Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

My best friend is starting to get mad at me for weird reasons everyday. When I tell her that I want to hang out with my boyfriend she gets extreamly mad at me. She says that she never gets to hang out with me or that i am always with my boyfriend - which is not true!
This causes a huge fight that usually only lasts a day but I am getting sick of it.
I dont want to lose my best friend but I cant handle her being mad at me everyday.
What should I do?

2007-02-23 13:51:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Girls that are: anorexic skinny? skinny? toned? medium sized (curves)?, overweight?, obese? I'm just curious as to what your thoughts may be.

2007-02-23 13:51:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and this kid were instant best friends for a few months. like we were always hanging out and being real close.
then one day he said he was too good for me and never spoke to me again.
just dropped me. someone who use to be close friends with him as well said he does that cause he thinks he is better than everyone else and gets bored easily.
im over the fact that we arent friends but i still have no closure on this. i feel used and that makes me mad.
im not obsessing over it but i feel stupid.
any comments?

2007-02-23 13:51:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

like i noticed that all the really ugly girls i n my sckool r always the ones going out wit people that r really hot

2007-02-23 13:50:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have three boys and they are all on three different basketball teams.

2007-02-23 13:50:30 · 18 answers · asked by freeme529 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here i go. My boyfriend is in the air force! We have been dating for five months, but we have had feeling for eachother for a couple of years. We have always been friends. Well he is now located 3000 miles away on the east coast. I have decided that i really want to move and he wants me too! He says he will help with my school and everything. And he even talked about getting eloped and then in a couple of years when we are stable and on our feet we will have a big wedding and all the things. This is all great, but the thing is i am eighteen and my parents are not to happy with my situation they think once i move i willl drop out and start a family, but u know me better!! But this thing has got in the way of the family they all leave me out of things and never talk to me anymore. Should i stay and wait a year or should i go and have time to build a firmer relationship before he gets deployed? I love him but i do not want to lose my family over my decisions as an adult!!

2007-02-23 13:49:53 · 3 answers · asked by BeautifulLady 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 13:49:48 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Curious mind would like to know if you have or had a girlfriend, what do/did you like about her the most. Please don't say 'She is/was soooo sexy/pretty/fine' or 'The sex was sooooo good'. I want you to really think about it and tell me deep down in your heart, what did/do you truly like about your girlfriend or fiancée? What made you say I want to make her my girlfriend or I’m ready to make her my wife.

2007-02-23 13:49:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i been trying to get a white boyfriend every since i could remember and i do have a white boyfriend beforce and i just want to know white boy perspective toward Asian girl .

2007-02-23 13:48:42 · 9 answers · asked by lindsay 1 in Singles & Dating

there are so many women claiming to be in love with a married man and claims that he is in love with them too?If they were so in love with each other and wants to be together.Why is it that the mistress nor the husband want to confront the wife and let it be known that they are in love with each other?If I were the mistress and I was in love with a married man and if he said that he loved me too and was too scared to tell his wife I would be bold enough to tell his wife myself.They do say that love can make you do some crazy things.So if neither does anything crazy like this does this mean that they really arent in love?Don't get it twisted I am married and just wanted to know due to me just reading and answering questions on here today.

2007-02-23 13:47:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My good friend have been asking me to go to swinger club, but I'm still doing my research on this. I'm use to hitting nightclubs or lounges, I dont know anything about this kind of club. As far as I know, it's a something for couples, we are 2 single females, she wants to go, but I want to know more about this environment. Can you tell me some information about this lifestyle and where can I find these clubs? A place that is more black known or a mixed race environment is a Plus.

2007-02-23 13:47:25 · 4 answers · asked by JamaicanVixen 3 in Singles & Dating

I say, you wear them, you clean them out, and if you DON'T---it's your fault if something valuable gets ruined!
Do you agree? Or do you think the laundry-doer should check all the pockets?
My hubby thinks whoever does the wash is supposed to check....

2007-02-23 13:47:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-23 13:46:14 · 9 answers · asked by AFira 1 in Friends

My roomate, Otis, is as jealous as they come. I have a job, a car and I go to school and he just sits around all day watching TV. His life s u c k s and he seems to blame me for it. I think he just wants what I have but he's too lazy to work for it. I know he steals my cigaretes and he takes money out of my wallet. I'm not stupid but I pretend I don't know because he's worthless and I hate him. Does he do this because he's jealous of me? Why is he such a parasite? Should I tar and feather him and put him on the next horse out of town?

2007-02-23 13:45:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a girlfriend, whom i really and sincerely love...i have always do my best to make our relationship meaningful and happy...I've always assure here that i am always there for her no matter what...I've remained a loyal, sincere and understanding boyfriend...I've always trusted her and supported her to her aspirations and dreams for her family...Unfortunately, we're in a distant relationship, however i always call her through the phone, greet her to all special occassions...inspite of all the sacrifices and efforts that i have done for her she suddenly gave up. I asked her why? she only told me that she's no longer comfortable with our relatiohship...It really broke my heart...I tried my best to gain her back to my heart but still she choses that we should be friends instead...I still love her so much, but i have to respect her decision, i don't want to push her so hard and now i am still reallyl affected with the situation... I need some wisdom to really move on to my life...

2007-02-23 13:45:25 · 14 answers · asked by Dexter 2 in Singles & Dating

what do guys look for the most in a women?? What qualities do you look for and why???

2007-02-23 13:45:15 · 13 answers · asked by misbehaveing 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm a 16-year old guy...I came here in U.S. from philippines last year...In Philippines, I've dated this girl and before I left, she rejected me...that hurts but when I came here and entered school...I forgot her already, I found a lot of really fine girls...and one of this fine girl caught my eye...the question is?
1.Do you think this is real-love?
2. or Am i sprung? (once I saw her, I think she's the one)
3.How should i date her? I don't have any idea on how to...because I don't know how dating works here...

2007-02-23 13:44:13 · 6 answers · asked by pa3ck 3 in Singles & Dating

as in truly in love...and if so will one of them fall out of love eventually because it's kind of torture for the other one *sigh*...do you guys believe in a soul mate...as in only one person in the world meant for you...and ur the only one meant for them?

2007-02-23 13:44:04 · 5 answers · asked by beforehecheats 1 in Singles & Dating

between us because i cant stop thikning of him or does it mean we like each other

2007-02-23 13:43:44 · 3 answers · asked by pamathason@alltel.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

in the back of my neck, i have a swollen lymph node on the right side....i have also had a sore throat for awhile now and ear aches on and off sometimes....im scared, i got tested for Stds and it wasnt that.....i hope its not something too bad, maybe pneumonia? but i dont cough

2007-02-23 13:43:26 · 8 answers · asked by renee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 21 years old I've never been kissed. I had this thing for this kid and now he is dissing me and of course he just said to me "Talk to me when you've been kissed". I mean who wants to go out with a 21 year old who has never kissed anyone before? I'm just too old I missed my shot and need to let it go and deal with the fact that I will be alone the rest of my life. I always give 100% in everything I do and yet I get criticized all the time and I'm made to think it's never good enough. I mean I don't go out and party I think of myself as more of a quiet reserved girl. I mean sure if given the opportunity I would go to a party and drink but I don't have many times where I am presented with that opportunity. But because I am not a party girl and I'm quiet no one is attracted to me.

2007-02-23 13:43:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

or do you think their just wishful thinking

2007-02-23 13:42:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

too youg or not

2007-02-23 13:41:36 · 13 answers · asked by sweet_ and_ smart 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i know my mom loves me and things, but, she abandoned me. this wasn't the first time either. she started leaving me w/ babysitters for 4 days(when she was suppose to come home that night) since i was a baby. ive had 2 live w/ my grandparents 2 many times 2 count and i have had 2 move about 15 times within 15 yrs. i live w/ my dad now but i can't seem 2 forgive. i want 2 but i still cant stand 2 tlk 2 her. i feel sick tht its come 2 this but everytime i think about her i feel like crying and think about wht she has done 2 me. i don't no wht 2 do???
plzz help
thank you

2007-02-23 13:40:07 · 18 answers · asked by Sarah B. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Recently, I've found myself looking at my best friend in a 'more than friendly' way, and I am unsure as to whether or not I should just tell her straight out how I feel, or hope my feelings will change. We've always been close, and quite touchy feely, but I've noticed the way she touches me is different, and sometimes I catch her looking at me in a way, that makes me wonder if she may feel the same way too. She's always been known as a bit of a 'goer', and she's always been into men, drugs, drink etc. since I've known her. People have always told me to steer well clear, as she's 'trouble' but I can't help myself. She's told me once (after a few too many) that she would have sex with me any day of the week, but I want more than that. It's like she's told me I'd be just 'sex' but the way she acts tells me different, as if she is leading me on because she loves the attention. Do I tell her straight out how I feel, or try and convince myself she's 'no good' & hope it will pass? x

2007-02-23 13:40:04 · 9 answers · asked by Gemma L 1 in Friends

a lot of my guy friends like me and i dont know what to do. i dont like any of them and they wont leave me alone. ive tried letting them down easy but they just dont seem to get it. i dont want to weird a good friendship.

2007-02-23 13:39:42 · 4 answers · asked by karategirl2563 2 in Friends

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2007-02-23 13:38:47 · 31 answers · asked by ccr152 2 in Friends

Even having found some one so intimate and fulfilling, why he still find it difficult to get detached from his family (legal wife and children). Why he wants to have both his family as well as this someone special (who is also married, and is not divorced). Is this just related to sex? Are there any evidences that man returns back to his family, leaving this someone special to suffer, after his sexual desires are fulfilled, and is it related to any age of a man.

2007-02-23 13:38:34 · 15 answers · asked by wilgol 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we were married at 5 months and I left after being married for 2 he was beginning to get abusive, do Its been almost a year since Ive seen him do I say Im seperated or single?

2007-02-23 13:38:05 · 6 answers · asked by MyName 2 in Singles & Dating

Well a few days ago, I was walikng 2 P.E. and Gerrit (crush) walked out in front of me and saw me 1st thing. He laughed and looking around me he never saw with short hair and walked with me insted of his friends. He walked around the lightpole and came in back of me and said boo. Gerrit laughed and then said nothing until i had to turn to get to the gym, then said bye. and he waited until he knew i was actualy going to the gym.

2007-02-23 13:37:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating