Sometimes I feel like I might be in love with this person who is married. It is so confusing because i tell myself that isn't possible. I do know i love him as a person and want the best for him. How can I make sure that is it? I also love the guy I am dating and want the best for him. They both make me feel completely different...so how do I know which kind of love is the love that is lifelong partner love. What are the true signs?
2007-02-21 15:04:57 · 8 answers · asked by leanne_13212000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Love" is a strong word. Love is not lust, love is not infatuation, love is not a crush on someone, love is when you deeply care for someone and what you see on the outside does not matter.. it's all in the heart. Younger people tend to not know the true meaning of love.. they go by what they think love is. For the girls, they think it is seeing a hot guy pass by and that is love. For the guys, they think it is seeing a sexually appealing female that is showing off parts of the body that should not be seen by everyone and that is love. That is NOT love. That is lust. Love and lust are very easily confused these days. It is even confused in music very often.. like T Pain's song "I'm In Love With A Stripper".. good song, but sorry guys that's not talking about real love.. that is lust. I think the younger people who don't understand actually think about songs like this and think that being attracted to a stripper is love because that is what they're being told it is. Another thing.. love for a person is not determined by what they have or how wealthy they are. Love is from the HEART!!! =)
2007-02-21 18:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is better for to love the single man. No point to love the married man, cuz u will break the marriage, right? But I know it is easy to say it than to do it. Well...if both of u love each other so deeply and he wants to get divorce then ...an other way then????
It is difficult to discribe what is love....only u can feel n tell. Good luck for u, ok?
2007-02-21 23:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by greatflower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds trite i know --- it is just how you feel about the other person and it is possible to be in love with two people at once --- i would suggest forgetting about the married guy, yes you could love him, he is married so he is really out of bounds
the signs are always different --- he makes you feel special you care for him you want to be with him as much as you can --- love changes over time and you must keep renewing it to make the relationship fresh and lasting
2007-02-21 23:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i knew that i was in love when my boyfriend came over one night and we watch movies all night long, and he feel asleep on my lap. first off we were watching a movie that he didnt want to watch and didn't like but watched it because i liked it, and he snores and farts in his sleep. so while he was sleeping i just watched him sleep and i was so happy with my life at that moment and i knew that he was the right guy for me. it has been a couple of weeks since then and im still so happy with my life righ now. he is always there for me and i support him with everything he wants to do. he is gona alot because of his work but we talk everynight and he is the only person i can think about. you will know when the time comes witch is the real love. it might not be eather of them, but when it happenes you will forget about all the other guys in your past and nothing eles matters.
2007-02-21 23:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is to study what kind of love you have for the married man. is it the kind of love over a forbidden relationship? is there a thrill in the chase? is he telling you things you want to hear to keep you? in this situation, think about what is best for you. what is the real likelihood that he will leave his wife for you?
2007-02-22 00:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by Techfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE IS: not! a lie, a shortchange(cheating) , dark corners, invisibility(you)...........Love cant be seen,written,transferred, .....you can only see the results......such as holding a lovers head when sick, and kissing the next. aha! thats not all, you dont see the sick.
2007-02-21 23:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it . Its a lost cause even if it is love .Sorry .
2007-02-21 23:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If only I knew....
2007-02-21 23:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋