dinning room before I left to go home, but I never did. What do you think? I know it wasn't about the tip, because I paid my tip before the cruise and I didn't have to pay anything else to the staff.

2007-03-03 06:04:26 · 10 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

I've done everything for this guy, and I even built up the guts to go tell him that I liked him (my first) and then there was another girl who told him that she liked him two days later. well at that time he rejected both of us and I kept getting a ton of mixed signals from him (all happened over 4 months) and yesterday, I found out from his cousin that him and the other girl are dating. I'm not sure if I 100% trust him...but it seems true. She's like wayyyy better than me. But, what really hurts is that I gave him everything I had...and I got no love back. Unrequited Love.

And I believe that there is a "higher purpose" to this experience because I wasn't looking to fall for someone at this point in my life...PLEASE HELP!!

2007-03-03 06:04:11 · 4 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 14 years old... So I had a group of friends.... best friends we did everything together... I also had one other best friend... and I would always ditch her to hang out with my other friends but we still hung out and did like everything together... then one day my group of best friends ditched me... and i started hanging out with my best friend everyday,,, and now i feel like shes hanging out with my friendssa and i feel all alone what should i do??

2007-03-03 06:04:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

cos i really cannot make up mind to talk to girls really freely .. i always speechless , when i talk them .. what should i do then ???

2007-03-03 06:03:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Kay, I have a young daughter I am married to her father we have not been togather for almost 3 years!He doesnt pay anything and he sees her maybe once a month for a few hours!I have just told him that i want a divorce and now he wants joint custody!He also wants me to allow her to go to an Islamic school and threatens me if i dont do it!I dont have a problem with the religion at all!!Want to say that up front!I havent gone to court because the truth is i am afraid! I love have our daughter with me we have done good over the years and I am happy and proud of the little young lady she is becoming I dont want things to get ugly with her father but I dont want her to be bounce from home to home with a father she really doesnt know!Also, he wants to take her home to meet his family in another country i dont want to say what one but is this a good idea or not!I want her to know her family but you know the stories you read!help please!

2007-03-03 06:02:36 · 7 answers · asked by rere 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi do u know who r u in u i.e what I in ME have u ever try to know u r self not talking about u r behaviour u r style u r nature
My Question is who is me in I plz answer

2007-03-03 06:02:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

But if you look at it carefully, then when a daughter becomes someones wife she doesn't let the son be a son for life.

Come on you guys, the females always keep cribbing about their mom-in-laws.Don't you think they come with a pre conceived idea that their husband is only theirs and her mom-in-law is her biggest enemy?

2007-03-03 06:01:30 · 14 answers · asked by Santosh S 3 in Family

when i was an elementary student... one of my classmate have a crush on me..then when my classmates are teasing me to him, i fall inlove in him (may not be love it may be crush) then when i was about to text my bestfriend, but i sent it to my crush (it was just a mistake), then there..we start to text everyday..but when my parents said that i will study in other country, i was so sad... then a week before i leave.. my crush texted me and he asked, "who is your crush"? I was so shocked because i know that he is very shy to me only.. then i replied ""the name of my past classmate" (but its not true, i lied to hide my feelings for him) then, i also asked him.."how about you, who is your crush?" then he replied, "guess who?" then i replied, "tell it..", then he said.. "you" .. i didn't expect that he will tell that because as what i said before, he s so ashamed to me.. then he said, he was too sad to know that its not him (that i don't like him)..den he said, he will wait for me..rid down

2007-03-03 06:01:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boss is 24 and not married stylish , and sexy looking i'm totally in to being his best friend but we skipped that part by having sex at his pad . How do i face everyone at work and not show that we skept with each other ???

2007-03-03 06:00:53 · 17 answers · asked by Elena 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex walked out on me and our 4 year old son 7 weeks ago for the 2nd time,we had been together 6 years and he was my first love,anyway i found out by accident that he is seeing someone else and i`ve a feeling he had started seeing her before he left.Before i found out he used to tell me that he wasn`t with anyone when all along he was,why would he lie??

2007-03-03 06:00:35 · 12 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Marriage & Divorce

which would u rather choose, a guy who plays guitar or a guy who plays sports?

2007-03-03 05:59:30 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last week when I saw my former bf of almost 8 years, he was upset that we broke up and he kept on comparing me to the new girl that he had cheated on me with. He said that I was fat, and that I can't cook etc. We had only just broken up in January and now he is engaged to her already, we didn't get married while we were together nor got engaged. What does it mean when he compares me to his new girl? Is he trying to hurt me even more? Or is he not over the break up yet?

2007-03-03 05:58:49 · 9 answers · asked by Jasmina 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to this carnival and i just went with my friends i didnt even invite them and they had all asked me to come with them but i lied and told them i was sick well i met this really hot guy at the carnival he was soo hot . we got to know each other and we ended up making out and all of the sudden some one taps on my back i turm around and there is all three of my boyfriends. wat should i do?

2007-03-03 05:58:18 · 26 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i are both in high school. we are in a long-distance relationship. we have been dating for a year and 2 months.we are happy and have never fought-we broke up once, but got back together 3 days after. lol. we are planning on moving in together after high school (and possibly getting married during of after college). We are in TRUE LOVE, MY problem is its hard becasue we have to wait three more years until we can be together (we talk via e-mail and/or messenger) also that we are apart since we are in two differnet states. what do i do? i'm getting kinda impatient and trying to tell myself its worth the wait. him and i are the ones for each other.

2007-03-03 05:58:14 · 9 answers · asked by paige cardona 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

will I know if they are my real friends now?


last year i invited some friends from college to come to my birthday dinner at red lobster nobody came i called everybody up i talked to everybody but still no one came they didint even have good reasons not to come i was there in the resteraunt eating by myself, now this year i am inviteing some new friends to my birthday dinner i am turning 20 on march 18 if they show up do they care about me and are they my friends

2007-03-03 05:58:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well, I broke up with this guy Peter. I was really kind and gentle about it, too. I was like,"I hope we can still be good friends, though." And he said,"Sure." I broke up with him because I just didn't feel that click... and I tried talking to him in person, but he was still passing notes to me and keeping everything a secret after it had been like almost 2 months!!!
So my 1st ex (Andy) I was going out with him at the beginning of the year before Peter. Last night, Andy and I were hanging out and he said,"You know, during 6th period, Peter was crying and I asked him whats wrong, and he said he was really upset you broke up with him." I felt sooo bad!!! I told Peter when I broke up that it was because we barely talked and we really needed to get to know eachother more (we did before but we needed to be more closer). And he refused to try and be a good bf... so what do I do to not make him upset again?

2007-03-03 05:57:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering if being abused by a parent isnt considered to be as bad as being abused by someone else, like a spouse. I think that i might be being abused by a parent. The abuse includes pushing, shoving, hitting, yelling, swearing and calling names. The most harm it has caused so far is brusing and subtle bleeding and it doesnt go to that extent very often. Is this ok if it is coming from a parent? It's been going on for a while. I'm confused.

2007-03-03 05:56:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

every time i think of you i get so happy... i get all tingly inside and smile
for no reason....i think about the way we used to laugh in class and get in
trouble... the way the teacher would get all madd and start yelling and all we
could do was look at eachother and laugh some more..... those were the days that
made me love you so much....just being next to you ............so now.....i
think about you all the time and everytime i think about the good times we had
together.....i just love you more........but then i
remember....................you love...................her.................

[tell what you think of this one ]
if you want more let me know .....i have a lot

2007-03-03 05:56:36 · 10 answers · asked by BrOwN eYe'D cHiCa 2 in Singles & Dating

This boy recently found out i like him and madd people says that he likes me but he wont bring up the fact that i like him and i really want him to...but I'm to shy to bring it up and i don't want to look stupid in front of him?

2007-03-03 05:56:11 · 6 answers · asked by KaThErInE XoX KiTt XoX KaTt 2 in Singles & Dating

My Dad has a lot of mental problems...depression, alcoholism, medical problems, social problems, disabled, etc. My Mom comes to me when she is upset about how he is acting. I'm in my 30's. I'm tired of them not having their crap together. It has been going on my whole life. She has no friends and refuses to make any. She has no life other than a low paying job. It is just upsetting to be around it all the time. She is anti-social and does not make friends easily. Sometimes she will start to tell me and then stop or she will "allude" to something she is trying to tell me, leaving questions and doubts in my mind. I don't even ask any more. I'm just tired and fed up with the situation. If I tell her that I don't want to hear it any more, she will still have a way of letting me know. She is already on medication. I can't just up and move without disprupting my life and putting a financial burden on my family. I don't want to be rude. I'm all she's got.

2007-03-03 05:54:30 · 11 answers · asked by cakekweeny 2 in Family

I am amazed at how many women and girls talk about their big boobs and keep coming on Y!A to ask if guys like big boobs. many times they ask questions that have an obvious answer, like they just want to be told that they are hot.

I don't have big boobs and sometimes I wish mine were a little larger niot big though, but I have certain features that are attractive, I don't come on here and keep asking about them! Isn't it annoying and don't you wish they would quit it already!?

2007-03-03 05:54:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All right, he's always telling me i'm pretty and is complementing me, but that's usually right before i spend the night at his house??(something actually only happened once, it was amazing) He always tells me i deserve someone who can give me everything i want and that he can do that( he really can, believe me) He says he loves kissing me, because i have nice lips, he says i have a nice body and that i should show it off, also he always tells his friends how great i am. I love it when he says these things to me, but im not sure if he likes me for the right reasons, ive had so many problems like this before, and im not sure what to do. He never tells me things i want to hear, but nothing about how i am on the inside, help!!! please

2007-03-03 05:54:08 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Heather♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a fight with my bro in law bcoz he kind of misbehaved with me. I didnt tell that to my sister but I told it to my mother. And she is v hyper she told it to my sis and my sis asked my bro in law abt it then a fight happened. after that my sis and my bro r not talking to me and for a few days my mother stopped going to there house which is next to us. and she was not talking to my bro in law properly but as they all go to same club, they meet almost daily so my mom n they started talking and now she is going to their house also. The prob is every member of my house is going to their house except me bcoz I cant go after all that happend. Now every member of my family meet them n almost stay in their house whole day leaving me alone in d home. I am feeling ignored, dejected n all alone. All this happend bcoz my mom told to my sis abt what her husband did, after that my sis is not talking to me. How can my mom spend whole day with them leaving me all alone. what all this means? plzhlp

2007-03-03 05:53:40 · 7 answers · asked by Help me 1 in Friends

this girl likes me and i dont like her. she doesnt IM me anymore cuz shes giving it up 4 lent (we r catholic) and i c her everyday at school. she's got my email now cuz i gave it to one of her friends. so she emails me a lot, and she talks a lot about one of my friends. but she looks at me sometimes still, though not as much as she used to.. she also stares at my friend a lot too.

i guess my question is: based on the information above would u say
-she still likes me
-shes fallen 4 my friend
-she cant decide between us

2007-03-03 05:52:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone asks us if we are going out but we always say no..then we look at each other and smile. We go everywhere together, mall, movies, dinner, lunch, school (5 out of 8 classes with him, and we sit by each other in every one, including lunch) We hangout every weekend. I sometimes go to his house too We smack each others butts, sometimes give hugs, walk to class together (DONT hold hands tho)

These are some signs I think he is showing:
1) he gave me his phone to take home with me to take pic of myself
2) he smiles a lot
3) he goes wherever i want(even if he really doesnt want to, like the mall)
4) touches me a lot (smacks my butt, gives me hugs, plays around a lot)
5)goes out to dinner, movies, other places
6) talks on the phone for hours at a time
7) smiles when other people ask us if we are going out
8) makes great eye contact

Those are all the reasons I think he likes me.How can I tell him? How do I bring it up? Ive tried bringing it up before..he changed the subject

2007-03-03 05:52:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been having an affair with a married man for 6 months. We are both married, and I am friends with his wife. Very bad situation, all around. I have since got out of my marriage and am know seperated. I am still caring on this affair, he says he is leaving his wife but he never has. He tells me he is and he does nothing. I am so confused, part of me says just end it and see what happens but I really don't want to walk away from him, I am in love with him, and he said he was falling in love with me too. I just have this sinking feeling that he will never leave, almost like he wants both relationships. I am in desperate need of help!

2007-03-03 05:52:05 · 37 answers · asked by Shawnie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i noticed this alot, ive only seen two black woman/white man relationships in my life time, they are really happy but get stares, i guess it is shocking coz it is so rare to see. but with black guys/ white gurls its different....what is it about white men/ black women?

2007-03-03 05:52:04 · 6 answers · asked by Keshoo 2 in Singles & Dating

do you even notice at all...........what about a girls make up???

2007-03-03 05:52:04 · 9 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Singles & Dating