okay heres the dealio .........i like a .....somehow she found out...... she says she likes me 2........ but shes gotta bf unfortunetly.......and she dont want to hurt him.......... which i can understand....... but the other night........ in a church van........ on the way home........ i was puttin some moves on her........i did the whole yawn and put the arm around her move.............she moved in and leaned on my shoulder.............it was awsum....... i love this girl..........i pulled back her hair........ i asked her out........ she said i cant i hav a bf...........i was upset.........she asked if i would wait for her until she could find the strength to break up w/ him.......i said yes........ i told her i'll always love her no matter what......did i do the wrong thing..........
2007-03-03 06:05:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good going, you have a great chance with her
2007-03-03 06:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I used to be just like that girl. I would have a bf and still talk to other guys. Bottom line: its just a tease! You are the sideline bf. You telling her that you'll be there for her no matter what is just giving her comfort to fall back on. You don't know what she's telling him. Once you show her that you're moving on she'll be faster to break up with her bf for you because then she won't have that comfort to fall back on.
2007-03-03 14:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by lil_lisa921 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely did the wrong thing. Don't allow yourself to be second fiddle.....why should you have to wait for anyone?? If she likes you and breaks up with her bf now...great...but if it takes more than a week for her to do it and you wait longer than a week you're the fool.....never allow yourself to be placed in waiting for a girl/guy.....there are plenty of other girls out there that you won't have to wait for....my son went through this last year and i was pissed that he allowed a girl to do this to him....I put an end to it by confronting her. You see, we "girls" know that we have the ability to string guys along and we use it when we can. ( i know i used too when i was younger )...be careful, because some girls out there will break your heart just for fun.
2007-03-03 14:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did. I think she's gonna be playing with you. It sounds like when married guys tell the 'other' woman they are going to leave their wife. However, it could be true that she doesn't know how to break it off with the other guy, but just make sure you don't wait too long for her. If she's really interested in seeing how things go with you, she should be breaking up with her bf asap.
2007-03-03 14:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO YOU DID NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Unless they are already married, then you did nothing wrong.
It only shows that she is not contented with his bf and that she is looking for something else which she could have probably found in you.
You're damn romantic, i could have loved you too if i have known you!!!!!
Be patient man, and soon the two of you will be happy!
Hope the relationship will work out...
2007-03-03 14:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by lacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think you did the right thing waiting for her to break up with her bf...instead of being a jerk and just making out with her. u seem like a good guy, so when u get her dont mess it up..good luck dude
2007-03-03 14:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by bsbrulez92704 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww! u sound like a sweetheart. No, you didn't do the wrong thing. if you really like this girl and you're sure she's not leading you on, wait for her and she'll be lucky to have you. Best of luck (o:
2007-03-03 14:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by carina n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your word, just give her time to build up the strength to break up with her boyfriend, other then that just keep ur word & promise.
2007-03-03 14:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did.
My God, is THAT how you write? What were you, home schooled by the Manson family?
2007-03-03 14:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no u did the right thing as long as u keep your word.
2007-03-03 14:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by cmm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats sweet.....
if u both love eachother then u'll find a way to make it work out
2007-03-03 14:13:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋