How Can I Tell Him>?

Question

Everyone asks us if we are going out but we always say no..then we look at each other and smile. We go everywhere together, mall, movies, dinner, lunch, school (5 out of 8 classes with him, and we sit by each other in every one, including lunch) We hangout every weekend. I sometimes go to his house too We smack each others butts, sometimes give hugs, walk to class together (DONT hold hands tho)

These are some signs I think he is showing:
1) he gave me his phone to take home with me to take pic of myself
2) he smiles a lot
3) he goes wherever i want(even if he really doesnt want to, like the mall)
4) touches me a lot (smacks my butt, gives me hugs, plays around a lot)
5)goes out to dinner, movies, other places
6) talks on the phone for hours at a time
7) smiles when other people ask us if we are going out
8) makes great eye contact

Those are all the reasons I think he likes me.How can I tell him? How do I bring it up? Ive tried bringing it up before..he changed the subject

No he's not gay! LOL

Answer 1

grow up and start dating already...enough childish giggling nonsense.

Answer 2

Wow. I shall assume you're young (in the 14-17 range). Lady this dude is crazy about you and is DYING for you to kiss him.

I suggest a movie night where you guys stay in and watch some flicks (if you have access to a private apt/home where your parents won't bust in). Offer some wine and after 2 or 3 drinks make your move. If he reacts they way you want then fornicate until the cows come home. If he reacts poorly (he might be gay) then you can blame it on the wine.

If that doesn't work drug him so he blacks out then wake him up with oral sex. guys mostly like that. Even gay ones.

Hope this helps!

Answer 3

I think that the only way you are going to know for sure is to just out and out ask him. But be sure you are ready for the answer he gives you.If he says he likes you as a friend...are you going to be OK with that? Be sure that you want to know the answer.The way that things are right now looks like he is giving the impression that you two are a couple...but I have to wonder how many guys might be interested in you or want to get to know you more but don't want to step on any ones toes....if this guy is a gentleman when you ask ,he'll tell you.Then you can take it from there as to if you want to keep things the same or step it up or open the door for a guy that might want to be more meaningful to you.Good luck ....I have my fingers crossed for you.I hope that you get the answer you are looking for.

Answer 4

I really think he is not ready. He is probably trying to really, really get used to being with you before he can finally smile and say what you and he are thinking.

Reasons why I think so:

1) gave you his phone, something that to me, is a personal item. And I believe he trusts you enough to keep it safe for him.
3) Goes wherever you go, which to me, is basically him wanting to spend as much time with you as he can.
4) touches you alot, which I think he is trying to see if it is comfortable to be very physically close with you
5) he is probably trying to familiarize with your habits and destinations, which to me is a sign that he is getting used to the places you go
6) Talks on phone for hours, which is like, as if he was in the very same proximity as you. Which I think he is trying to muster up enough courage to talk continually with you to the point where a phone would not be needed.
7) if he smiles only, and says nothing, he is probably shy about the truth, which is that you are going out, but not just going out, he is probably embarressed that he just doesn't want to go out, he also wants to "be with you"
8) great eye contact is a great thing, which means he is getting used to your presence more and more.

Answer 5

It seems to me that you two are the bestest friends. Do not rush into a relationship because you two may be better off being firends. Time will tell when it is time for you to become more than friends.Just do not rush times and let everything go with the flow...

Answer 6

I think you should just blurt out " I love you." or " I want you to be my boyfriend." You should blurt it out when you all are walking together or when you are somewhere together. Then, see what he says. If he changes the subject, just say that a true friend would answer you and tell you if he feels the same way.

Answer 7

Sounds like somone is getting all the benefits without the commitment. Just ask him, but be prepared to change the dynamics of this relationship.

Answer 8

Well....first off,,is he gay??? If the answer is NO then you go for it. If you have feelings for him, tell him and he will tell you wether or not he feels the same way. Maybe he does like you, but he's afraid to have 'relationship' for fear that it might ruin the 'friendship'......too many people pass up on love because they are just afraid or plain stupid....if you like him and want it to go to the next step....tell him....

Answer 9

if he is smart, funny, good looking, i would go out with him. have you been friend for a long time? u can write him a note to tell him how you feel about him.. ( thats what shy ppl do) if he doesnt want to go out with u that its just not ment to be.
good luck ( i had the same problem and we ended up going out)

Answer 10

hi ambi,
u must take this guy in confidence. he does so many things with u. still ur not able to tell him what u feel about him. so tell him. give him a letter. if he responds positively then go ahead. enjoy the life!

Answer 11

Well Yah he likes you but I dont understand, Tell him what? Sounds to me he really enjoys you and being with you. You make him very happy and it sounds like he makes you happy. If youre trying to tell him that you dont want to go out with him there is no easy way, You'll break his heart no matter how you tell him. But if you want to go out with him, It sounds like you already are.