ok i've been wit my baby for 6 monthz...and i really love him but sometimez i really dont think he carez bout me..you see in the past..bout 2 monthz ago he cheated on me twice! :'( and he was actually going out wit that girl for two weekz durning the same time he was wit me!! and i found out my her!! and she didnt know that he was wit me at the same time so we both confront him about it and he said that he was stupid and blah blah blah..but come to find out that he hooked up wit another girl during a party! so yea idk..now he says he sorry and all this other stuff should i trust him?
2007-02-21 15:01:18 · 17 answers · asked by ~*~la chula~*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't have even trusted him then. Especially because you took him back, he thinks what he did was okay. I say you should leave him. Show him what you're worth and that you don't need him. Then he'll really be sorry for what he did (although I doubt he'll learn his lesson). Once a cheater, always a cheater, and you deserve more than that. You need to really believe that someone who abuses your love doesn't deserve to be with you. Find yourself a better man who deserves you and make this cheater jealous. Good luck!
2007-02-21 15:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No definitely not!
I had this same situation. My first bf was #1 very controlling, and #2 cheated on me at least 8 times, and while we were dating, i only knew two of the incidents. But I was the stupid one who forgave him again and again every time he cheated and lied. It came to the point where he would break up with me, go with another girl, then a week later come back to me. He apologized every time too. He knew i would take him back so he knew he could get away with cheating and lying. The only way i got over him was take everything he gave me, destroy it, took up some hobbies, went out with my friends, and kept telling myself to forget that A$$hole. This sounds like one of those guys, you need to get over him! He DOES NOT love you, he is using you, and he is saying sorry because he knows (or thinks) you will take him back, and then he will screw you over again and again. You do not need to be treated that way. I would not trust him if i were you, think about how hurt you were when you found out he cheated on you. Would you like to feel that heartache every week, month, year? If you forget him now, trust me you will spare yourself a lot of heartache and stress.
If he calls you trying to say sorry again, ignore it or tell him you deserve someone who wouldn't break your heart and trust like he is doing.
2007-02-21 23:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can forgive a guy the first time. But if he has done it more then once then its gonna happen again. I hate to be brutelly honest, but thats how men are. Especially since 2 times in one month, that should be hinting you that he isn't very serious about the relationship. I am sorry!!
2007-02-21 23:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by aysha a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, now you know what he's capable of doing. And he will most likely do it again. Me and my man just broke up.. we were together about a year, and I found out he'd cheated on me. Trusting someone like that over and over again is just setting yourself up to get hurt... over and over again. Sorry sweetheart, I know you love him. I loved my man too. But cheating's not right. You deserve better (:
2007-02-21 23:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, don't! he has already cheated twice and obviously likes to flirt (and not with you). I would never accept a guy back after 2 cheats. your gonna get hurt again, let him go, find someone who cares about you like you care about him. good luck!
2007-02-21 23:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by girlie [♥] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should trust him again. Once a cheater always a cheater. My policy...how can you love someone when you have doubts about something?
2007-02-21 23:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to go on your own judgment on this on. Think, how important is he in your life. I personally believe that everyone deserves a second chance.
2007-02-21 23:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by swimster3291 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..never trust a cheater!! wish u a happy life
2007-02-21 23:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by knowz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on....he won't change. There is someone so much better waiting out there for you somewhere girlfriend!
2007-02-21 23:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by espee65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!! Once a cheater always a cheater
2007-02-21 23:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by foodychick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋