I waited a year and a half for her. we dated off and on during that time. Finally she came to me as b/f and g/f everything was great we became engaged. then she ended it all of a sudden. her excuse was she could not love me as a wife could love a husband. 2 months of no seeing or speaking to eachother she breaks the silence. we meet at a bar and dance then we go to her place and spend the weekend together. she will not call me on her cell phone but will use pay phones or her house phone since she changed her cell number. I love her more than anything this is tearing my heart am I wasting my time here?
2007-02-21 15:10:46 · 10 answers · asked by wayornoway 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suspect your girl already got a bf / hubby. There is no reason, a girl dun miss her bf nor missed him for few months. For one day, already felt hard. When you are in love, you tend to spend every waking hours with her. Maybe your gf felt bored or guilty, so she spend some time with u.
2nd reason to believe she's married or engaged with other, was the reason, she won't give you her mobile no. Very strange.
Advice will be, find another girl to concentrate your love & time on her instead of the current one.
2007-02-21 15:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by stormymy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may sound harsh but, it seems to me that she doesn't really want to be with you. If she can't love you as a husband, she can love you at all. An engagement is something very important for a woman and she decided to break up the engagement that says a lot. Another thing it seems that she is hiding from you, why will she hide from you? You sound like a good person don't let her treat you like that way. Give yourself sometime, you will find someone that really loves you.
Good Luck!
2007-02-21 15:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Beba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 05:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by tonini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be ask her whats going on why is she acting this way and you just want the truth. But from your telling me sounds like she doesnt want the attactment but the fun you guys have keeping her options open and if that's not what you want then get out of it not even worth your time angel. Hope this helps
2007-02-21 15:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Dark_Fire_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her?? You'll never know unless you do.. Try not to get to attached in the meantime. She sounds very confused! You need to decide if she is worth getting hurt even more for or not.. And can you take anymore?
2007-02-21 15:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love doesn't hurt. people hurt people. you have feelings that are important and valuable to your well being. if she truly loves you, she would not treat your love you two share as if it can be easily discarded. You need to love yourself enough to stop allowing someone to disrupt your life. the woman that will love u will not put u through this because she will understand your worth. but r going to need to understand your own worth first.
do not settle for less than you deserve
2007-02-21 15:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Loyalty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't sound like she wants a relationship...and yes i think you are wasting your time...don't give her the pleasure ..just move on,,I'm pretty sure you'll find someone that will love you as a husband...another thing...if she sees you only when she wants it's because she's hiding something...so , do be careful....
2007-02-21 15:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
You think you're Mr. Right, but she thinks you are only Mr. Right Now.
She's using you until someone "better" comes along.
You sound like a nice guy, don't let her take advantage of you.
2007-02-21 15:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by Stan W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a "sucker" dude!
Women get a kick out of yo-yoing you for sport.
She just wants to lure you back in and then dump yer *** again.
DON'T DO IT!! YOU'LL BE SORRY!!!!
2007-02-21 15:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by Brad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think? she just wants a "fall back friend"
2007-02-21 15:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋