Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

She went to visit her ex-boyfriend's mom over Valentines Day, but she says that she does not talk to him anymore (she was in the past, and hiding it and after I found out she said she would completely cut off contact) but she had a lot of mens clothes, that were "his brothers" that he left at her old place and she was returning them, and a lot of Valentine's candy with soccer patterns (he is a soccer fan) but she said so is his mom, and since she was spending Valentines Day alone she was taking her the gifts. She has her own P.O. Box, that she hid from me, saying that it was to buy gifts for me and have them sent there so I would not see them, even though we have a mail box at our house. I can't touch her cell phone, and she keeps stuff in her truck, and won't bring stuff in the house. Even though she swears that she is not cheating, and begs me to trust her, and is sad to think that I don't. But she lost tons of trust when I found out she was talking to her ex. What should I think?

2007-02-21 15:02:47 · 20 answers · asked by GUESS564 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know these four women who want to break up with the men they are stacking up and they know it wrong shacking up God is telling them that, yet they don't know how to cut them loose and mind you these women are sucessful.

2007-02-21 15:02:41 · 7 answers · asked by honeybunny 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 15:02:07 · 22 answers · asked by Matty G 3 in Singles & Dating

for me to use our wedding favors as our reception centerpieces? For budgetary purposes, I'm planning to use the same candles we used for favors as the centerpieces. What do you think of this idea?

2007-02-21 15:02:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok, I love a boy named Cody. I live in Michigan, he lives in Georgia! We went out like 2 yrs ago for like 5 months, then i moved to a different city. I quit talking to him because of all the pressure of my friends telling me to dump him because they thought he was a "Froot-Loop." Well, we didn't talk for over a year, then finally i found him on Yahoo! Messenger. I was so excited to hear from him. So we talked and i told him we needed to hang out, then he told me that he had moved to Georgia. I was upset! He was supposed to call me one time, and he never did! I think about and dream about him all the time! How do I get over him?

2007-02-21 15:01:59 · 8 answers · asked by KayKaye 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 15:01:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i've been wit my baby for 6 monthz...and i really love him but sometimez i really dont think he carez bout me..you see in the past..bout 2 monthz ago he cheated on me twice! :'( and he was actually going out wit that girl for two weekz durning the same time he was wit me!! and i found out my her!! and she didnt know that he was wit me at the same time so we both confront him about it and he said that he was stupid and blah blah blah..but come to find out that he hooked up wit another girl during a party! so yea idk..now he says he sorry and all this other stuff should i trust him?

2007-02-21 15:01:18 · 17 answers · asked by ~*~la chula~*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

any help or should i walk away?

just want to hear what there is to say from u

2007-02-21 15:01:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 15:00:05 · 6 answers · asked by ara2680 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in a new relationship with a guy whom I have known for 9 years. I like him but he is a little bit shy around me now what should I do to get us to have a more open and talkative relationship?

2007-02-21 14:59:51 · 9 answers · asked by shortygirl_4213 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do i still Love him

2007-02-21 14:59:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

6'2'', 162 runner type.

Darker complexion, dark hair, dark eyes.

I go to the U.S. Naval Academy and I'll be an officer?

Would you date someone just on these facts alone?

2007-02-21 14:58:33 · 19 answers · asked by Brandon P 2 in Singles & Dating

Could it ever work? I am 21, and he is 28, almost 29. I met him a while back, he is never married and has no kids. I never had the heart to tell him how I feel because he was in a relationship... he is now single. but seems to be still getting over his last gf since New Years Day. :(

I wonder if he thinks that I am too young...

should I tell him how I feel?

2007-02-21 14:57:22 · 6 answers · asked by 21 Year Old 1 in Singles & Dating

These people are complete scumbags and I can't convince her to break off communications with them. One of her brothers basically stole $4000 from us, the other one is a crack addict who 'borrows' our cars without asking, and every time I see her dad he 'jokes' around that he's going to shoot me and even goes into detail about which gun he will use. She says it's his twisted sense of humor, but there is nothing funny about death threats. I've never been anything but good to my wife, but I can't handle these people for one more day. If I have to start sueing people and having them arrested I may as well just divorce her.

2007-02-21 14:57:19 · 2 answers · asked by Jason 6 in Marriage & Divorce

he is getting divorced and so am i we have been seeing eachother almost a year we are very compatiable , respectful, loving ect. I know he still loves his wife but knows it wont work but they have three kids , I still love my husband but know it wont work . Will the guilt or doubt carry into our relationship? How do i know he really loves me or i really love him im sure we do we talk about things of this nature very honestly? he also thinks once i am around his kids that one day i will leave! its a little crazy! any advice?

2007-02-21 14:56:46 · 8 answers · asked by liz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does marriage solve all problems? My little sister thinks it does, but I don't. She doesn't believe me so I'm asking those who are married, did marriage solve all your problems?

2007-02-21 14:56:36 · 12 answers · asked by Jedi Lizard 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I CANNOT think of anything to do for his birthday tomorrow! I've run out of ideas over the years and I refuse to send one of those cheesy stupid e-cards. I asked what I should do, and all he said was "Nothing not perverted, be creative"
I have no clue what that was supposed to mean.
So um...yea, anyone got any ideas on what I should do? :O
I'm running out of time here.

2007-02-21 14:56:12 · 3 answers · asked by Your Highness 7 in Friends

there is a girl i have been friends with for years and she asked me to a dance, after i said i would go she and i have been talking on aim every night for over an hour, i got her a V-day gift and she said it was the nicest thing anyone had done for her, we talked about how much we enjoyed spending time with each other, but then out of nowhere she makes it VERY clear were only going to the dance as friends.....can you help make sense of this (why lead me on like there was more than a friendship then tell me there isnt)

2007-02-21 14:56:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies-what will you give your bf for this special occasion?
Guys- what is the best gift you would like to receive from your gf?
Both-how will you celebrate this day?

**Birthday boy turning 17 this year

2007-02-21 14:55:48 · 3 answers · asked by Ivy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-21 14:55:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so there is this boy and i accidently told him something i thought she had alredi told him but she didnt and she has a right to be mad but i cant get over not having her around...is there anything i can do or say that might help our situation if there is hurry and help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-21 14:55:24 · 9 answers · asked by kimberley c 1 in Friends

if a guy get a girl a card and told her in the card that he likes her....why would the girl still not talk to him when its so obvious...does it mean shes not interested or just waiting for the next move from him?
do girls ignore the people they like?

2007-02-21 14:54:56 · 21 answers · asked by o.o 1 in Singles & Dating

What i mean by that is you have been with this person for a good little while and instead of letting the the relationship fall apart you want to save it but the other person does not and you know it but by you loving this person its hard to let go.what should i do?

2007-02-21 14:54:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 14:54:35 · 3 answers · asked by ratsinthehallway 2 in Singles & Dating

how can i convince my wife to go to marriage counseling?
she has plenty of excuses why we shouldnt go and i cannot convince her otherwise; she doent like to spread her buisness, she thinks everything will be the same afterwards, she thinks she will be blamed, etc, etc...

we need this. there doesnt seem to be any other option at this point. i know we can save our marriage but why wont she go? should i go alone? we're running out of time. please help (we have a baby daughter also)

2007-02-21 14:54:35 · 9 answers · asked by greatceasarsghost 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys do you like blondes or brunettes?
PICK ONE cuz thers this argument in class that blondes are prettier but i disgree.

well?

2007-02-21 14:54:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you deal with a teenager that stays in the shower for 20 to 30 min. every day? We've asked nicely and eventually threatened him that we will bodily drag him out. He is stubborn and takes his time for any chore we ask him to do.

2007-02-21 14:53:14 · 22 answers · asked by diciple 1 in Family

Just trying to spice things up in the bedroom...what kids of "special things could i do for my man? Im starting with body chocolate....what else should i do???

2007-02-21 14:52:08 · 13 answers · asked by chicwitpurpose 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that just recently just receved a lot of money ! now she is treating people ugly < she is inhumane to even her own family ! the ones to try to correct her and let her own you treat others the way you want to be treated !She says i m sorry i dont wany to act poor ! just for you she tells her family ! the world doesnt stop and obey her every command !

2007-02-21 14:51:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She is nice, but my husband and I are busy busy and we live out of town. She had the baby 3 weeks ago. I am a little torn on what to do? Should I urge my husband to go? When is the definate amount of time that we SHOULD go. Help??

2007-02-21 14:51:35 · 14 answers · asked by LJ 2 in Family