2007-02-23 09:04:12 · 20 answers · asked by Babirownii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
But i am married to him,he doen not him he onlt yells alot blames me for everything in this relationship and trys to control everything about me.just last week he forcefully threw me out the house because he is tried for providing for me and i need to hand over my check.I am so darn confused..help??
2007-02-23 09:18:23 · update #1
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2007-02-23 09:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by court 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he EVER puts his hands on you in anger. Hits, pushes, or anything at all. He yells at you for not doing basic things correctly, cuts you off from any friends, doesn't want you talking to anyone about your problems. Tells you or makes you feel worthless and that it has to be his way wether right or wrong. That's only a start. You should feel loved and be able to talk to the other person NO MATTER what the problems is. You should NEVER fear the other person. You ARE equals in a relationship. No one is above the other in anyway.
2007-02-23 09:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girl I got ot say if he even trys to touch you hit him so hard that his granddad well feel it!
And it is agensted the law to abusive some one even if they are a man you call 911 and hide with a freind or your mom and dad until he is in jail so long that he well not be alive to get out.
When you know:
He well try to charm you and then snack!
He well try to hit you !
Go away fast befor it happens!
2007-02-23 09:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by Bri Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are being hit by the person or brutally knocked unconscious by a violent man or woman. When you know that you are even afraid to even call for help when you know that this person is a total violent man who just wants to control you and beat you.
2007-02-23 09:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he has hit you, grabbed you been forceful with you, said very mean harmful disrespectful words to you, you fight all the time, lots of screaming and control, thats an abusive relationship. If you are questioning it then id get out of it nobody deserves that.
2007-02-23 09:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone calls you 4 letter words, demeans you and or hits you, its is an abusive relationship. They basically stop respecting you and see you as a possession that they own.
2007-02-23 09:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask about something like that then you're gonna be in a lot of trouble if you do happen to get into one. Go ahead and tack control me, hit me, yell at me, demean me, criticize me, and lower my self esteem, on your forehead and be done with it.
2007-02-23 09:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when some one hurts you phisically even emotionally dosnt answer calls never wanting to talk on the phone wit you ummm lets see you see him chit chatting with waitresses beside taking orders if you know what i mean , coffe ladies, says things that make you want to leave and then saying sweet stuss 3 sec later.
2007-02-23 09:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by mamina3595 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abusive is not only physical. If you have to watch what you say/watch what you do for fear of getting him mad - you are in a abusive relationship. Don't wait for him to hit you - get out now.
2007-02-23 09:27:45 · answer #9 · answered by Monkey's uncle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey... that's abuse. Get involved in a local group and educate yourself.
Below are soem links on domestic violence adn a link that will route you to local support groups.
Good luck.
2007-02-23 12:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer Anne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋