theres this guy i like, tristan. he likes me too. he told me that he likes me and i told him that i like him too. but i think he likes deanice. he gave her a huge teddy bear and he gave me roses. he told me that he doesnt lke her and that he likes me. but his friends told me that tristan told them that he likes deanice. is he making me walk around in circles? is he lying to me? its so confusing. i dont know who to believe. him or his friends. what do you think?
2007-02-21 20:40:11 · 21 answers · asked by Gravity. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
deanice has a boyfriend. maybe since he knows he cant have her he'll settle for something less, me. am i his 2nd choice?
2007-02-21 20:57:27 · update #1
i think you know the answer to that men love to have there cake and eat it to and if you play along with him then\ he wins the game.
2007-02-21 20:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by stephanie o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a player. Learn from this, and recognise players in the future. Trust me, from an older women, this will save you a lot of heart ache in the future.
If he really liked you, you would have got a teddybear and roses. If he liked Deanice then you wouldn't have got flowers. He is simply seeing what he can get both of you to do.
RUN!!!! Save your dignity. Find a nice faithful guy! Be proud to be a beautiful women who has options!!!! Because always remember you have options!
2007-02-22 04:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your gut feeling tell you? If you don't believe him then your probably right... just confront him and if he stutters or is slow to answer well then..... u knw what to do... end it I I think the best thing for you is to move on..... he's not worth hanging around for.. He's stringing the both of you's along for a ride and you dont deserve that ****.
Go fish for another guy there's plenty of them out there...
2007-02-22 04:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i couldnt say for sure, but i know reading your situation made ME go in circles! i would trust what HE told you, at least until you find out otherwise from HIM. i had friends back in high school that would get their female friends gifts for valentine's day, or just because, but then they would also give their crush/girlfriends gifts too, so just bc he gave her a gift, doesnt AUTOMATICALLY mean he likes her and not you.
2007-02-22 04:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by crazydaisyodu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Liking" is not Love...if you are a "Teen" then I would suggest you to get another guy, simple!....Men are looking for women and viceversa by the Millions!, it's your choice if you want to go to bed tonight with a problem in your mind...
2007-02-22 04:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by Lubakraine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on, not worth your time honestly. If he was really interested in you he would not even think of anyone else let alone buy her a teddy. he is obiously a big Pinnochio.
2007-02-22 04:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate deanice,love,tristan
2007-02-22 04:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by defragmentedbrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's loads of guys out there. I'd walk away from this one and find somebody else, if he's keen on you he'll come and find you.
2007-02-22 04:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may like both of you. guys have a fickle mind. if you really like him you should do something daring to make him notice you more than notice her. Or you can ignore him and he finds out that you are losing interest in him and might try to get back your attention. Good luck :)
2007-02-22 04:46:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just take some time away from this guy and play the field as I think he is playing you for a sucker
2007-02-22 04:46:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋