Well, I broke up with this guy Peter. I was really kind and gentle about it, too. I was like,"I hope we can still be good friends, though." And he said,"Sure." I broke up with him because I just didn't feel that click... and I tried talking to him in person, but he was still passing notes to me and keeping everything a secret after it had been like almost 2 months!!!
So my 1st ex (Andy) I was going out with him at the beginning of the year before Peter. Last night, Andy and I were hanging out and he said,"You know, during 6th period, Peter was crying and I asked him whats wrong, and he said he was really upset you broke up with him." I felt sooo bad!!! I told Peter when I broke up that it was because we barely talked and we really needed to get to know eachother more (we did before but we needed to be more closer). And he refused to try and be a good bf... so what do I do to not make him upset again?
2007-03-03 05:57:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what a f a g!! crying??!! leave the 13itch as s alone!
2007-03-03 06:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the lesson of dating that is the hardest to figure out. Sometimes you do hurt people that you care about in order to make yourself happier. You didn't do anyone wrong. You were honest with him and told him how you felt and what needed to change about the relationship. You did your part to try to work things out. You did everything right! I know that you feel bad because you hurt him, but the reality of life is that you WILL hurt people sometimes. You didn't do it on purpose. You did it becaus you could see that the relationship wasn't working. He needs time to get over you and get over the breakup. This may be his first breakup that mattered to him. That one is always the worst. If you want to be friends with him at some point, that's great. But, right now, let him be by himself for a while. He needs some alone time or time with other friends (especially other guy friends). Stand to your ground and don't go back on what you know is the best thing for you.
2007-03-03 14:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was the best decision for you to do. If you continued going out with him longer, it would had been more hurtful for him after you broke up. I'm glad that you realize that he wasn't someone that you were looking for and you ended it. On the long run, he will find someone for him who share the same values and this will be a minor blip on his radar.
I think it's awesome that you are compassionate. I wish there were more people like you.
Best wishes
2007-03-03 14:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by s_p_u_d_n_i_k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to do anything???? YOu were honest with him, broke up with him and moved on....That's what you are supposed to do.....I'm sorry that he got his feelings hurt but sweety...i tell you from experience, you can't live your life worrying about everyone else....you have to do what's right for YOU...I stayed in a relationship for 3 years,,,,i was abused,,,but i stayed because he kept telling me that it would kill him if i left him...I worried about not hurting him rather than the bruises on my body......You don't stay for the needs of someone else....you stay because YOU want to be there.....as long as you aren't doing anything to intentionally hurt him ....you are doing nothing wrong. GL
2007-03-03 14:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Lani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him that DVD you made in 2002 with you getting gangbanged by the Boulder University football team. That should give him the picture and he'll stop being upset.....because he'll realize you're a whore. A whore who likes banging football teams.
Take care!
2007-03-03 14:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by Happy Psycho Rapist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...you shouldn't be making him cry anymore....you only need to break up once and you did that. Just reassure Peter that you do want to be friends with him.
2007-03-03 14:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by sunset 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get one of your friends to ask him out...he'll forget all about you...
2007-03-03 14:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him
2007-03-03 14:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋