okay, details.
he asked one of my sisters friends if i liked him. and she said yes. that was about a month ago. and now, im almost positive he got a friend to ask if i like him and i said yes. so now he looks at me and smiles and i just smile back and such. he tries to talk to me about stuff, but never really does. and when the perfect opportunity for him to walk right over and talk to me comes, he doesn't take it.
its been a month since he found out. so im thinking i should just let it go, but if there is ANY chance he could like me as much as i like him, please tell me. and why hasn't he taken the chances to walk over to me and my friend and talk to me?
2007-02-23 09:04:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he says himself that sometimes hes extremely outgoing and other times he is extremely shy. so it could be either one.
2007-02-23 09:12:11 · update #1
guys can be shy. I think you should get the courage and approach him. I did that, and it worked out fantastic! Especially if people associated with him are asking if you like him or not, thats a good reason to think he likes you. So next opportunity you think he has to talk to you and doesn't, you walk over to him and make the effort instead.
2007-02-23 09:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by sjhockeyfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just uncomfortable with the boy/girl thing yet, boys are typically slower at that stuff. Go up to him when those opportunities come along and talk to him. Compliment him so he gets more confidence and sees that you are friendly and approachable. Take it apon yourself to try and keep the conversation going the first few times and see if he doesn't get bolder around you.
2007-02-23 09:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Safira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say wait for him to get up the courage(or depending on your personality, ask him yourself)... The same thing happened with my now boyfriend... We were friends for about 4 years and everyone knew we liked each other, but both of us didn't want to ruin our friendship.He is probably just really nervous. Even though someone knows you like them, they still fear rejection or ruining a friendship. I say give it time and work on becoming better friends, because you know what they say, the best relationships start out as friendships
2007-02-23 09:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by Margarita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he may be shy. Do you know if he is shy? To me, it sounds like a shy person who likes you but is too scared to approach you. But if he ISN'T shy, then he could just be trying to be nice to you, knowing you like him. and in this case, since he hasn't initiated anything, it is most likely that he doesn't like you in that way.
So if he IS shy, then you should make the first move!! if not, settle for being friends.
2007-02-23 09:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by jennykolletti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes scared meet him halfway.
2007-02-23 09:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why haven't you taken the opportunity to go talk to him??
2007-02-23 09:07:25 · answer #6 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him.
If you like him you take the first step.
2007-02-23 09:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must be shy. i suggest talking to him, and maybe he will open up.
2007-02-23 09:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by realstylesint'l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, its taking him way to long. he's not worth it.
2007-02-23 09:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by Shana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋