Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

Was seeing a guy on and off for 6 yrs, with him chasing me, most of the time.
Anyway over that time, after seeing each other he would always then break it off via a text message, and tell me never to call again. So naturally I would back off and never call, then after a few weeks he would start chasing me again. this has gone on over and over.
Last week he did it AGAIN!! I am sooo over it but he has this way of reeling me in.
I was hoping someone would be able to give me some stratergies to deal with him when he starts again...if he does

2007-02-23 09:08:05 · 9 answers · asked by pina 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so this boy that i like, who likes someone else! but he flirts with me all the time!!! and asks me for my opinion and were really close but i am not sure how to act or even tell him i like him but i dont want to tell him i like him b/c he is a little cock, but he is nice HELP!!! b/c i really like him how should i win him over???

2007-02-23 09:07:47 · 8 answers · asked by Kayla 1 in Singles & Dating

my daughter is adopted should we look for her parents

2007-02-23 09:07:32 · 8 answers · asked by jaymee s 1 in Family

I just recieved finalized divorce papers in the mail. The other party is responsible for 57% traveling costs. We live about 95 miles apart. I have to pick up and drop off the kids. So does that mean he has to pay my gas, and if so, how do I calculate that? I've asked the courts, but they say they can't help me. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

2007-02-23 09:07:27 · 12 answers · asked by nightbird 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me & My Boyfriend has been dating for 1 year and 2 months and i want to know,What does your other half do for you that keeps things alive? No nasty stuff and NO SEX! Got any Fun, New, Wild ideas? It could even be a sport or something!

2007-02-23 09:07:27 · 21 answers · asked by You//Wish//You//Were//Me 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, there is this boy like, he is 14, homschooled and I don't know
if he is interested in girls. I have know him for about 2 years and I
am pretty good friends with him, but at the same time, I have no
idea where he stands on boy/girl issues. OK well please help me
out if you have any advice or personal expirence!

2007-02-23 09:07:13 · 11 answers · asked by the good girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 09:06:40 · 6 answers · asked by Brittany D 2 in Singles & Dating

I WANT TO SURPRICE WITH SOME THING NICE!

2007-02-23 09:06:25 · 4 answers · asked by Bri Bri 2 in Singles & Dating

we hookedup a few times. he moved away. now he has a RSS feed to my blog, and checks it about every week or 2 weeks, even though i never write about him in there. (i know it's him, so nevermind asking me If i'm sure that's him, let's just assume it is for the sake of argument) when he comes to town, he wants to see me, even though he like NEVER talks me other than to say, im coming to town, let's hang out.
He was a little socially awkward or shy or something....

This is a little creepy to me, i'm not gonna ask him, because he'll deny it's him, and be embarrassed, but any ideas to why he'd want to read my blog and SEE me? I dont think he likes me because he doesn't chat with me. Only when i initate it, he'll chat with me for a long time, never blows me off right away. Any ideas what's his deal?

2007-02-23 09:05:52 · 11 answers · asked by jennykolletti 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, details.
he asked one of my sisters friends if i liked him. and she said yes. that was about a month ago. and now, im almost positive he got a friend to ask if i like him and i said yes. so now he looks at me and smiles and i just smile back and such. he tries to talk to me about stuff, but never really does. and when the perfect opportunity for him to walk right over and talk to me comes, he doesn't take it.
its been a month since he found out. so im thinking i should just let it go, but if there is ANY chance he could like me as much as i like him, please tell me. and why hasn't he taken the chances to walk over to me and my friend and talk to me?

2007-02-23 09:04:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 09:04:12 · 20 answers · asked by Babirownii 1 in Marriage & Divorce

are you asking them to go on a date with you or are you asking them to talk to you more by phone number?

2007-02-23 09:04:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tell us...

2007-02-23 09:03:12 · 8 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

I do it daily. Is that wrong?

2007-02-23 09:02:47 · 9 answers · asked by Nina 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am still hung up on my ex of 2 years apparently eventhough I am in a relationship that is 10 times better than with my ex. My ex couldnt keep a job, had a drug problem, stole things, never showed me any affection...etc.
I moved to a diff state to be with my family and my ex and I still keep in touch and now he is claiming to be a changed man, that me moving away made him realize what mistakes he was making and now he wants me back too. I am so scared to go back to that but it crosses my mind daily. My current bf quit his job and moved here to be with me, works long hours but really shows me love and makes me happy. I really do love him but i think about all the "what if's". Has anyone out there gone thru this or similar to where you can offer me some advise?

2007-02-23 09:01:25 · 21 answers · asked by Just my Luck 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-23 09:01:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

yeah ive gone through faking the "oh i dont need a man to make me happy" phase. it didnt work. i dont get it. im nice, attractive, and funny. i dont really hang out too much with guys though. help! im 18 in 6 months and my goal is to at least be kissed.

part of me is like, just let it come dont rush love. the other half is like, if i dont, when i do meet someone im going to seem like an unexperienced 12 year old

2007-02-23 09:01:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 09:01:01 · 6 answers · asked by Cuddles 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is a boy called Neo and he's three years older than me. We only know each other over the internet but if we're upset we always manage to cheer each other up.


My friend says that when a girl and boy get together, one starts to develope a crush on the other in the end, it's garunteed (however you spell it)

All I want to know is, is this true, that if a girl and boy become best friends, they start to have a crush on each other?

And I want to know if he likes me ... heh ^_^;

He said he loved me a few times when I made him really happy and helped him out with some of his research, and then he said it once for no real reason, then I said, 'what?' and he said, 'haha, nothing, just feeling 'psychrotic' which is a word he made up for being 'interested in romance' or something




Now I'm absolutely confused


Oh yeah, Neo already has a girlfriend if that helps
I'm 14, he's 17

2007-02-23 09:00:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-23 09:00:31 · 2 answers · asked by Cuddles 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's a situation:

Ok, I'm a 14 year old guy, and i've known this girl for a while.

We've been friends, but i'd like to ask her out.

how does one go about asking a girl out for the first time?

2007-02-23 08:59:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how could i ask in a sulty way if a girl i like , if she's dating anyone without her knowing i want to ask her out.
there's a justin timberlake concert in april i have 2 tickets for and i know she like's him also, and even mention that her friends had tickets ,and she'd like to go.
i really would like to see the concert with her.
but i so don't want to make a jerk of myself
by asking her on a date if she is already dating someone .

she is so friendly always.i don't want that to change.
and worried of making a fool of myself please help.
i'm 22 years old by the way not a kid which is so lame.
honest answers please
how would you like to be asked ? i don't want to be like really in her face that's not nice
she's really nice and easy to talk to
how would be a nice sincere way, no corny lines of asking please
i'm still not sure if i should,
Weird request?
could u check out my 360 and
give me your honest opinion if i'm date able please
i mean just by looks

2007-02-23 08:59:51 · 9 answers · asked by johnc 4 in Singles & Dating

if you know me i have been talkin about me and my bf broke up but we got back together and i feel that he doesnt even care about me or us any more should we break up or give him a chance?

2007-02-23 08:59:46 · 10 answers · asked by Danielle P 2 in Singles & Dating

Or...to be more specific, what kind of kiss would leave you wanting more. Where should us girls put our hands.

2007-02-23 08:59:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if you came home and found your other in bed with one of your good friends? What would you do? Is someone going home with a messed up face? Please let me know?

2007-02-23 08:59:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean in a relationship,answer away,ladies

2007-02-23 08:58:46 · 25 answers · asked by melvin-miller@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-23 08:58:39 · 29 answers · asked by silkyladyxxx 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a long term relatonship (6 years) with a wonderful boyfriend. We kind of met through that same old scenario, rich girl meets poor boy and family hates poor boy. But, we eventually got over that hill. The thing is , over the years, i finished school and he didn't and now im working a good job and he's still trying to pursue a career in music. Recently, he moved to another state to pursue his career and then afterwards, we decided that i would move to. But, lately he's been saying things like, " i think i should go and get my life together so i have more to offer you". My reply is " why cant we grow together and work together to get the life we want". He feels that im making him feel like less of a man, and i dont want to do that. Now, i dont know what to do. Should i continue on being with him or just let him go?

2007-02-23 08:58:23 · 8 answers · asked by missy_r01 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so im this girl who isnt THAT popularr andd i have a HUGE problem.
there is this girl named ____________. and shes mii bff well onlyy in aim [ aol instant messenger] we nvr talkk in real life well we do onlyy for like once or twice a week just to say hi and mee and her bff [ best friend] who happens to be oh-so-populariest-girl hangs out during study period but when we come out of the study period the girl just ignores me and goes to her! i just ignore her too cuz i dun wanna be a wannabee or a suck up like mii other friends i let it cool but i dunt no if she is ignoring me cuz im not POPULAR or shes just not mii truee friendd but .like on myspace she doesnt comment me backk andd idk..... but on aim she is REALLY nicee andd she acts like im her bffl!!!! idk wat to do but plz dont say well shes not ur real friendd bc i no tht is the smart thing to do, but there is like other facts in here too

2007-02-23 08:57:59 · 7 answers · asked by jz limmers ;] 1 in Friends

and he did not turn up and we phoned him and he said he only just come in from work, well he could of phoned her and she feels everso let down. it was only nine and he said he was too tired to come out its not nice. i feel guilty cos i set them up, she is at home with the kids and carn,t get out much to meet someone, how do i cheer her up

2007-02-23 08:57:10 · 18 answers · asked by denny 2 in Singles & Dating