Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

ok, my wife and i were very happy together, we've been together since high school, but when i proposed to her, she cheat on me 4 days afterwards. i forgave her, i signed up for the military and we got married. we now have a 2 yr old daughter. i got orders that i was leaving for iraq, i told my wife and we talked and she said that i could still trust her, then in november my wife cheated on me again, with my supposedly friend,, the day i found out i told her it was over, she tried to commit suicide and i took her to the hospital. i reported it to my sargent, and he took it up to up to the colonel, and now they won't let me go, it seems that i missed a great oppurtunity becs. of my wifes stupidity. we are still together but it's hard, i don't know if i can do this, but i still love her so much, and i'm worried about my daughter, waht is this going to do to my daughter. everything is messin up. should i stay with her or leave, i want to stay, but i just don't know, plz help me.

2007-02-21 20:50:09 · 13 answers · asked by Wizard 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-21 20:49:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should I be worried about this? If yes- what to do to stop this indescent affair?

2007-02-21 20:46:56 · 28 answers · asked by LadyLuv 2 in Marriage & Divorce

By that I mean a man that knows how to do things for himself. Cook, clean, rear children, etc, etc. w/o the aid of a woman. I've cooked for lots of women and they sure get all mushy and starry eyed about it. What up with that?

2007-02-21 20:46:21 · 10 answers · asked by Pontius 3 in Singles & Dating

what they do in weddining ceromany

2007-02-21 20:44:20 · 2 answers · asked by sumitra s 1 in Weddings

Do you believe that there "soulmate" type companions out there for you? Or do you think that this is a function of being in a boring/long term relationship and thinking the grass is greener elsewhere?

2007-02-21 20:43:44 · 11 answers · asked by recoveringwino 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I fell in love with this man 10 years ago even knowing that he is married. We had many sweet memories together and without his consent I had his child who is now 7, recently he told me that he need to end the relationship as he feel guilty with his act...and he had converted to Christainity. We can only remain as good friend.Now I am looking after my son alone, as he unble to give us anything. He said he has sins againts God and me....and ask for my forgiveness...shall I believe in him ? I still love him very much. What should I do ?? I am very depressed and sometime feel like taking my own life but when I look at my beautiful son I told myself I have to carry on with my life...please help me.

2007-02-21 20:42:59 · 8 answers · asked by Purple-lavender 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy i like, tristan. he likes me too. he told me that he likes me and i told him that i like him too. but i think he likes deanice. he gave her a huge teddy bear and he gave me roses. he told me that he doesnt lke her and that he likes me. but his friends told me that tristan told them that he likes deanice. is he making me walk around in circles? is he lying to me? its so confusing. i dont know who to believe. him or his friends. what do you think?

2007-02-21 20:40:11 · 21 answers · asked by Gravity. 2 in Singles & Dating

HI everyone, me and my ex partner broke up 3 months ago after 7 years, we had been together since we were 15 and have a 4 year old boy. We had been through the relationship where he couldnt hold a job due to lazyness, chatting inappropriately on the net to other girls with innapropriate pictures etc, spent all his time on online gaming and spending the money on online gaming etc which we couldnt afford aswell as many other factors.I just decided i didnt love him anymore. we broke up a year before and i took him back i think purely for the fact i felt sorry for him as his family dont really care about him. he didnt get in touch with his son last time for 2 months untill i took him back when i found out he was getting in trouble with the police. He said he was going to change that time around and he didnt. This time after 3 months of nothing he has emailed me saying how much he misses his son, but cant see him because he is so depressed and if it wasnt for having my son he would have

2007-02-21 20:37:27 · 14 answers · asked by caz130284 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this female who I liked a lot, and she felt the same way towards me. However, I got jealous because she was associating with other guys. Now, because of me catching a chip(upset) she won't even talk to me. I've told her I'm sorry, I gave her time to get over the situation. Still no hope. I truly believe she was the right one for me but because of the messed up situation, it might be over. The fate of our relationship is in her hands basically and I hate to see her throw it away. I really want to get closer to her and be her man. Females, Guys what do you think?

2007-02-21 20:35:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like even if a guy is not really really good looking if he is talented at something and you really admire that do you tend to feel more attracted to them?

2007-02-21 20:33:33 · 18 answers · asked by Allison 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 20:32:30 · 1 answers · asked by Abhinav 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 20:32:07 · 26 answers · asked by manoj p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my gf just dump mi yesterday night.... my heart breaken.......
i dont know what happen to me, now just like a stupid idiot, stay at house whole day..... no push to do anything............

the reason we break up is because i cant buy clothes for her, her make-up thing, just i cant give her money.
Is that every girl like that? Every girl hope to have a bf that can give her money??

2007-02-21 20:31:26 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what would you do if you only had 24 hrs to live??

2007-02-21 20:29:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so I like this guy. We dont tlk much.. at all, but i sat next to him for 2 hours in a class we had together today and he kept elbowing me and stealing my pencil case... and smiling at me. lol. we're both really quiet. any suggestions on the next move??

2007-02-21 20:28:08 · 12 answers · asked by Abz 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 20:27:53 · 4 answers · asked by KuMiKo..^__^ 1 in Family

2007-02-21 20:27:22 · 27 answers · asked by IcE~ 2 in Singles & Dating

the guy i have een with for 4 years is the perfect man, we have shared alot together, travelled the world. i love him but do9n tseem to be attracted to him any more. i dont want to loose him or hurt him or loose what we have together but i feel thats its the end, i just want some one to tell me how they have been through a major break up, do they regret it? my friends and family are extremly close to him also.

2007-02-21 20:26:39 · 15 answers · asked by lou 2 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone prefer being single or do you just say it to hide your true feelings??

http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/cupidslittlearrow/

2007-02-21 20:26:16 · 10 answers · asked by Emma T 1 in Singles & Dating

June here

2007-02-21 20:24:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-21 20:23:14 · 9 answers · asked by Ahmad k 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-21 20:21:58 · 15 answers · asked by coolreservedchic 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 20:21:43 · 18 answers · asked by merl 1 in Singles & Dating

You know, I'm so sick of all the slamming of the opposite sex, whether it be "why are guys so..?" or "how come women have to...?" Besides the fact these are generalized, stereotypical statements usually born of some personal negative solitary experience, it's just kind of on my nerves.

Can you find something civil to say about the gender not your own? Any old thing will do. Just something not hateful, not hurting. Even if it's minute and inconsequential.

I'll start. I find men have soothing voices - in general, of course. When I want an encouraging word I want it to come from a man, in a whisper, preferably from a very short distance. Next?

2007-02-21 20:20:59 · 12 answers · asked by Ande 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 20:19:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was in a long term relationship up until september which he ended and i ended up heart broken, i hoped we would get back together, but i know that his moved on and met someone else. i am moving on with my life and have met a few nice guys and they are very nice but i just can't seem to want a relationship with them now as my heart seems closed, and i end up treating them badly as i want to be left alone, i am not a horrible person and i feel bad because i treated them badly because they are nice but i seem to be on a short fuse since breaking up with my b/f. this is my first breakup from a long term relationship, so i just wondering is my feeling normal and how long will it last.

as i feel i am letting alot of good men slip through my fingers because i'm still healing.

real advice no smart comments please
Thanks

2007-02-21 20:17:10 · 17 answers · asked by cd 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 20:16:23 · 17 answers · asked by raelgamsu 1 in Friends

2007-02-21 20:15:45 · 19 answers · asked by honeymoon09 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 20:13:54 · 8 answers · asked by SHEENA P 1 in Family