My Aunt will arrive here in Manila on April with her foreign friend whom she wants me to marry. She said it´s for my own good because i can have a better opportunity when i am in the US. I don´t know the guy but he´s my Aunt´s Bestfriend, I´m only 21 and he´s 34, my Aunt told me that he´s a really nice guy. I am the bread winner of my family.
Should i go for it? I have a boyfriend whom i love so much! But i need to support my family because i´m the only one they can depend on. what should i do?
2007-02-21 23:10:04 · 9 answers · asked by (sinner*saint) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you love someone already...why are you even thinking about marrying that other guy?
2007-02-21 23:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Chastons Wifey♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it. Your aunt is not you. She might have a different perception of what you really need and want in your life. This guy might be a wonderful friend but NOT a fit and good husband.
You need to think about your needs and desires instead of pleasing everyone around you. It is very nice and selfless that you think about others but for once you need to step up and do what is best for you. And that my friend you are the only one that can decide.
2007-02-22 07:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not marry someone that you do not know. You should date this foregn friend and get to know her over time and not rush into it. If you already have a boyfriend however you do not need to be dating this friend at all taht you aunt brings. Could you find him another single girl to date that maybe you know or something?
2007-02-22 08:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not marry to benefit someone or yourself. The age difference doesnt seem alike alot when you are 21 but as you age the gap will widen. If you love your boyfriend stay with him. Stay for love not for money, too many women sell their souls to the devil as they say to marry for money and they say if you marry for money you will earn every red cent. Good luck.
2007-02-22 07:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriage has been around for a long time. It can work out and it can be fulfilling, too. April isn't so far in the future... decide when you see him - that's what he's going to be doing, isn't it?
(Remember to be cautious... there are a still people in this world who are willing to run some rather nasty scams on innocent young women. Good luck.)
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2007-02-22 07:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it unless you feel that you will be happy with your Aunt's friend. Marriage should never be a compromise. You should want to be with someone because you love them.
2007-02-22 08:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are not responsible for your family, one should never ever marry someone they do not know. your aunt is only thinking about money, and support, not about your happiness. your own good or her good. don't do it. if u marry for support or money u will be sorry, as it will never work, if u give up someone u love for someone who can offer u more financially u will regret it.
2007-02-22 07:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Should you poor gas on yourself and light a match??!! The answer is HELL NO don't marry him. Your 21!!
2007-02-22 10:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by luvnau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...never marry someone bcoz u are advised to do that,marry someone who u really love,bcoz otherwize u will feel miserable all ur life.thats my advice.
2007-02-22 07:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by razza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋