He has been dating me for a year and the half. We spend a lot of time and have great moments together.
But he just does not want to say how he feels for me?
Over an argument, he accidentally said "I love you"
When I said "that's the first time you said that",
He said" Not in that way"?
What way does he mean especially since I havent been seeing no one else?
We were arguing about him doubting me when he uttered the words for the first time.
Should I move on or wait on him to realize that maybe he may actually love me?
2007-02-21 23:00:12 · 4 answers · asked by CG 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the two of you should sit down and make a concerted effort to talk about your feelings for eachother. Do you love him? (and have you told him this?) If you do, then it's worth the effort but don't wait too long for him to reciprocate those feelings - he either doesn't have them or is too afraid to express them.
A relationship should be about sharing everything - feelings, experiences, knowledge and so on. If you can't share them, then there is little point in being together as it just becomes a source of perpetual frustration. After a year and a half you really shouldn't still be in this place.
If you don't love him, then my suggestion would be to make life easier for both of you and call it a day. After this long you should both know and be comfortable with your feelings for eachother.
Best of luck and I hope it works out well for you whatever you decide to do.
2007-02-21 23:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you guys go to a private (and kinda romantic) place and talk it over?
I mean, tell him how you stand, does he really likes you/ loves you like you do or not? But be prepared to be hurt in case things does not turn well for you. That's the sad fact of life, every happiness has an equal share of tears.
If he does like/love you, what should you do about it? If not, then just move on. A princess like you deserves someone better. And maybe, just maybe, if you guys are really meant for each other, the time will come for you guys.
~Ja! Good luck (",)
2007-02-21 23:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Emz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just be selfish and figure out what he wants from you. But take it smooth and watch and wait for a bit. I guess time will show its bearings. Hold on and be strong. Nothing can come inbetween you and your inner self. You are destined for only one and that should atleast keep you happy. Best of luck
2007-02-22 07:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by MafiaGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're wasting time. Move on.
2007-02-21 23:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by John 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋