There's this female who I liked a lot, and she felt the same way towards me. However, I got jealous because she was associating with other guys. Now, because of me catching a chip(upset) she won't even talk to me. I've told her I'm sorry, I gave her time to get over the situation. Still no hope. I truly believe she was the right one for me but because of the messed up situation, it might be over. The fate of our relationship is in her hands basically and I hate to see her throw it away. I really want to get closer to her and be her man. Females, Guys what do you think?
2007-02-21 20:35:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I can look at it a couple of ways, if she is associating with other guys maybe it was nothing serious to begin with, in her mind- thats probably why she is upset with you. Or could she be making you jelous in the first place and therefore is just stuffing you around, also how do you know she's the right one if this is happening, wouldn't she be a bit more considerate of your feelings, think you should think of looking elsewhere if I were you.
2007-02-21 20:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls hate jealous men, trust me. I mean most of us like to c her man jealous but never reach the (being upset) stage.. Besides its no big deal if she talks or do whatever with other guys, if she betrays u in anyway then she doesnt deserve u, but less than this, its ok,, and u had to talk to her from the beginning n tell her what u llike n dislike about ur girl n vice versa.. and for now, how about u send her flowers or sth she likes n thinks its romantic and attach a letter with it telling her ur sorry n that u did what u did bcoz u luvs her sooo mush n u promise not to do it again.. etc. let her c love in ur words, heart and eyes!!
2007-02-22 04:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by shoosh_b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is simplicity itself.
But.....you need PATIENCE and WIILE. let these two be ur right arm.
here goes....TRY TO BE HER FRIEND. of course, you need more than that, but no point telling her right away, okay?
get BACK in her good books.
dont give her "danger signals" at all, if she talks to sum1, so be it, HIDE ur jealousy, true feelings.
if u REALLY care for her, move heaven n earth to get her.
the best way to MAKE a friend is to BE a friend.
once she trusts you enough as a friend, woo her back.
secondly, she MAY like someone else better. girls dont always tell wats on their mind all the time. there MAY be some other reason for her behaviour, something shz not telling u anything about.in case, that happens, i hope and pray not, plssssss be calm and peaceful. sometimes people come in our lives to teach us a lesson, we need to learn our lessons and move on. try reading MANY MASTERS MANY LIVES by DR BRIAN WEISS.
for now, have a positive attitude and use SURPRISE TACTICS. do NOT act predictable AT ALL. surprise her.
dont show vulnerability to her. girls like guyz they can depend on, lean on....
all the best, buddy
2007-02-22 04:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for a grand gesture. She wants to know that you are secure in your relationship.
If you are secure she should be able to have male friends. Do something really sweet, tell her that this happening has made you realise that it is ok for her to be friends with other guys, and that you love her.
If you cannot get over your jealousy you will lose her forever.
If you have lost her forever learn from this mistake for your next relationship. Learn to trust in someone. If they let you down, you will get over it, but it's better then losing her for no reason.
There is one other outcome here. If she is not wanting to get back with you, then does she have feelings for one of these other guys. The problem is that if you ask her that then there is no hope of getting back with her even if it isn't true.
Goodluck with this one. It's tricky but not hopeless.
2007-02-22 04:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well shes obviously still in the singles mode so u just need to give her space and time, she will respect that..as for you u should just go with the flow. if she really likes you she will herself start getting closer to you and start devoting more time to your relationship so just hang in there.
2007-02-22 04:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should move on b/c you already showed her how insecure you can be and if you were ever in a relationship with her than it would be worst what would you do to her than .She is showing you you dont own her and that is true.
2007-02-22 04:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to have more patience. Give her some time and see how it goes. If she really feel the same towards you, you'll get back to you soon.
2007-02-22 04:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by blurqu33n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she probably realized that you were the contolling jealous type and maybe she likes her freedom and friends so first of all change your ways and show her that
2007-02-22 04:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by jinx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go and move on with your life
2007-02-22 04:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by snehesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋