I had a girlfriend, whom i really and sincerely love...i have always do my best to make our relationship meaningful and happy...I've always assure here that i am always there for her no matter what...I've remained a loyal, sincere and understanding boyfriend...I've always trusted her and supported her to her aspirations and dreams for her family...Unfortunately, we're in a distant relationship, however i always call her through the phone, greet her to all special occassions...inspite of all the sacrifices and efforts that i have done for her she suddenly gave up. I asked her why? she only told me that she's no longer comfortable with our relatiohship...It really broke my heart...I tried my best to gain her back to my heart but still she choses that we should be friends instead...I still love her so much, but i have to respect her decision, i don't want to push her so hard and now i am still reallyl affected with the situation... I need some wisdom to really move on to my life...
2007-02-23 13:45:25 · 14 answers · asked by Dexter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
busy yourself with different things. you'll still miss her, if you need talk to her but with each day do it less and less. if you keep yourself busy enough, you'll see that you don't have that much time...slowly wean yourself away. its impossible to do all it once.
2007-02-23 13:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by parveeahmed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 20:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Felicia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea.. i kno what you mean i was the same way .. and until you find someone new that really truely feels the same way you feel for them your love will never fullfilly go away.. but what i did was said to myself if were meant to be together then we eventually . that took a lot. but after wards it seemed more true.. i tried calling less.. maybe once a week . or once 2wice a week or even checking once a month.. (whatever steps you need )... helps get your mind off of it.. but still helps maintain friendship..
then the main thing i had to do was open myself to dating other people.. or at least socializing myself more with friends... and ppl i enjoy.. (keeps you from feeling helpless and unwanted... and gives things a more postivive attitude... those are things that really helped and still sometimes in the back of my mind i can never say i dont love him... but i say right now im not in love with him or ready to be in arelationship.. good luck . sorry so long.
2007-02-23 13:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by lndsylcs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has been depressed for 2 years,, how long have you ever been engaged? If he replaced into depressed, why might he ask you to marry him? Or did he propose to you? or you to him,, that could have bearing on your concern. this is a threat that a guy or lady might sense so down approximately their existence that they actually start up thinking they are going to destroy the lives of the human beings close to to them. despite the fact that i think of this is uncommon. If i replaced into engaged, i could be excited and not depressed. yet that;s me. on the different hand he can get counseling and issues must be ok or in line with hazard he's attempting to discover an excuse to break the engagement.,, as in getting chilly ft. ascertain that he in fact is depressed and if he's,, help him get help and he's in simple terms changing his techniques then this is extra effectual now to do some thing previously you get married. this is a threat that no count what occurs, you will no longer provide up loving him in the journey that your love so deep for him. actual love is unconditional. reliable good fortune to you and no count if it fairly isn't any longer meant to be then sorry to assert despite the fact that it won't happenmm your marraige to him besides.
2016-10-16 08:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by trinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way is time and it takes awhile but you will just not care oneday its hard to explain just stop talking to her cause that is gonna make you think about her longer just give yourself some time away from hearing her or talking to her its the fastest way and you talkin to her doesnt mean your gonna get her back it actually means that she has the upper hand and will choose when and how she wants to talk to you just let her go man if its meant to be shell be back asking you you not asking her dont fall for the little lead on she does cause its just gonna mess with you trust me
2007-02-23 13:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it's over accept it and move on. It always hurts at first but after a while the pain subsides. You will meet someone else on down the road, so keep your chin up, keep busy and have fun.
2007-02-23 13:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by hotmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear friend....i can feel ur feelings....don't be so emotional...God has given us this valuable life to be smiling, happy and spread happines......value it.....
you know..life is full of ups and downs, it does not stop with one person, it goes on and on.. come on live ur life to ur fullest, let her go as she want to and if she cares for you and if ur friendship is true she will come back and it may be too late but you will feel satisfied as you don't know you may get a best friend in some one else who is with you as Life is a Mysttery..
Live it and don't stop,
My best wishes are with You......So keep smiling.....
2007-02-23 17:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by Bharat N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds brother. I'm in the same deal. But I'm seeing that time has made me stronger, strong enough to move and realize that if it was meant to be, it would have been. Good luck.
2007-02-23 13:56:45 · answer #8 · answered by Beachbum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT TALK WITH HER FOR SOME DAYS (I KNOW ITS HARD BUT U HAVE TO FOR UR LOVE)WHEN SHE ASKS THE REASONS TELL HER U WERE BUSY MAKE HER BELIEVE U FORGOT UR LOVE ON HER BUT NEVER IGNORE HER TALK HER ON GENERAL MATTES AND ONE UR LOVE WILL DAWN ON HER AND SHE WILL BE BACK
2007-02-23 16:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write about you feelings. keep a journal
2007-02-23 13:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by metro7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋