So, recently I told my close guy friend I liked him and I asked him out. After a while of him thinking, he told me he wanted to be friends. This was Friday, last week. For the whole week, he's pretty much been ignoring me. We ride on the same bus and there are a few people on it, so we talk in the same conversations. He just doesn't talk to me. He hasn't been acting like a friend at all. Before I told him, we were really close, but I took the risk of telling him and now I regret it so much. He use to tell me about his life, sports, what he wanted to do in the future, about his ex-girlfriends, and a lot. What should I do? Because I really want to be friends still, even though he is acting like a butthole (for lack of a better word). I want to talk to him, just as it had been before, we may not become as close as before, but as long as I talk to him, I'll stop worrying and get over him just wanting to be friends. But I can't without talking together and things being ok in our friendship.
2007-02-23 14:04:39 · 7 answers · asked by Rachel E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What you should do is show him that his ignoring you does not bother you. (Ignore him as well). When he sees that he has not gotten to you and that you could care less if he speaks to you or not, He will come around and begin talking to you again. Who knows? He just might want the same as you did in the beginning. Don't allow this to get you down. Because if he was your true friend before this had happened he would still be your true friend now.
And if he decides not to be your true friend anymore then he never was a true friend to begin with.You should never regret that you had told him how you truly feel. He is the one that is hiding his true feelings not you.
So just look at it this way it was his loss not yours.
Good Luck
2007-03-02 02:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong enough to ignore them too... This so called friend knows that it is bothering you, and what worse you are letting that person win..Who is laughing now... If I were you, I would turn the table around and pretend like you are having fun, laughing, enjoying the company and all...
I say to you is that be strong, you are worth it, and you never know, you might just have fun with turning the table around..Make it a game..
2007-03-03 04:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that guy isn't gay.....he just wants to be your friend and if he keeps on ignoring you then just give up and find another guy cause your friend likes a girl....Try to call him and tell him how you feel when he started ignoring you...just try your best.
2007-03-03 03:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by Just loved myself 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. Start out slow and when he kind of forgot about you asking him out. Start hamging out with him more and maybe get another crush.
2007-03-03 11:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by resse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them how you feel and don't be afraid to show your feelings otherwise to them it is like you are a shadow. If you are shy you get anywhere in life. I had that problem and i never liked what they said to me. but now I express my feelings and it is great.
2007-02-23 14:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain how u feel and how u want ur frend to stop ignoring u. u cant just let sum1 step on ur heart lyk dat
2007-03-03 12:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by drkdevil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend about this situation.
2007-03-03 05:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥Diana♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋