I went to this carnival and i just went with my friends i didnt even invite them and they had all asked me to come with them but i lied and told them i was sick well i met this really hot guy at the carnival he was soo hot . we got to know each other and we ended up making out and all of the sudden some one taps on my back i turm around and there is all three of my boyfriends. wat should i do?
2007-03-03 05:58:18 · 26 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait - I'm number 4!!!
And this is how I find out!?!
2007-03-03 06:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
All I got to say is that it is all your fault. Life isn't about boyfriends, hot guys, making out, sex. Lay off the guys and get a job. When your old enough to understand what true love means, then you search for a boyfriend. If you see some " hot guys " on your way go for them. Try dating one at a time. If you don't like the person you are dating, tell him your sorry and should see other people. Tell The guys you have now that you apologize and that you will never do that again. You can ask them to be friends with you. But like I said. Enjoy life with you friends! Find love Later.
2007-03-03 14:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do is to learn from your mistakes. You can't go back; if someone is sadistic enough, they'll get you back if you continue. There's no point in trying to salvage anything. You cannot regret your mistakes.
If you feel that you cannot be monogamous with one guy, do not commit with anyone. If you feel that the person you are currently dating doesn't fulfill your needs, do not waste his time or your time. You know it won't work.
I suggest that you date a lot of guys, but commit to none. That is the best way to go for someone in your situation. With time, you will mature and realize that you cannot act on impulse. If you never learn this, I'm afraid you'll be in a world by yourself. Try to figure out what you are seeking. Eventually you will find someone special.
Best wishes
2007-03-03 14:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by s_p_u_d_n_i_k 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay honestly you need to change .
There are things out there called STD's .
Some has no cure .
Be wise and make the right choices .
And Also if you really need to cheat to be happy , maybe you should try a thing called being single =]
You got your freedom and you can do anything without hurting anyone .
They are probably going to break up with you , and I don't blame them .
You need to think about it this way , how would you feel if you were getting cheated on and you found out .
You would be hurt, and want to break up with them because you don't want to get hurt again .
So try being single . =]
2007-03-03 14:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by x3.diem 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave them all alone and start over with a new guy and only one guy. That way you both can get to know each other only. Then you won't be getting caught! Having alot of bf's wont make you happier especially when you get caught and then you'll be all alone!
2007-03-03 14:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by LarenzO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth since you just got caught. That happened to me except I had 2 not 3. And they both came to my house at the same time and they were fighting and I had to tell them the truth. And now I'm not daiting either of them b/c I found one guy that makes me feel special.
2007-03-03 14:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MY GOD WOMAN!!!!!!!!! But hey, I can't knock your game. You are basically doing the same thing my friends do to their girlfriends. There isn't actually anything to do about it basically. But after that fun day, you might want to consider pleading your case when all three of your ex-boyfriends begin spreading those rumors about. And notice when it comes to spreading rumors.........the larger the number of people that spreads the rumor, the faster and wayyyyyyyyyy more widely spread them words will go. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-03-03 14:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by jrmygray 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMg thats really sad imagine how the boys felt? U should like only have one bf thats not right
2007-03-03 14:05:29 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confess and see if any of them still want to talk to you. If you don't want to commit then why pretend to? Just date people casually, but don't lie and let them think that you are exclusive when you're not.
2007-03-03 14:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi mandy,
my typical answer to this q is u cannot sail keeping ur feet on two boats. here ur trying to keep ur two feet on three boats. this is not at all good. ur making fool of urself. take a firm decision and select one. enjoy the life!
2007-03-03 14:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u shouldnt have lied from the get go..sorry girl but u shouldnt have gotten caught if u was gonna do sumthin like that. well u need to explain to them what u were thinking..
2007-03-03 14:02:34 · answer #11 · answered by bsbrulez92704 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋