maybe this sound weird but i've try to loved him but it's going to imposssible for me... as i'm the one who raise my daughter & do most of the expenses (for my gurl) & for him.. we just meet once @ twice in a month... the rest i stay with my parent... anyone...can u pls give an ADVISE....
2007-02-23 15:14:33 · 12 answers · asked by mamamni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can use that crappy line that women always use:
"I LOVE YOU BUT NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU" this just basically means you want to screw other people.
2007-02-23 15:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married and have a child, you are a family. Families should live in their own homes. Why did you love your husband in the first place? Regardless, he is also your child's father and is important to her life so you can't just think of your own feelings.
Love is a choice. Start showing him love and you will get it back.
Live together, work together, laugh together and things will improve. Every marriage has it's rocky places, but you will survive if you just do the right thing. For better or for worse is in the vows for that reason.
2007-02-23 15:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by maybelline512 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't live together and you don't love him ??? Now I'm thinking YOU need to grow up and act like an adult. I have no idea why someone gets married to live with their parents and not their husband...but I'm thinking someone here is either lying or an idiot...
So drop the act...tell him you want a divorce (you don't live together anyway.) Grow up and move out of your parents home.
and the word is advice...
2007-02-23 15:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world are you staying with your parents and not living with your husband if i may ask???? You need to be living with your husband. You also chose to marry him so live with it and seek counselilng and help so you can fall in love with him again. Have him see a marriage counselor with you as well. Loving him is only impossible if you choose it to be. Loving someone is a choice you know.
2007-02-23 15:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, you can't force yourself to love anyone, and you can't force yourself to stop if you do love someone. I think your husband knows you don't love him anymore and he is just hanging on for the sex. those little sparkles in your eyes are gone and he sees that, believe me. you don't need to tell him, just start doing your own thing more often and he will eventually drift away.
I notice you keep saying my girl and not our girl, he probably notices you have cast him aside also. no use in rubbing his nose in it, like it or not, it isn't his place to make you love him. if we could make others love us, the world would be a different place for sure.
2007-02-23 15:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no need to explain , just say to the direct point i dont love u any more
but , be careful and think of 10 th times why u dont love him any more , many wants to save their marriage and u are , my god , what a world
2007-02-23 16:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he cant stand to be around you because you are still breastfeeding your 3 year old daughter!!!!! I bet he will bring that up in any kinda custody case your divorce brings on!!!!! AND i bet he would win!
2007-02-23 17:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont love him, tell him! And just keep telling him till it gets through his head. If you dont love him - you cant make yourself love him and that is all there is to it!
2007-02-23 22:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by Eve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce him to your new boyfriend. Why do people bother to get married anyway? It's so not worth it. You just end up like this.
STOP GETTING MARRIED, PEOPLE!!!
2007-02-23 15:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a divorce and raise your daughter
2007-02-23 15:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋