I had a fight with my bro in law bcoz he kind of misbehaved with me. I didnt tell that to my sister but I told it to my mother. And she is v hyper she told it to my sis and my sis asked my bro in law abt it then a fight happened. after that my sis and my bro r not talking to me and for a few days my mother stopped going to there house which is next to us. and she was not talking to my bro in law properly but as they all go to same club, they meet almost daily so my mom n they started talking and now she is going to their house also. The prob is every member of my house is going to their house except me bcoz I cant go after all that happend. Now every member of my family meet them n almost stay in their house whole day leaving me alone in d home. I am feeling ignored, dejected n all alone. All this happend bcoz my mom told to my sis abt what her husband did, after that my sis is not talking to me. How can my mom spend whole day with them leaving me all alone. what all this means? plzhlp
2007-03-03 05:53:40 · 7 answers · asked by Help me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's Saturday night,go out and leave them to get on with it.
2007-03-03 06:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by gary7939 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, young lady, don't blame yourself because your brother-in-law isn't trustworthy. I don't know the extent of how he misbehaved with you, but, it certainly must have been serious enough, to cause such a rift in your family. Your brother-in-law not only violated your trust, but, also his wife's trust, and, the trust of the rest of your family. It appears that you are a moral young lady, that puts a much higher value on trust, than everyone else seems to. I'm proud of you for taking such a stand! I know that may not seem like much, considering the price you have had to pay for your desire for deciency. But, take that stand! Your brother-in-law has already demonstrated that he can't be trusted, through his actions and his words. Your sister and mother are wrong to take his side and ignore the fact that you are hurting. Unfortunately, we don't get to pick our families. Seek out a local pastor, youth group or counselor, with which you can talk openly and honestly. If your brother-in-law attempt to continue in his ways, retreat, and report him to the authorities. You may feel free to contact me, if I can be of more help.
Good luck, and God Bless!
2007-03-03 15:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Pastor Jeff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about what you said to both your sister and your mum.hopefully you told them both the same otherwise theyve sussed the lie.only a small untruth can be magnified out of all proportion.are you sure that you are not jealous of sister.think long and hard about what youve said and done
2007-03-07 09:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by pixelchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i`m guessing your mum doesn`t want to fall out with her daughter even though what her husband did was out of order aand of course your sister probably doesn`t want to believe it.You and he know it went on and of course you`ll not feel comfortable in his or your sisters company,so don`t be in it but do let the rest of your family know how your feeling.
2007-03-03 14:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by onlyme 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
cant u ask a simple one
2007-03-03 14:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by cuz he will die soon 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wow complicated. have the balls to contact him
2007-03-03 14:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by Snot Me 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
u cud email him so u dont have to see hear speak to him thats wat i would to and tell him your feelings about this
2007-03-03 14:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋