Why do i still Love him
2007-02-21 14:59:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are lonely and hurt, both feelings are natural...People don't instantly stop loving a person and you have had no time to back off of your love for him. When you realize in your heart that you are better off without someone so unfeeling, the attachment will subside.
It takes time to have the hurt ease, but it will. Try to focus on something else you care about....
2007-02-21 15:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Keep it Simple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. You need to learn how to let him go though. Obviously, you don't really know him or what his issues are, but someone who is grown up emotionally will be able to explain why they don't want to stay in a relationship. He's not going to give you closure, so you have to give it to yourself. Start by not allowing him to take over your thoughts, and fill them with positive things instead!
2007-02-21 15:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by Plexed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want him because he showed that he doesn't need you. The real question is, why did he leave in the first place?
It's natural to be attracted to someone who doesn't need you, or even pushes you away. Think how you'd react if he was the opposite, very very needy, and needed to have you all the time. It would make you squirm a bit wouldn't it?
2007-02-21 15:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it was a lousy thing for him to do and you need closure.
Try writing your thoughts. It's helped me in the past.
2007-02-21 15:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it because of love?
Love is not blind but can see.
But it is just the lovers who always REFUSES to see the visible.
The heart is deceitful above all things, so don't follow your heart.
Do you know why God place the brain above the heart?
SO THAT WE MIGHT LEARN TO USE THE HEAD FIRST AND THE HEART LAST.
2007-02-21 15:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a gluten for punishment
2007-02-21 15:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess we all want things we can't have......i know life sucks....i'm kinda figuring that out too......
2007-02-21 15:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by ibcrazay100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋