Was seeing a guy on and off for 6 yrs, with him chasing me, most of the time.
Anyway over that time, after seeing each other he would always then break it off via a text message, and tell me never to call again. So naturally I would back off and never call, then after a few weeks he would start chasing me again. this has gone on over and over.
Last week he did it AGAIN!! I am sooo over it but he has this way of reeling me in.
I was hoping someone would be able to give me some stratergies to deal with him when he starts again...if he does
2007-02-23 09:08:05 · 9 answers · asked by pina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Change your phone number and never call him
2007-02-23 09:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him no. You KNOW what he's going to do and keep that in mind. Don't play that with him. Ignore him when he talks to you, walk away from him...slap him if he touches you and say you're going to get the cops involved if he doesn't leave you alone. Guys like him also don't like to hear about getting married so if he does chase you again...demand a ring...or he doesn't get any.
The only reason he keeps going after you is because he knows you'll take him back. Stand up to him push him off...be a...well...you know...to him and just go off. He's sure to back down and it's the only way he's going to get the message to leave you the freak alone.
2007-02-23 17:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's terriably hard... I think all woman have had their share of this..but the truth is within... u already know what he does...he does it cause he KNOWS it will "reel u in eventually" .... it's obviously not going anywhere...figure out what you want n go for that..if need be..use HIM on the side till u find it...but i definatly wouldnt hold him on a pedestol, let him know you need him as much as a fish needs a bike!! HA HA...
2007-02-23 17:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by imalilplaygirl_2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First dont answer his text..... And cut him out of your life once and for all. Delete his no# from you cell and go out and scout for another guy...
FORGET HIM! Hes not worth it!
Text him and tell him to never call or text you ever again and thats it. Thats all you do cause I would definitely do that!
2007-02-23 17:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he likes the thrill of the chase. pretty wacko if you ask me. Don't keep saying yes...that's your first mistake.
2007-02-23 17:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS PLAYING A GAME WITH YOU ANDIF YOU DON'T STOP HE WILL KEEP ON PLAYING THE GAME.SO YOU NEED TO STAY AWAY FROM HIM AND AVOID ALL CONTACT OF HIM NO MATTER WHAT IS SAY OR DONE.
2007-02-23 17:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems he got his thrills by chasing you. If you are tired of him playing with your feelings, please do not say yes next time he calls.
2007-02-23 17:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be desperate, don't go out with him.. he's a loser, just using you. (i know they have a way with words and all, but be strong and say no tnx)
2007-02-23 17:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by Shana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shidd cuss dat ***** out and tell him to leave u alone and stop playing with ur feelings............
2007-02-23 17:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by tecknickololol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋