ok so umm i like my bot friend a lot i mean a lot!! but..........i also like his brother!! what should i do??!! i mea i dont think he knows that i like him so i could try to keep it on the low but i can only do so much i need help hear guyzzz got eney thing????
2007-02-21 23:12:30 · 13 answers · asked by shelbieT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say fk it and try it out with both of them chances are that its just lust with the bro but whata u gota loose live life to the max and have fun.
2007-02-21 23:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know what you are treading on thin ice here,just sit down and think about the awful consequences if the brother you are with finds out that you have a thing for the other one too,not only will it spoil things for you but may also create a tiff between the brothers,simply put too many people are at risk of getting hurt here.So be sensible and make the most of what you have got,like they say "a bird in hand is better than two in the bush".
Cheers.
2007-02-21 23:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by ytee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER EVER KEEP IT IN THE FAMILY......if you already dated one DO NOT date another one if you have not told either one your feelings pick one and stick with it....if it doesn't work then that's that because no matter who you pick first if you try and date his brother after that all you are gonna do is cause problems....for you and him for him and his brother for their family (chances are they wont like you very much if you date them both either) no matter what you will get in between the two of them and no matter who you are, im tellin you now YOU ARE NOT IMPORTANT ENOUGH TO SPLIT UP BROTHERS....they may not realize it at first and fight over you for a while but sooner or later they are gonna realize they would rather still have their brother with them instead of you....don't purposely set up ultimatums like that its not even right....and there is no way to avoid it if you try and date them both...it happens every time...did i mention i did this once?!?!? worst mistake ever!!!!! and by the way if one of them was gonna be the right one it definately would have been the first one....hehe
2007-02-21 23:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by Amy Hizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tell you what you should do..now that you've been putting your logic away for quite a while, try putting your thinking cap back on girlie! for one you cant have your cake and eat it too leave alone eyeing one more..follow me here? what is important here is you dont sound yet like you started analysing your true emotion and are still playing with fantasy which obviosly is more mushy always..:) so get thinking which one of the two guys you really care about being with and want him to love you. and rest in peace..oops i mean feel good.think also how you would think of a man who'd love both you and your sis. come on now.
2007-02-21 23:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by fleur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off if you like to brothers then something in you needs to be looked at because in reality you know you can't be with both..If you do it will only hurt you and maybe break up the brothers or perhaps make them look at you in a new light....In others words they would be like she is willing to hurt one brother she will ultimatly hurt the other there is not trust in this relationship....think about it would you want some one to do that to you???? that sound pretty selfish..never do something to somebody you don't want to be done to you
2007-02-21 23:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by ramona M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can not have your cake and eat it too !!!
you should find out first what kind of person would you be if you broke ones heart to run to the other
i also say to you; lay off the YOUNG AND THE RESTLESS
there is enough drama in the world w/o having a throw down between two siblings over a girl
2007-02-21 23:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by pumpkin25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like your boyfriend so much then stick with him! Don't be greedy, you may like the other one, but come on. Everybody fancies someone other than their boyfriend sometimes, it's just normal. Doesn't mean you have to act on it. His brother might not like you anyway and you could ruin a good relationship with someone you really like. I know I sound a bit self righteous! but please don't do anything, it will go horribly wrong.
2007-02-21 23:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stick wit your current boyfriend because even if his brother liked you that'd be really messed up to dump him for his brother
2007-02-21 23:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by emilo009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your messing with fire, you can only have one, not both, and if something happens to you and your boyfriend, still stay away from the brother.
2007-02-21 23:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by twyla 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THAT iS LOW DOWN!!! iF YOUR GOiNG TO DATE HiS BROTHER THEN DATE HiS BROTHER...DON'T PLAY THOSE CHiLDiSH GAMES! iF YOUR GOiNG TO DATE HiM THEN BE REAL AND DATE HiM....WHO CARES ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HiS BROTHER...WHAT ABOUT HOW YOUR BOiFRiEND FEELS!!??!! HOW WOULD YOU FEEL iF YOU HAD A SiSTER AND HE LiKED HER AND DiD THiNGS WiTH HER BEHiND YOU BACK? iT WON'T FEEL TO GOOD!! AND PLUS....GUY ARE GUYS....HE WiLL TELL HiS BROTHER THAT YOU ARE TRYiNG TO MESS WiTH HiM AND iN THE END iT WiLL ALL BE A DiSASTER....THEY WiLL TALK BOUT YOU AND CALL YOU A WHORE....AND THEY WiLL TALK ABOUT HOW YOU TRYED TO RUN THROUGH THE FAMiLY....TRUST ME.....iT WON'T TEAR THEM APART, iT WiLL TEAR YOU APART FROM BOTH OF THEM! YOU SOUND A BiT SELFiSH TO ME!
2007-02-21 23:20:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋