idk why but whenever someone who i think is really good looking, i get really intimidated and act totally different. what's your opinion?
2007-02-23 13:59:18 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems unusual to me. I get very intimidated by very smelly farts!
2007-02-23 14:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ misschels ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that you need to get over it and I"m going to tell you why. I'm not stuck on myself, nor am I bragging, but I'm rather attractive. I was a budweiser model for several years and now I'm in the best shape of my life after having five kids. However, when I was younger, the only guys that would ever approach me were the ones that were so stuck on themselves and focused on looks, that it literally made me sick. I didn't want to be somene's charm on the arm. I longed for the attention of someone who wanted to get to know me for who I was, that could look past what was on the outside. SOmeone who could be real and make me laugh. And here's more truth...it's actually harder for us to approach you than it is for you to approach us. If you want to break the habit...try humor and manners...it works every time sweetie. I work in an office now where I'm running into lawyers and judges on a daily basis who think they have the right to come on to me....and all I focus on is the real guys, much like yourself.....so by all means...approach these "pretty" people. Beauty is only skin deep....we are all human.
2007-02-23 14:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am exactly the same. Whenever I'm in the presence of a good looking person, my mind seems to go blank and slowly shut down. I also feel that my confidence takes a quite a hit. Don't worry, we all feel it at times.
To counteract it, you just need to pretend that they are just like "you and me" because in reality they are.
:)
2007-02-23 14:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by xcutiejessx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude. its what being hot is about, and what hot women dont understand. they intimidate people. i got a friend that, like, dang hot, but she doesnt think so herself. what she doesnt know is relations dont work out for her because guys want this and that in a girl, but when they find it, its just intimidating. every one does it. even the hotties. its more than natural.^_*
2007-02-23 14:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been the victim of bullying? If so then that could be your problem. Honestly just casually take a deep breath and realize that we are all beautiful people. Sounds cheesey but really it works.
2007-02-23 14:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by Silly me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't know what business they have talking to you. You don't need them for anything, do you? Maybe you feel like any argument you have with them with end with them insulting your appearance--and you don't want to hear that so you become timid/shy from confrontation.
Just do what works for you in life and don't spend too much time thinking about it.
2007-02-23 14:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your probably shy, never seen anybody as pretty, never talked 2 them dont know how they feel, u probably dont no how 2 act around a pretty looking girl, u dont know there feelings trust me im a girl take my opioin learn from me
2007-02-23 14:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone does it
2007-02-23 14:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by oioioi1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋