Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

This girl says hello to me every day (since mid December). She seems to take an interest in me (asks me questions). She also once gave me a ride to my car so I didn't have to walk (1/4 mile). What am I supposed to think, I don't want to be presumptuous. But how can I not be, she is not a friend, she is more of an acquaintance. we just met this year.

does she like me? should I ask her out?

I just don't want to look like a dumb *** jerk.
(yeah I like her)

2007-02-21 15:18:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she would not talk about it then said she would leave first we stayed together now I want to know who he was just his name am i wrong for this

2007-02-21 15:18:03 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And to women: under what circumstances would you allow your husband to marry one more woman?

2007-02-21 15:17:58 · 18 answers · asked by Meda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-21 15:16:46 · 7 answers · asked by crbearmom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This sounds stupid however, it is 11:15 at night and I call my girlfriend's house and her mother said she was across the street at appartment 207. I don't really know who lives there, should I care? Is it really something I should think about? Or next time I talk to her should I just ask who lives there?

2007-02-21 15:16:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She sometimes wears my gym shoes (size 10 mens) and her girlfriends always pick fun with me when she does because they know they are mens which does not bother me because like I who she is no matter her shoe size. (Size 10-11 womens) Any other women who also do this, and are there men who also with women with the same size foot.

2007-02-21 15:15:58 · 5 answers · asked by Question 2 in Singles & Dating

Has this ever happened to anyone else?
Just lying in bed trying not to think about a girl (or guy), but the simple act of BREATHING is just too much, and it just kinda -- happens?

2007-02-21 15:15:58 · 5 answers · asked by A Box of Signs 4 in Singles & Dating

Looks height I mean is it always about the height and the looks are what?

2007-02-21 15:15:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do most guys judge based on our looks?
I understand that it is the first factor that a guy sees and is attracted to, but why cant girls like me, do not get at least one chance to prove that we might not have a perfect skin, but that does not mean we don’t have a heart. And that beauty is not skin deep! This question is mostly for guys, if I could get their opinion on why do they judge girls like me so harshly, just because we are not perfect to look at! We are good friend materials but not even considered as a potential date. I am not stereotyping anyone just asking for an opinion! You might say I have low self-esteem but this is reality, so please don’t judge.
Serious answers only please, if you don’t like the question you don’t have to answer it!!

2007-02-21 15:15:15 · 6 answers · asked by Nikki L 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 15:12:59 · 4 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy who always stares at me and uses annoying pickup lines i told him i dont like him.

2007-02-21 15:12:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Iam 21 years old and have been with the same man for almost 6 years . We have 2 kids and 1 more on the way.
the passion between us died. It is like he does not even look at me in that way and he loves me and he is not in love with me.
It has been over 2 months sense we had good sex. I know I have changed I mean I know I have gained about 50 lbs and it kills me that he does not love me or look at me the same any more. How do I get the passion back? How do I become atractive to him and turn him on again. I caught him 2 weeks ago looking at skinny girls on myspace. I know he does not want me any more. I don't want to break up.

2007-02-21 15:12:30 · 12 answers · asked by crazziegrl14 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

idk, plz help?

2007-02-21 15:12:22 · 18 answers · asked by kaleb t 1 in Singles & Dating

interesting topics?

2007-02-21 15:12:00 · 9 answers · asked by m&ms 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a steady and long term relationship with this girl I love very much and dearly. We are in a long distant relationship. We both want marriage. I am currently in school and have a year left to go. Recently her parents told her she could not get engaged till I graduate. We have been dating since September. Her parents say that we are rushing, but we don't want our marriage till like Dec. or next May. She also has twin boys so they cite the age old thing parents say, "how will you support them?" which is a valid question. So I want to know based on all this what is a good courtship length? Is a year too quick? I know people that get married in less time than that. I would appreciate mature and well thought out answers and back your point up somehow. Thanks

2007-02-21 15:11:01 · 8 answers · asked by shermanaki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I waited a year and a half for her. we dated off and on during that time. Finally she came to me as b/f and g/f everything was great we became engaged. then she ended it all of a sudden. her excuse was she could not love me as a wife could love a husband. 2 months of no seeing or speaking to eachother she breaks the silence. we meet at a bar and dance then we go to her place and spend the weekend together. she will not call me on her cell phone but will use pay phones or her house phone since she changed her cell number. I love her more than anything this is tearing my heart am I wasting my time here?

2007-02-21 15:10:46 · 10 answers · asked by wayornoway 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 26 with a two year old son. My husband has been to rehab four times in our relationship and pretty much ignores me and my son. Although, he is now been sober for a year and a half he still never really seems to get his act together. He is 37 and acts totally irresponsible. He recently took a job where he travels all but three or four days out of the month. I want to go back to school and have a career but my husband is not supportive. My father however who just retired wants me and my son to move in and for me to go back to school. He is financially in good shape and says I am wasting my life with someone who only seems to be in the relationship for themselves. I feel like my husband is no help and could careless about my future or my son's future. Should I move home with my dad? I feel guility that things are not working out but feel the longer I wait the worse things will be.

2007-02-21 15:10:38 · 6 answers · asked by Lily 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Watch women pee?

2007-02-21 15:10:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this girl i like at school shes shy and desent but i don't knoiw whatr she likes in a man any tps plz?

2007-02-21 15:10:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, this might sound insane, but my boyfriend and i have been going out for like 2 months. we've gotten along fine until now, just because i've been stressed out and it's affecting my personality and i was talking to him on the phone about it last night. anyway, i tried calling him tonight (we talk every night passed 9) and he hasn't picked up. i really feel like i want to talk to him because i don't know if hes mad at me or i dont know... maybe i am just insecure...

meanwhile, he just got a myspace... we haven't exchanged each others myspaces yet, but i kind of made a big deal about it yesterday because he has everybody else added and not me.

would i be a stalker if i IMed him on Myspace IM???

Should I do it or should i just wait until i see him at school tomorrow?

2007-02-21 15:10:04 · 5 answers · asked by sam 2 in Singles & Dating

I am one of two maids of honor in my cousins wedding. There 3 other bridesmaid. We are planning to go out to dinner and then out for drinks and dancing. It might get kind of expensive and I was wondering who pays for what....

2007-02-21 15:08:35 · 10 answers · asked by lisha23346 2 in Weddings

Even with a condom? I've never had one... considering it...

2007-02-21 15:08:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He did this because one day I wore a helney and a button-down shirt underneath it. I don't think I looked gay. Do you think that he is gay, or do you think that it's just a nickname? I'm not gay, and I'd like to know what impression people have when one guy calls another guy "Snuggles" I asked him to stop calling me that, and he did, but sometimes he calls me "Snuggles" again. Please explain your answer.

2007-02-21 15:08:12 · 2 answers · asked by pageblankn 2 in Friends

One of my good friends who is Mormon asked me to be a best man in his wedding. I was very happy to be asked, but then I found out I cant even get into the church to watch the ceremony because I am not Mormon. Would you be mad if this happend to you?

2007-02-21 15:07:36 · 32 answers · asked by Sentient6 4 in Weddings

i am with a guy from 9 months, a little conservative. i will tell about myself and then his perspective.

i am in and out of relationships. till now, i had 3 relationships, which did not last longer than a year( reasons unknown, as i think i am those committed and devoted people). Now i was into drinking, smoking, discos, pubs. now n then i have been over the top, like kissing the guy who asked me to teach how to kiss, once a guy kissed me when i went for a movie with him, i kissed a guy from my college when i was drunk, then started going out with someone, i kissed him but when i realised i don't love him, i left him.

now the guy i am with, doesn't mind the physical relationship i had with a guy when i was serious abt them and was thinking of marriage with the guy. but he keeps on bringing those casual kissing incidents again n again.

he is a virgin and i am not. he is not into smoking or drinking, never been to a disco. he is too simple and lead a simple life till now.

2007-02-21 15:07:20 · 3 answers · asked by chandana b 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi my name is Andreina and Im 17 years old but my problem is that lately I've been feeling real bad I get really bad nausea when I finish eating something and in the mornings I feel real tired around noon I get real bad headaches that last through out the whole night I dont know what to do sometimes I even cry because they hurt so much and I feel sick everyday oh yeah and another thing if anyone knows what it is can you IM and help me out.

Thanks for all you're help!!!!!

2007-02-21 15:05:26 · 13 answers · asked by Smiley17 2 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I feel like I might be in love with this person who is married. It is so confusing because i tell myself that isn't possible. I do know i love him as a person and want the best for him. How can I make sure that is it? I also love the guy I am dating and want the best for him. They both make me feel completely different...so how do I know which kind of love is the love that is lifelong partner love. What are the true signs?

2007-02-21 15:04:57 · 8 answers · asked by leanne_13212000 1 in Singles & Dating

but someone shows concern and then you say you don't really feel like disclosing so they stop talking to you. Is this because they are hurt that you didn't confide in them? Or just not a good friend?

2007-02-21 15:04:06 · 4 answers · asked by kowalley 5 in Friends

2007-02-21 15:03:03 · 3 answers · asked by bahjij6 5 in Singles & Dating

Well I did what everyone said I should do, I told my g/f that I'm leaving sooner than We thought.

I talked to my sergeant today again and I asked him if I will be coming back to where I live for 2 weeks after basic training.he said no. After I get done with basic training I go to my Tech School for traning and it wouldn't be til like xmas before i see my g/f.

I talked to him some more and basically I thought that she could leave with me and go to Washington were I will be stationed. I want her to marry me, I really do. She my first thought every morning, my heart, my soul, my every breathe I take.

She doesn't want to move because her school of her choice is here. I want her to achieve her dreams, I don't want to stand in her path.

However, where I live people with master degrees aren't even getting jobs in her career choice. The town is dieing. I would like to bring her with me so she actually does have a chance at achieving her dreams.

Plz helo! IDK what 2 do!

2007-02-21 15:02:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family