Here's a situation:
Ok, I'm a 14 year old guy, and i've known this girl for a while.
We've been friends, but i'd like to ask her out.
how does one go about asking a girl out for the first time?
2007-02-23 08:59:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find out what shes in to.... then one day casually bring it up you want to go with her or that you should do that together........ dont put a label of it being a date or asking her out... look at it as hanging out w her doing what you both like to do then take it from there...good luck!!!
2007-02-23 09:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by ree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I would suggest two ideas:
1. ask her if she wants to hang out. She will then ask when and where and you can tell her that you thought it would be fun just the two of you. While you are alone ask her if she has feelings more then friendship?
2. Be creative....go and buy a paper map.
Open the map and write on it. Tell her that your friendship as brought you a long way and ask her if she is interested in going somewhere farther?
Goodluck
2007-02-23 09:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Rhonda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her , would you like to go ice skating, or to a movie tomorrow or sunday?? and see what she says. If you two decide to get together for the day...have fun* and at the end of the day, ask her if she'd like to go out with you as her boyfriend. Tell her you really like her and want to spend alot of time doing things together with her, getting to know her better. Tell her she's the first girl you've ever asked out and you find her very special* You don't just go around like a "player"
GOODLUCK*~ (just be yourself)
2007-02-23 09:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first u need to be alone wiht her wihtout any distractions then look her in the eye and ask her to a movie or somthign. make sure its not to far away dont ask her on a monday for the friday ask her on the wed or thurs
then offer to give her a ride and u def pay man
2007-02-23 09:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Goofrey G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you're a 14 year old boy. Second, just go up to her and ask her to the movies or skating.
2007-02-23 09:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her parents wont let her go. If they will just ask her. Hey would you like to go see a movie or hang out somewhere sometime? Gotta build that self esteem. Very important. Good Luck.
2007-02-23 09:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being that youre so young, you have nothing to lose! Just ask her what she would think about being more than friends. Don't play games, just be straight-forward with her and honest. Tell her what you would like out of your relationship with her and be open to hear what she wants out of it, even if it is just to remain friends. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-23 09:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by absolut_nixter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she knows you it should be pretty simple.
Just ask her.
Be respectful and considerate.
There is a posibility that she might say no so don't get your hopes up too high.
If she does say "no" be cool. Just tell her that you understand and that you would still like to be friends.
Be cool. Be calm. Be you.
Good luck, my friend.
2007-02-23 09:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love the sincerity. Tell her that - I know that we were friends but I like you a little bit more than a friend and a little bit difficult to have you just like a friend. Would you like to see me like not a FRIEND ??? Just go somewhere a Mc Donald's or walking around.
2007-02-23 09:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see'n how u have known her a while find away to add in her intrests, and be confident in your asking, and if shes a friend and says no keep in mind friendships will last longer than relationships, so stick around she might change her mind.
2007-02-23 09:05:03 · answer #10 · answered by sheffield831 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋