Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

I started 3 days ago...and my Wedding is in 3 weeks....March 18...
So far I booked the Ceremony Spot, Reception spot, officiant, photographer, tuxedos, my DRESS, have invited my people via phone, bridesmaid dress, rings....still waiting on catering...

2007-02-23 15:18:16 · 16 answers · asked by A Person I am 3 in Weddings

I'm talking about SW!NG!NG. This site keeps blocking this question.

2007-02-23 15:18:12 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I am Really shy anyway and one of my especially closest friends (well, ex friends) betrayed me and now I'm not just shy, I am scared to death to open up to anybody anymore or get close to them. I want to, I'm just scared to now and I dont know how to get rid of this fear of being close and open with people again like I used to be able to be. Has anybody else experienced this too? How'd you get past the fear? Thanks A Bunch for your help in advance.

2007-02-23 15:18:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay I have been with this man off and on for alot of years about 10. We are not married and really don't have any plans to marry any time soon. However we do have 3 kids togethor and we are togethor. We don't see anyone else. We don't live togethor. Okay my question is this we are going to california for the whole city pass thing very expensive trip. Should I pay his way since he is not working? At first I was all for it but now Im starting to hesitate we are leaving in 5 days. I think of my kids though getting to spend thier first real vacation with mom and dad. Then I think im a fool. And ya I really don't want to go with out him. What do I do? I can't think of anyone else I rather go with besides him and my children. Thanks in advance ..sherry

2007-02-23 15:16:28 · 9 answers · asked by borednomaha 1 in Family

Ok...me and my friend have liked the same guy. And i just found this out today. And so i said that if she wanted I would let her go out w/ him if he said yes. Well now i'm 1/2 way feeling lost and sad and i was crying earlier and well can anyone make me feel even more better? like if i did the right thing or if i gave up way to easy?

2007-02-23 15:15:56 · 7 answers · asked by savy 3 in Singles & Dating

I am the youngest in my family. My brother and sister always seem to be "right" in my parents' eyes. One little mistake will change everything good I've done for the rest of the week. I don't seem to get credit for hardly anything, and I'm very mad. I am on shaky grounds with my family. I can't be too upfront or I will just be labled as whining. What do you think?

2007-02-23 15:15:32 · 5 answers · asked by Rose♫ 3 in Family

why do guys like the short gurls and not the tall gurls? would u date a gurl taller or tall as yourself?

2007-02-23 15:15:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this "friend" that has been being mean to me. she bosses me around and is beginning to get on my nerves. we kind of just started hanging out but we have been hanging out for like 4 months. sometimes i am afraid to say something to her. Example: there is my different friends b-day party coming up i was invited and she wasnt she said it wouldnt be nice to go since she didnt get invited. this friend that invited me i am kinda close to. i am gonna go but i dont want her mad. what do i do?

2007-02-23 15:14:36 · 12 answers · asked by softball expert in da house!!!!! 1 in Friends

maybe this sound weird but i've try to loved him but it's going to imposssible for me... as i'm the one who raise my daughter & do most of the expenses (for my gurl) & for him.. we just meet once @ twice in a month... the rest i stay with my parent... anyone...can u pls give an ADVISE....

2007-02-23 15:14:33 · 12 answers · asked by mamamni 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel like I have very little respect for my boyfriend's father, seeing as he: is a chronic marijuana user, used to make/deal crack when my boyfriend was a little boy, has made little effort to try and get to know me (even when I have tried very hard to create a relationship), is a heavy smoker who won't respect that I am allergic to tobacco smoke (in MY home!), and was a deadbeat dad to his first child who he has absolutely no relationship with. My dad is an oncologist (cancer doctor), who taught me to believe that any drug abuse is unacceptable, so I really have very little respect for his dad. We are getting married in a year and a half, but I'm starting to worry that my feelings towards his dad will be troublesome in our marriage. I have explained to my boyfriend that I am worried, but he refuses to see a problem with anything I have mentioned. Any advice would be helpful!

2007-02-23 15:14:17 · 31 answers · asked by jennifer_lwt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, here's the deal, I know I should be asking this maybe to a marriage counselour, but what happens is, I've been married for a 1 yr now, and me and my husband fight allll thheee time, I mean we do have good times together, but it's come to a point where we're barely intimate with each other, we are sometimes but it's not often, it almost feels like we lost interest in each other. I'm kind of a jealous person, and he hates it, he's not jealous AT ALL, which I don't like, I tell him to be a little bit more organized, he doesn't like it, I try to communicate with him about things that I don't like between us, and he tries to be as fast and to point as possible, he hates to have conversations, specially if it's going to be long. I don't know if it's because of the way we were raised, but I was raised very close to my family, so I'm very attached to people, I'm sensitive to a point I guess, and he's just cold hearted I guess, I don't know what to think anymore! I'm 23 so is he btw.

2007-02-23 15:14:12 · 14 answers · asked by CuriousMe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I shouldn't even call her my friend... When we were in 6th grade she told me that I wasn't cool enough to ever be her friend, and pretty much made fun of me from then on. She told all the other girls any secrets I told her, and sold me out. We attended a very small school, and rumors that she spread traveled *quickly*
When we got to high school, she started talking to me again, and everytime I see her, I just, seriously, want to hit her.
I've ignored her, and I've blown her off, but she keeps talking to me The things is, a lot of my friends now, are friends with her, and they don't understand why I don't like her. I don't want to make it sound like I'm holding a grudge, I know I am, but that girl ruined my life, and I didn't really have any friends till I was in 8th grade.

I guess I'm asking should I confront her, and ask if she realizes how much she hurt me? Or should I just keep ignoring her and one day snap and rip her head off. (I'm aiming for that last one =P )

2007-02-23 15:13:11 · 12 answers · asked by eekerrs 3 in Friends

My ex boyfriend and I were perfect for each other and were together for a year...then he kissed another girl while he was on vacation so I broke up with him...
Now it is a year later and I can not trust him but we still like each other a lot....more than we have ever liked anyone else and he is really sorry...
Should we get back together?

2007-02-23 15:12:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm mostly around guys these days because of my guy being out of work, but they drink too much and I'm scared I might start too.I'm not an alcoholic but I am a light weight what should I do they are fun

2007-02-23 15:12:12 · 7 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you think is better when you kiss a girl..lip gloss or no lip gloss. Does lip gloss seem disgusting to you when U kiss a girl or does it not bother you? Also, what do you think about girls who wear make-up. Make-up that looks good,though not the kind that takes away your beauty.

2007-02-23 15:11:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, my boyfriend just broke up with me and I figured out that he goes with my BFF. I was so POed and now my X-boyfriend and my so-called Best Friend wont talk to me and Im not talking to them! Anyone know what I should do?

2007-02-23 15:10:04 · 7 answers · asked by T R 2 in Singles & Dating

OMG!!! ppl i am here @ my house with my friend and we are beyond bored so plz help us out lads and give us some rockin' ideas of what we could do that is leagal! hehe haha
love you to death and you know now help me out plz!
Love alwayz,
Kandy!

2007-02-23 15:09:56 · 3 answers · asked by Kandy 1 in Friends

I'm tired of my obsession of guys, and of liking the guys I currently like, because it's causing me frustration and emotional distress. And I don't want to feel this way anymore......

I become so sick and tired of not having anyone (I'm almost 20, and never had a boyfriend before), and I wish I didn't have the urge to be with anyone or to need affection. I wish I could focus on more important things, instead of obsessing about guys.

What can I do?

2007-02-23 15:09:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In class this guy and a few other guys were sitting and talking and kept looking my way.Then three of them turn my way and one says he likes you,they are all agreeing on this.Said guy won't make eye contact keeps looking away and nervously smiling.This guy then threatens to beat the other guy up jokingly if he doesn't stop.We have two classes together and he still won't make eyec contact.The other guys encouraged me to ask him to the school dance.Does he like me?

2007-02-23 15:09:29 · 14 answers · asked by movin12006 3 in Singles & Dating

4 months of not seeing each other is a torture! How can I make him come back to me? Any ideas on how to move a guy?

2007-02-23 15:09:28 · 6 answers · asked by silly girl.... 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 15:09:23 · 15 answers · asked by mahendhran m 1 in Weddings

My gf of 1 year has is just finishing the police academy. Well another cadet is hitting on her. He has written her 2 love letters, and even left a voicemail saying he had feeling for her (yes she showed me the letters and played me the message) She told him she was in a relationship and loved me, but he keeps it up, he now calls her boo and even called when we went away for the weekend knowing we were away. She says he is harmless and wants to be his friend b/c he's is the only person that was nice to her there and helped her. I just dont trust him, and now we keep having the same arguement and I tell her he's winning. She keeps telling me she comes home to me at the end of the day, heck he even drops her off here. But I just dont trust him. I just dont know what to do. Should i be mad and jealous??

2007-02-23 15:08:51 · 11 answers · asked by ryper92 3 in Singles & Dating

pamper me for a day, only a day till i can get a job and return the compliment?

2007-02-23 15:07:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 15:07:14 · 10 answers · asked by Ned 3 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy that i have a major crush on..his name is Justin. He's a really good friend to me and we keep contact A LOT!!! He is funny and cool. You see.. there was this one time where we were talking and we were playing a question game... he asked this:
"Okay.. this is a What If Question so when i asked you this don't freak.. it's just a what if question and it not true ok... What If.. I asked you out?" Then i told him "I would have to think about it"
he said: "then what would you say?"
i said: "umm.. you're cool so then yes.."
Do you guys think that he might have a crush on me to??
I mean this really happened but he told me that it just a question and part of the game... i also asked him one.. and i asked if if he thinks i'm cute and he said yes.. so i really do like him... but i want to tell him in a way he won't stay speechless. CAN U HELP ME, PLEASE? thanx!!

2007-02-23 15:06:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been together for 6 years ,we have a five year old boy and a girl on the way .we never find time for romance he works alot and i take care of everything else .does anyone have any suggestions?

2007-02-23 15:06:54 · 13 answers · asked by babydoll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel this way.

2007-02-23 15:06:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was dating a guy for about 2 months and I wasn't happy with the way things were going. When I was talking to him on the phone one night, he asked to see me the next day, and I said, "maybe we shouldn't see each other for awhile." I guess he took that to mean we were through, and he hasn't called me. It's been one week. He was really into me, I know, I just wasn't feeling it as strongly as he was and I thought I should get out before I got in too deep. He's very sweet and sensitive, and I feel awful that I hurt him. I want to talk to him again, but my friends say I shouldn't call him because it will confuse him. I'm pretty sure he's not "the one" but I do care about him, and I miss him. Did I handle this absolutely wrong? What should I do?

2007-02-23 15:06:43 · 5 answers · asked by chardonnay 2 in Singles & Dating

i need to know, i cant tell if i love him, or if i just like him alot!!! llol
im lame im sorry
:D

2007-02-23 15:06:15 · 14 answers · asked by Manda K 3 in Singles & Dating

I got married in April 2004 under Hindu Customs. Marriage is not registered yet. 4 months after marriage I lost my job. I did one big mistake, I never told anybody about this, because I was confident that very soon I would re-establish myself & I didn't want to make them worried. I started new business. I lied everybody that my job profile was changed. I had to invest al my time and money to establish that business. After 8 months, my wife, parents and her parents got a shock of life, when they came to know that I was jobless. My wife then supported me, she was working & she ran my kitchen. I used to travel a lot and never given her time. It took me another year to be in comfirtable situation. Till then my wife's patience got over & she left me & went back to her parents. She took transfer in her job. We had some fights over this issue as well. I am now well matured and well settled in life. I love her and want her back, but she insists for divorce. Kindly sugest me how to save my marr

2007-02-23 15:06:06 · 19 answers · asked by gaurav 1 in Marriage & Divorce