my boyfriend and i are both in high school. we are in a long-distance relationship. we have been dating for a year and 2 months.we are happy and have never fought-we broke up once, but got back together 3 days after. lol. we are planning on moving in together after high school (and possibly getting married during of after college). We are in TRUE LOVE, MY problem is its hard becasue we have to wait three more years until we can be together (we talk via e-mail and/or messenger) also that we are apart since we are in two differnet states. what do i do? i'm getting kinda impatient and trying to tell myself its worth the wait. him and i are the ones for each other.
2007-03-03 05:58:14 · 9 answers · asked by paige cardona 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just assure yourself that he is the one that you love and never let yourself doubt that... Waiting is the hardest part.... You will understand that sometimes love is hard to hold on to. But honey, Just assure him and your self that this is what you truly want. Make sure that you don't give him any reason to doubt you. Don't even tell him a white lie. Later on you will be glad you never doubted your love....
2007-03-11 06:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by The Raven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are VERY young. There is a reason divorce rate among teens is over 75%.
You're justa kid. Do you have any idea how much your life is going to change over the next few years? Both of you? There is a chance you might not even like each other 5 years from now, and you'll still only be in your early 20s.
You have your whole life ahead of you. Why make a lifetime decision before you've even gotten to college? If you REALLY are in love, just keep dating and he'll still be there for you after you've established yourself.
But don't do anything permanent until you're an adult. Why do you think you are not allowed to vote until you're 18? Because you really aren't capable of making good, informend decisions yet.
2007-03-03 14:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not one to say, just because you are young you can't be in love, but please listen. I see the signs that you have already mentally broke up. If you have ever thought about it, much less actually done it (wanting to break up), you have already broken up in your mind, and things will get worse from there. If you don't want to wait, who can blame you? You have a lot ahead of you in your life, and many more people to meet, and much more to experience. I think if you ever feel like breaking up again, or you feel wrong, you need to end it, because it probably will end in tears and broken hearts if you don't talk about it with eachother soon, on this I have personal experience. Long distance can work, but not if you don't want it to, and it doesn't really sound like you want it to. Either talk about it or give it more time.
2007-03-03 14:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by Marshall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT WAIT AND WAIT SOME MORE !!!!! i know you are young and three years seems like for ever but its really not and remember boys go through a HUGE change around the time they turn 25 . trust me get your OWN life established before you even think about marriage.you know school,a line of work you are absolutly crazy about ! not a job something you love to do! set you OWN goals and dreams then invite that special someone in your life . Good luck
2007-03-11 11:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by gary r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It it is true love, then it can stand the test of time! The time apart, should be used concentrating on school, do not move in together when you finish high school. Then you can concentrate on college. If you do move in, trust me it is not going to work out. You need collage to prepare your self for life! You will have time for each other, just remember, it will be all for your benefit!
2007-03-03 14:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't both of you get jobs and earn money. Then you can use the money to visit each other. It's hard to tell if somebody is the one if you don't talk face to face or hang out together. Distance can confuse a relationship. I speak from experience.
2007-03-03 18:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by Awesome Alisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm ive bean in a situationj like this! and my opionion is they don't work (not saying they won't with you) but i could not stand waiting to hold her hand or even cuddle up to her thats my opionion so you don't like it just ignore what i say :)
2007-03-03 14:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u really are in love n u guys hav 1 yr n 2 months y not wait 3 more dayss.. noo bigg im sure u will b fine....................
2007-03-03 14:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by Stranger07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go visit him?
2007-03-03 14:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋