Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

Well I moved to my hometown about two and a half years ago and about that same time my best friend started using crystal meth. I didn't know this until almost a week ago because he leads a very different life at night and only just confessed this to me. When he did tell me however, I blew up at him. I asked him, rather loudly, why he hadn't told me before and asked hime why he couldn't trust me until now. He was also planning that night to go see 'a friend' who has crystal meth'. I told him the he could not go and this only worsened our argument. Now we are not talking to each other and at school we avoid each other like we have a plague. What should I do? Was the argument my fault? He told me that he has given up drugs but he could have easily fallen back into an old habit right? Should I not have said anyhting? Please help! I have an extremly guilty consious.

2007-02-23 14:05:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I don't want to break her heart so I want to let her down as gently as possible without lying or being mean. She really has a crush on me but I don't feel the same way about her. I like her as a friend but nothing romantic or anything. I'm not seeing anyone else. What do I tell her?

I see her at least once a week and she clings to me like a magnet. I can't not go to the place where I see her because I like going there. She also has my phone number and calls me about three times a week. Hope I gave you guys enough information.

2007-02-23 14:05:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, recently I told my close guy friend I liked him and I asked him out. After a while of him thinking, he told me he wanted to be friends. This was Friday, last week. For the whole week, he's pretty much been ignoring me. We ride on the same bus and there are a few people on it, so we talk in the same conversations. He just doesn't talk to me. He hasn't been acting like a friend at all. Before I told him, we were really close, but I took the risk of telling him and now I regret it so much. He use to tell me about his life, sports, what he wanted to do in the future, about his ex-girlfriends, and a lot. What should I do? Because I really want to be friends still, even though he is acting like a butthole (for lack of a better word). I want to talk to him, just as it had been before, we may not become as close as before, but as long as I talk to him, I'll stop worrying and get over him just wanting to be friends. But I can't without talking together and things being ok in our friendship.

2007-02-23 14:04:39 · 7 answers · asked by Rachel E 1 in Friends

during junior high school, brad and I secretly liked eachother, and we never knew until now(after 5 years!) he thought i was out of his league & i thought the same in return. we are planning on hanging out one day. do you think i'll have a chance with him? I don't want to talk to him because I'm afraid he's the kind of guy that likes to play games with girls

2007-02-23 14:04:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

correction academy he 21 years old hes my baby and i worry about him anyways hell be gone for 3-4 months how do i cope with him leaving so long will worry and miss hm? then worry once hes in the prison working even if he goes to a place hes away from the prisoners and works close by how do i get over this feeling?

2007-02-23 14:04:36 · 4 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family

2007-02-23 14:04:08 · 32 answers · asked by apollo 1 in Friends

Say you never had any interest in this person at all. You've never given this person any clue that you might be interested in them. And the person latches onto you and always mysteriously appears wherever you are, even at your job. How do you know it's stalking? What can you do about it, short of calling the police to handle it?

2007-02-23 14:04:04 · 10 answers · asked by Texasippi Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm in the six grade and my breasts are one of the biggest in the class. All the boys always stare at me like I'm a ps3. I think it's rude and sick.

2007-02-23 14:03:50 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah P 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been friends with benefits with a guy for four months now, but I want more. Trying to make this situation into a real relationship hasn't gone good. Should I continue to try and make a relationship with my FWB or break it off and try to make a relationship with someone else.

2007-02-23 14:02:58 · 6 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Singles & Dating

the guy i want is mixed hazel eyes in shape but can't find one help me plez

2007-02-23 14:01:20 · 21 answers · asked by mahassa84 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean it's like i freeze in my tracks. It's like my brain is doing more complicated calculations to process the concept of a female with blond and red hair. In other words i love it!! I do!! I go crazy over it. It's like there's a full moon outside and i just turned into a werewolf. I also love white girls with nice blue and green eyes!! I am Hispanic by the way if that tells you something and i grew up in New York until 19 years, i never really seen a lot of white girls, because every one in my school in New York were from different countries. I came to GA @ the age of 20.

2007-02-23 14:00:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

idk why but whenever someone who i think is really good looking, i get really intimidated and act totally different. what's your opinion?

2007-02-23 13:59:18 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 13:59:15 · 18 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I would think about a divorce, but my wife is pregnant. I tried to love her the best I can, but I dream about the one i love nearly every night. I can't stop thinking about her....and ist already more than 2 years ago that I saw her the last time! What should I do?

2007-02-23 13:59:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think its great

2007-02-23 13:58:54 · 19 answers · asked by safarlsun33 4 in Singles & Dating

Hey what should my friend do,this boy dat she likes,but he tries to talk to her and looks at her,but she likeS him and she doesnt know wat to do?She doesnt noe if he really like her...
WHAT SHOULD SHE DO,SHOULD SHE MAKE THE FIRST MOVE?? YES OR NO?
PLZ ANWSER THIS!!!!!!!!

2007-02-23 13:58:29 · 9 answers · asked by ♔♡No DeFiNiTiOn♡♔ 1 in Singles & Dating

yesterday in class this reall cute girl sitting next to me at random asked if i had a girlfriend. I said No. Now today when she was talking to sombody on the other side of me, she rested her head on my shoulder. I am wondering if there is a pattern here.

2007-02-23 13:58:01 · 14 answers · asked by Blasto 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my 'friend' is sometimes sweet, but sometimes a *****!!!! She hates when i hang out with other people, and she akes me SOOOOO mad!!!!!!!!!! I can't tell her whats going on, or she''ll be crushed, but i dont get how cause she is a
*****!!! I HATE HER SOMETIMES!!!!!! her mom sais no when my 'friend' sais something, but then my 'friend' gets all mad and screams and shouts and is mad at her mom!!! and her mom finally sais yes. HER MOM IS SOOO EASYGOING my 'friend' always gets her way!!!!! and i am not the only person that feels that way about her! its also my other friends (and this time i mean a friend) and they roll thire eyes everytime she gets her way, she thinks that her life is bad, BUT SHE GETS EVERYTHING SHE WANTS BEACUSE SHE CRIES! HELP ME!!!!!!! PLEASE!!!!

2007-02-23 13:57:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The feelings for the girl you are attracted to, might/might not turn into love. And there is this other girl, who you are also attracted to, and she loves you very much, and you have feelings for her. Which girl would u consider more seriously?

2007-02-23 13:57:40 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Is there anyone out there that woudl like to share their experience of divorce with me. I can't bare the pain of divorce anymore. I feel like my life has no meaning. How can a person that u love so much do something betray u like that. I nights I can't sleep, my heart beats fast and I feel as though I am about to die (as it get's difficult for me to breathe). I alway ask myself, why does it hurt so much. I don't think this pain will ever go away, it's a life long thing that I have to live by. I want to get married again but at times I get scared, I don't ever want to go through this experience again; I don't think I will survive the second time around. Is there anyone out there that had an experience like mine and would want to share it with me.

2007-02-23 13:57:18 · 10 answers · asked by Canada416 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is so selfish, he keeps telling me he'll change do you think he will? it's been 10 years, always buying him things and making sure his health is good and his needs are met even his college and nothing in return what do I do, we have no kids together, and I am in my 30's do I keep holding on and pray he will change or what?

2007-02-23 13:56:40 · 9 answers · asked by Gina 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'll try to make this as short as possible.. Um.. when my boyfriend & I met, he was going through some things with his ex. It was an instant attraction between us. He told me that he wanted to be a comendian and was going to NYC to pursue it. As our friendship grew, he told me that he had a baby on the way, and that he had to go be with his baby. He also said he wanted to be with me.

Then all of a sudden, a girl named Liz popped up. He put me on a waiting list. He said he didn't know who he wanted to be with b/c he liked both of us. As time went on, we got closer, and soon as he found out I was a virgin, his mind was almost made up. I almost think that if I wasn't a vigin, he would've chose Liz. So, he claims to like me so much. But he never asked for my number. Yet, he had been to Liz's house. So, last year on Valentine's Day, he aksed for my number. We've been talking ever since. We got together March 30. But we've had problems.

All of a sudden, his ex isnt having a baby.

2007-02-23 13:55:57 · 16 answers · asked by precious_angel321 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Pretty straightforward, I guess.

2007-02-23 13:55:37 · 3 answers · asked by Psyche 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I used to have an addiction. I stopped that addiction without the help of therapy. Now, I know why I needed that addiction because it used to make feel happy inside.

Now, no more addiction. I feel so stressed out. All my friend have a boyfriend or had a boyfriend But I never had a boyfriend. That never bother me before but now that I'm 18, it bothers me.

I am putting a stress on myself to study atleast 6 hours a day. Well, I am NOT good at anything else so I have to be atleast good at school.

2007-02-23 13:55:02 · 12 answers · asked by Pretty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I want to get married to the love of my life since sophomore year. But, my family doesn't want me too. And they say it is either him or us. And if I choose him then I am out of their picture and everyone will not forgive me and dislike me. And I really dont know what to choose? Please help. I can only choose one cant be both so which one should I choose?

2007-02-23 13:54:29 · 16 answers · asked by jsmb124 1 in Marriage & Divorce

were kinda friendz but makeout all the time and stuffzz. Is that okay?? He's 19 and I'm 16.

2007-02-23 13:53:25 · 4 answers · asked by Maria T 1 in Singles & Dating

WHY

2007-02-23 13:53:06 · 5 answers · asked by stephanie l 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 13:52:54 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 13:52:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am asking why men stop showing affection after a certain period of time after being married. I feel like my husband is too confortable.

2007-02-23 13:52:17 · 9 answers · asked by pinkpink 1 in Marriage & Divorce