my gf just dump mi yesterday night.... my heart breaken.......
i dont know what happen to me, now just like a stupid idiot, stay at house whole day..... no push to do anything............
the reason we break up is because i cant buy clothes for her, her make-up thing, just i cant give her money.
Is that every girl like that? Every girl hope to have a bf that can give her money??
2007-02-21 20:31:26 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
PLZ SHE STUPID
TO BREAK UP WITH A GUY FOR NO GIFTS
I WOULD EXPECT GIFTS ON HOLIDAYS BUT 4 NO REASON!!
BULLSHIT
YOU SHOULD GET MONEY GT A NEW GIRLFRIEND AND RUB IT IN HER FACE!!!!!!
TO GET OVER YOU DUMP JUST THINK SHE NEVER LOVED U
there is more fish in the ocean 8D
2007-02-22 04:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by kichianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1
2016-05-07 19:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not every girl is like that, its just there are some who are like that unfortunately..... It takes time to get over someone.
Go out for walks in the park you know be at peace in your mind, clear your head and plus it gets you out of the house or.....
Try taking up new hobbies or better yet try writing like poems and stuff yknw get your feelings out on paper that way its kind of released well thats what I do anyways when I'm down or happy or whatever cause I'm a writer... Listen to music that helps. And go out with friends
And remember that, the lucky woman is out there... she's looking for you dude dont you worry but for the time being just try doing new things yknw.... start off fresh with a clean slate and then you'll be over her in no time and then you'll be like Mary who? I was just using that name as an example....
2007-02-21 20:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am sorry for you, but, I think that you didn't have a "real girlfriend"! It is such a shame that girls can be so catty and ruthless! She wasn't there for you...you tried to be there for her..and then she dumps you! Excuuuuuuse me! But, THAT is NOT a good enough woman for you!!!!
You just keep being the wonderful person that you are..and you are gonna find a much better lady...somebody who will like you sooo much..and you won't even have to buy them stuff!
(at least not like the ex wanted you to...she was just using you!!!!)
I had a friend a long time ago..that she ONLY cared about the money! Her boyfriend at the time gave her a small diamond engagement ring...well, she wanted a much bigger diamond...and to top it off, she was still looking at other men,while she was engaged to this guy! She went to a huge "Costco" store to get her photographs, and found an ex-boyfriend's photos, went thru them,and got angry that he was dating what she called a "skanky girl" and then decided to deliver those photos herself to that fellas house! SHe wrote a letter to him, trying to win his heart(and she was still engaged to her fella!)
Well, she ended up, NOT marrying the first fella, and not getting the guy with the photographs,and sleeping with a male friend of mine..and ending that friendship between me and her,and my male friend...and she married some other fella, because he had MONEY!!! And that's what she wanted..(she had a job, but, she only wanted to marry a man with money!!!)
Hey, you just don't need that ...okay? SHe doesn't love or like you....she was only using you,....what a terrible shame!!! I know that you will find a much better person in your life...you will, have faith!!! Hey, just take a while to live it up for yourself a little. Go out with good friends,and heal slowly, see if your friends might know of a much better, sweeter and kinder lady to hang out with, or get to know..and when you start to like the person,...go slowly...don't rush ahead...get to really know what they are like...because you have already been hurt and you KNOW that it sure doesn't feel good...so take your time...okay?You are gonna come thru this, with flying colors!
blessings!
2007-02-21 20:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i'm glad she broke up with you. otherwise, she would have sucked up all your energy and finances. no woman worth her grain of salt would do this to any man. so keep your chin up as best as possible, okay. I'm not sure if you had sex with her, but if you had or if she was your first, it must have been pretty good for you to be broken up to this extent. to recover. you're going through the natural process of a broken heart nonetheless. so take it easy, go out w/ friends, write, exercise, punch a bag, or scream like hell.
you will find what will work for you eventually. guarantee, you will be brighter and stronger than ever before. just give yourself time, alright. and no... not every girl will ask you for material things. and if her type comes around again, avoid this type at all costs. it didn't work out the first time around, right... and so the relationship won't work the next time as well.
2007-02-21 20:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by ogg08 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were lucky but you still don´t know my friend. As soon as your heart get together again you´ll be able to see you haven´t missed anything.
She didn´t love you, but she´s not the only girl in this world, and NO, they are not all like this. Sorry you´ve fallen in love with someone like this...
2007-02-21 20:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Juliana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way to get over one is to get under another. Dude I was in the same boat as you. My ex would use all my money for many different things. I had to move on and move on quick. To this day I am kicking myself in my *** because I kept giving and giving and she kept taking and taking.
Good luck in moving on.
2007-02-21 21:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by mschwertner69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you must accept your current situation in order for to move on with your life. Next is try to unwind so you'll forget it. Lastly, go out with new friends.
2007-02-21 20:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by princessrheena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's prostituting off of you.You need someone to love you whether you give her money or not.
2007-02-21 20:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋