Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

this is getting annoying now my and my girlfriend just split up (on a break)and she went away for the week and i said to have no contact for the whole week exept she broke the rules (not that im playing by the book) and txt me but i dont know if she still likes me and im not sure if i like her (sooo childish i knw) but she begged me not to go into the army and be with her so i stopped for her and now i think she wants to be just friends and i didnt stop my career for ''just friends''(everyone knw that being friends just dont work unless u never really cared at all) so this is going to be like all or nothing no setting for second best but shud i just tell her way to go or try and fix things im not going bk to someone who dont want me

2007-02-21 23:15:18 · 15 answers · asked by kezz247 2 in Singles & Dating

Advantages of getting a mail order bride instead of asking a woman on a date.

1. Men never have to humiliate themselves after yet another rejection.
2. Shy men have an opportunity to enjoy life.
3. Shy men don't have to worry about a snobby stuck up Paris Hilton-type of girl making fun of him.
4. Men won't be afraid of rejection.
5. Men won't have to deal with fake phone numbers from clubs, women not returning calls, etc.
6. Men who are virgins won't kill themselves
7. Men will never be lonely. They will always have a women to come home to.
8. No more chasing after women trying to get laid.

Advantages of asking a girl on a date instead of getting a mail order bride:

1. ???

Can anyone add to this list?

(legitimate reasons please, not the old cliches of "human trafficking is wrong" or "I don't wanna buy a slave" The answer I am looking for is what EXACTLY is the benefit of risking my self esteem and putting my heart on the line just to get girls to like me?)

2007-02-21 23:12:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so umm i like my bot friend a lot i mean a lot!! but..........i also like his brother!! what should i do??!! i mea i dont think he knows that i like him so i could try to keep it on the low but i can only do so much i need help hear guyzzz got eney thing????

2007-02-21 23:12:30 · 13 answers · asked by shelbieT 1 in Singles & Dating

I have received a wedding invite for the service followed by a black tie reception. What kind of dress should I buy? Does it have to be black?

2007-02-21 23:11:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well the question pretty much explains its self.
Just to make sure, I thought it only means "Hey we are good friends, Good night"
Don't want to be sending out the wrong message.

2007-02-21 23:11:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

emotionally available, smart, honest and down-to-earth guys over 40 who also appreciate children in this part of the world?

2007-02-21 23:10:39 · 19 answers · asked by goodcompanypls 2 in Singles & Dating

What is wrong with me, I am quite pretty, there is this girl in my class who is prettier and guys like fon over her???
what is wrong with me??

2007-02-21 23:10:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Aunt will arrive here in Manila on April with her foreign friend whom she wants me to marry. She said it´s for my own good because i can have a better opportunity when i am in the US. I don´t know the guy but he´s my Aunt´s Bestfriend, I´m only 21 and he´s 34, my Aunt told me that he´s a really nice guy. I am the bread winner of my family.
Should i go for it? I have a boyfriend whom i love so much! But i need to support my family because i´m the only one they can depend on. what should i do?

2007-02-21 23:10:04 · 9 answers · asked by (sinner*saint) 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I made myself my brother's id and when i tried to search with his name, his result don't appear anywhere. and if you want to know my brother's id then you can ask i am not writing it now sorry.
So please help me out :) THANK YOU

2007-02-21 23:09:34 · 2 answers · asked by Faran A 1 in Family

I'm mates with this guy and we get on like a house on fire. We share our stuffs have similar interests... time always flys fast whenever we talk. We're open with each other and.... we're happy in each other's company. I do have feelings for him but I dont want to tell him and Im actually thinking about just moving on... but yknw still being mates with him am I doing the right thing? I do care about him alot but I'm just confused right now I guess cause Im not sure how he really feels about me... But yeah please HELP

2007-02-21 23:08:07 · 11 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 23:07:58 · 7 answers · asked by elladomi 1 in Friends

She said it was a women she slept with one weekend to 'see what it was like before she tried it with me'. she didn;t ever say no! instaed she did it all on her own.
The thing is she never told me the truth ever- I just kept on finding things, noticing phone records to the point where I just couldn't trust her anymore no matter where she went- she just kept on doing it right in my face- I didn't get it- there's a lot more to it but I just couldn't be bothered going through it all again- We're still together but I feel as though I'm in limbo...

2007-02-21 23:07:09 · 25 answers · asked by ttlv8 1 in Marriage & Divorce

took medicine this has been happening all week but today is the first day i cant go back to sleep he said he would sleep on the couch but i said no its ok im awake now, what should i do just start my day? im going to be such a ***** later today because im going to be so tired? what would you suggest?

2007-02-21 23:06:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love being on my own, and really love my own company. I do have a family that return home later.

2007-02-21 23:05:40 · 17 answers · asked by babyshambles 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im a girl & well this girl has a perfect life so im obsessed with her.i forget her but when i start thinking she pops into my head how can i stop thinking about her & how can i forget she exists

p.s i dont love her at all i hate her just obsessed

2007-02-21 23:04:57 · 5 answers · asked by Rockstarrr* 1 in Friends

i love someone but she dosn't love me. before my proposal we was good friend & now we don't talk to eachother. i am trying much more to forget her but now its not possible for me. i have spended more good oppertunity & my best time also for her. i know she doesn't like onother person. she is very understandable, gient girl. i left my all the bad ediction, like drinking, smoking, etc for her. i am also employed and well earning guy. i can give her all the happiness which is possible for me. i know now i cant leave with out her. i know also her family will no have any obbjection. i cant understand that why doesnt she love (she like me) me. please help me what will i do? but never say that i will forget her because i repeat again its not possible for me. i will wait for ur answer. please reply me as soon as possible.

2007-02-21 23:04:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am not old enough to go to bars, am currently taking a year off from school (between highschool and college), and don't know anybody in my area. To top it off I am very shy.

Any suggestions?

2007-02-21 23:04:52 · 5 answers · asked by theinfamous_eric 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, me and a close friend (girl) started to give eachother good night kisses on the cheek for purely a friendly thing. I do not have the slightest fancy about her as yet, but some times I feel that her actions are saying something. When ever after we kiss goodnight on the cheek, she seems to get disorientated. Like she couldn't find her car etc and would shyly smile it off. What's going on here?

2007-02-21 23:04:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Anyone got any for a guy? Just wondering if I can get any tips to making things hotter for her.

2007-02-21 23:02:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend recently killed herself. It was sudden, and there were no warnings that I could see. She wasn't depressed, she got along fine with me, her friends, her family. She was very successful at school and work. I just can't understand why she did it, and my life is incomplete without her. Losing her makes me horrible, but the fact that she did it to herself makes me feel worse. We were engaged and always talked about the future. She told me if anything happened to her, she'd want me to move on and find somebody else, but I highly doubt I'll be able to (or want to) do that.

2007-02-21 23:01:09 · 17 answers · asked by Michael M 1 in Singles & Dating

He has been dating me for a year and the half. We spend a lot of time and have great moments together.

But he just does not want to say how he feels for me?

Over an argument, he accidentally said "I love you"


When I said "that's the first time you said that",
He said" Not in that way"?

What way does he mean especially since I havent been seeing no one else?

We were arguing about him doubting me when he uttered the words for the first time.

Should I move on or wait on him to realize that maybe he may actually love me?

2007-02-21 23:00:12 · 4 answers · asked by CG 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend has a gf he been dating her 3 weeks now and she lives in a village just outside our city and i know a few people there and they have told me this girl has been round the village a few times (village bike) and has been with about 30-40 guys that is known but people think the number might be much greater. my friend is a virgin and he very naive and falls for girls to a point that he become obessed and think they are innocent he wants to sleep with her (i fear he may already) how can i tell him his gf sleeps around without losing a friend

2007-02-21 22:58:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It would be a lot easier if people would come straight out and tell you they like you… why don’t they do it?

2007-02-21 22:55:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

still seduce you? I'm not really talking about romance or candles and bubble baths that usally happens after the seduction. Does your husband know how to make you fall in love with him over and over again?

2007-02-21 22:54:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I were having trouble about 5 years ago and both of us had affairs. We decided to stay together and forgive each other. I have given him no reason not to trust me since then but he has just now asked for a divorce if I do not give him the name of the person I saw back then. I do not believe this will help us now and I feel this is an unfair ultimatum. We are in marriage counseling and the counselor agrees. What would you do?

2007-02-21 22:53:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Whell there's this girl at my acting class, that at break whent to me and started talking to me. She was trying to get to know me. Then when we started doing blocking together and she looked at me for a minute and a looked back at her and she smiled. I really like her. So please give me some advice!

2007-02-21 22:53:00 · 3 answers · asked by Mighitman 3 in Singles & Dating

As a man, I've never actually figured out what women look at when they check out men (which I hear they do more than men checking out women).

So ladies which part of a mans body do you like the most?

2007-02-21 22:51:54 · 17 answers · asked by Kasm 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 22:51:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Actually I loved one girl from past 2 years she is native of hyderabad. I propsed her but she rejected me i feel very depressed every time what should i do i cant understand.

2007-02-21 22:51:09 · 7 answers · asked by livankar 1 in Friends

2007-02-21 22:50:19 · 14 answers · asked by mrugz 1 in Friends