ok so im this girl who isnt THAT popularr andd i have a HUGE problem.
there is this girl named ____________. and shes mii bff well onlyy in aim [ aol instant messenger] we nvr talkk in real life well we do onlyy for like once or twice a week just to say hi and mee and her bff [ best friend] who happens to be oh-so-populariest-girl hangs out during study period but when we come out of the study period the girl just ignores me and goes to her! i just ignore her too cuz i dun wanna be a wannabee or a suck up like mii other friends i let it cool but i dunt no if she is ignoring me cuz im not POPULAR or shes just not mii truee friendd but .like on myspace she doesnt comment me backk andd idk..... but on aim she is REALLY nicee andd she acts like im her bffl!!!! idk wat to do but plz dont say well shes not ur real friendd bc i no tht is the smart thing to do, but there is like other facts in here too
2007-02-23 08:57:59 · 7 answers · asked by jz limmers ;] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am in middle skool: i think that she likes u and ur personality but in real life, ur social status is really low compared to hers and she cant talk to u, but online its different, especially on aim becuz the only ppl that see ur conversations r u to, and on myspace she probably doesnt reply bcuz other ppl can see ur conversations, my advice would be to hint on a subject u guys talked about on aim and see wat her reaction wuz, if she just ignores or disses u then she probably has no1 else to talk to online so she goes to u, but if she follows on, then she probably does like u and i wuld keep doing that until u two can gradually hav a conversation, hope i helped:), email me if u hav any more problems or questions:)
2007-02-23 09:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by Simply Me© 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships take time. You are a bit paranoid because you are trying so hard. She probably is your friend. Just give her time and space to see what happens. Don't stop talking to her. But do stop worrying about it, things will come around. I am not a teenager, but I was once there and I have been in your shoes many a time. Either the person became my friend or not. The thing is that not everyone is going to be your bestest friend in the world. You are going to have a circle of friends that are few, and then you will have many that are along the sides that you talk to once in a while, and then one day you will meet a friend who truely loves you and knows your thoughts. Be kind and patient, and I know you may want to be popular, but don't fret it, just keep being who you are. I am sure you are a very nice person and one day people are going to see that quality in you.
2007-02-23 09:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by trhwsh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..if she was your real friend, she wouldnt ignore you or anything. People are different in person than from when they are online. And alot of people in high school or whatever, they tend to be very fake. and let popularity go to there heads. talk to her about it. dont ignore the problem. if it doesnt get better. stop talking to her.
2007-02-23 09:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tiff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ran into this type of problem back in High school myself... My suggestion Is to Ignore the popular one, and stick close to the not so popular friends, Trust me, you will find it easier to find things in common if you stick to a group that isn't as popular. Popular kids tend to use this type of red-light green-light behavior to MAKE FUN OF YOU!! Stay clear of that crap!
2007-02-23 09:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Joshua K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mabye she doesn't talk to you because she likes her social standing and if she talks to you that might but where she stands at risk. I'm sure she likes you i just dont think that she is comfortable talking to you because of what the other girl might think.
2007-02-23 09:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by Alli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her if she doesn't want to talk to you in person that you shouldn't feel bad. If you really want to know than you should ask her in your aim. If she gives you bitchy attitude than forget about her I mean everybody deserves beter treatment than that.
2007-02-23 09:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her. talk to her on aim and ask her what's up? why are you treating me this way?
2007-02-23 09:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by cognition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋