yeah ive gone through faking the "oh i dont need a man to make me happy" phase. it didnt work. i dont get it. im nice, attractive, and funny. i dont really hang out too much with guys though. help! im 18 in 6 months and my goal is to at least be kissed.
part of me is like, just let it come dont rush love. the other half is like, if i dont, when i do meet someone im going to seem like an unexperienced 12 year old
2007-02-23 09:01:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can say thing being a man, you, and everyone else doesnt really need a significant other to justify our existance. Listen to that part of you that is telling you not to rush you have your whole life ahead of you and sometimes kisses lead to things that you dont need at your age like a kid. ... Not to be a doomsayer but if your really want to be kissed find someone you find attractive start a conversation see if you click and let it happen if its going to happen.
2007-02-23 09:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by ninja_reqiem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah dont worry about it so much. Heres a tip. Build up some courage and go strike up some conversations with some guys you think are attractive. Talk about stuff the people do in groups or twos (movies, bowling,) whatever, until he gets expresses some excitement about it "ahh havent seen that movie I want to thou" or "havent played tennis in ages man I need to do that" then say "well maybe we can do that sometime" Dont give him your number at this point because honestly it would come across really strong and scare guys away. Then the ball is in his court. blah blah blah long story short. You made your self available but not in a "I'm desperate" kind of way. Happy hunting!
2007-02-23 09:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet i'll make you feel better I never had a boyfriend til now and Im 20 now so what does that tell ya lol.... and yeah I did feel the same way as you but I didnt let it get to me Im not ashamed of it.Well I have had my first icky kiss tho.. urgh it was disgusting lol when I was younger but erm... yeah its ok to wait i mean HELL ive waited and I think the same as you Im attractive and nice and I do have guy mates. Well I've got a boyfriend now but....Just go with the flow he'll come for you.
2007-02-23 09:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no rush. Of course, you're impatient, of course you're waiting for that very special moment, that very first kiss, that first boyfriend. But don't worry about seeming like an "inexperienced 12 year old". Just do what feels goo to you, don't let yourself be pressured into anything you're not comfortable with (warning, teenage boys can really be obsessed, no offense, guys! ;), and most importantly...
Be yourself!
Some day, it'll happen, and it's not really important if it's before or after you turn 18! (I only got my first kiss at 17yrs 7months, and so what! =)
2007-02-23 09:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by siona512 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me this is not a big deal. I got my first boyfriend/ kiss at the end of my senior year of high school and I know somone else who didn't date until college. We both date normally now. Kissing will come naturally to you and is not something that needs to be practiced. Don't worry about seeming inexperienced when it comes to dating. High school relationships don't prepare you for the real world anyway. If anything you've probably saved yourself a lot of petty lame *** highschool drama and heartbreak and so you will end up with a healthier perspective. I don't regret not dating in high school one bit. So don't worry about it.
2007-02-23 09:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by a girl in the library 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are worth loving for the right person at the right time. Do not be in a hurry. Friendship is more important, and respect yourself. Know that you are a child of God. Pray for the right one to come into your life. Also you will find that special someone in the right place like at Church, Synagogue, at a decent and nice party etc.
2007-02-23 09:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by curiouslady 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 when I had my frist kiss. I was glad that I waited because he was a 19-year-old college hottie. Much better looking than anyone at my highschool. It sounds like a cliche, but the best comes to those who wait.
2007-02-23 09:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by AC180 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dang girl! i really feel with you. i've gone through the "oh i'm happy/don't need a man/don't hurry love" phases too. it definitely sucks. i really want a boyfriend. i don't have an answer, but you're not the only one out there.
2007-02-23 09:06:41 · answer #8 · answered by daisy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be patient, it will happen. If it makes you feel any better i didn't have my first kiss til i was 18, and yea and im a cheery, fun loving person , i hung out with a lot of guys and girls it was a mix of people and i knew everybody, it just didn't happen for me til then. Patience, it will happen.
2007-02-23 09:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try practicing with a girlfriend. No you don't have to kiss her on the lips. People in Europe have been kissing eachother in non-erogenous zones for centuries. Anyplace you see skin when fully dressed is OK for practice kissing. Try it you might be surprized at the result.
2007-02-23 09:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by green3ch 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋