Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

My bf is 14. We have been together for 4 months. We see each other basically every day [go to the same school] but he is a grade older than I. Next year he is going to high school, and I'll still be in Middle School.

Do you think he will dump me because of it?

I am his 1st gf......so far--all 4 months--he has been completely loyal and respectful...my family [even extended family] adores him. He has such a wonderful personality....
When I bring up this topic with him [dumping me when he goes to high-school] he meaningfully disagress......

2007-02-18 08:19:52 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

What age did you girls start wearing thongs, where do you buy yours, and give me links, also guys what do you think of thongs? I need to find one that I could get without telling my mom. Iam 14 female. Thanks, if you answer this I will vote as best answer (10 points)

2007-02-18 08:19:34 · 30 answers · asked by cooldude3335 1 in Singles & Dating

I have never had a proper boyfriend because whenever I like a guy, I never let them get close to me. And if I ever get close enough to somone for anything to happen I run a mile. I never understand why anybody would want to go out with me, and I hate to be in peoples attention. Is it low self-esteem or something else? And what should I do?

2007-02-18 08:19:21 · 9 answers · asked by :) 5 in Singles & Dating

Just the other day i got into a fight with my best fiend because she kept bossing me around. I know it was childish but she was just getting on my nerves. Well now we are fine again and i feel like a hypocrit when i want to tell to stop chatting with this guy she never met. he was fine at first but he keeps asking what she looks like and it made me upset. this happened a while ago so i dont know if she even talks to him anymore but if i see he talking to him, what do i say to her?

2007-02-18 08:18:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What did your first kiss feel like and about what age were you. I still haven't had a chance to have that feeling so I just wanted to know what to expect.

2007-02-18 08:18:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

before you answer,please have some way I can contact you (email or IM)

2007-02-18 08:18:30 · 11 answers · asked by Batson D. Belfrey 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 13. This guy just asked me out and I said yes. so i asked my parents and they said ok and i was so happy until they said they wanted to come and sit w/ us. then i was so mad. i argued w/ them forever, but they wouldn't give in! It was just going 2 the movies. and it wasn't even like they wanted 2 sit in the way front while we sit in the way back or vice versa, no, they wanted 2 sit with us, like next 2 us!!!!!!!!!!and i'm in 8th grade, so its not like i'm a little kid that needs to be that closely supervised through just a movie!They wouldn't even settle for different rows! That kinda defeats the purpose of a date! What should I do?={

2007-02-18 08:18:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that she felt weird hanging out. My girlfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago. I thought the relationship was going well, but she didn't feel the "spark." We were friends before we started dating, and we decided to stay friends after breaking up. We hung out a week ago and I felt perfectly fine. I acted normal and did not do or say anything that i normally wouldn't. Talking to her today she said that "And plus, it is weird when we chill, it's like theres weirdness all around.... well, it feels weird cuz i can sense how u don't feel so comfortable anymore. like suddenly we have nothing in common."
What is weird is that she broke up with ME, not vice versa... if anyone should feel weird its ME. She was the one who wanted to remain friends. She has been nothing but honest with me since we started hanging out, and i dont think shes being dishonest and i am pretty sure it is not another guy. What does she mean when she says this? Why does she feel weird? serious answers only please thanks.

2007-02-18 08:17:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mum is being horrible to me. My 4 year old brother has been diagnosed with terminal lukemia and he will die in months. I asked my mum if I could get a pool table put in his bedroom when he dies and she hit me and said I was nasty. its not fair he gets all the attention but i dont get a pool table even though I have to listen to him die for the past while. could I ring the police or socil services as she is wrong ?

2007-02-18 08:17:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in my mid tewnties and lately guys that are younger than me catches my attention. But, I don't really like dating younger guys because in my own way I feel a lot older. Ladies do you perfer younger or older guys?

2007-02-18 08:17:02 · 24 answers · asked by B.A.P.S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 08:16:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay well...i'm going out with a guy of a diffrent race and my parents don't approve...but i really like him....what should i do? also he wants to hang out this week but my parents say that i can't go unless they go too...and he doesn't want to go because of my parents....what do i do?

2007-02-18 08:16:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok soo i am 13 and i like this guy but he is going out with a girl the broke up one time but then he went back out with her but i really like me i have 2 classes with him and i site right by in in both classes what can i do to make me look better i got contacts and i go tanning and i got my grandma to buy my proactive for my face i am skinny he hase we to a hotel with me befor with my friends what can i do !!!HELP!!!

2007-02-18 08:15:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So if a guy wants you to meet his parents, and you are just friends, what does that mean?? And if he makes a point of apologising for losing your email and asks for it again, what does that mean? What does it mean if you've never given him your email and he apologises for losing it, and asks for it again? What does it mean if he also makes a point about telling you he's reading a book you gave him? Is he just being nice?

2007-02-18 08:13:28 · 3 answers · asked by All 4 His Glory 3 in Friends

My boyfriend has a hairy butt--cheeks and crack. It's really hard for him to clean his butt when he, ummmm, makes a poo because the poo gets stuck in the hairs in his crack and sometimes he has to pull the hair out that has poo on it. Sometimes he misses some poo so he stays there all day/week and gets dried out.
So anyone know where he can go where they will wax his cheeks and crack? Will it look more normal, like he never had hair on it?

But he also has hairy legs, so would it look weird for him to wax his butt and have a smooth butt with hairy legs and thighs just below?

2007-02-18 08:13:09 · 5 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to a friend's home for cards and drinks, he had about 8 people over. I think his wife was upset with him, and it showed. She was unfriendly and uncordial. Call me old fashioned, but when I'm at a couple's home, I expect the wife to make coffee and put out food when guests are over.

It was a very uncomfortable night for all involved.

Is it me or do you think it's in very bad taste for someone to show their anger with their spouse when people are over. I almost called him to ask him what was up with his wife!

2007-02-18 08:12:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-18 08:11:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I m in relationship with a gal for d last 3 yrs n we share long distance relationship for d last 2 yrs.We were very happy n honest to eachother,bt thing is dat on new years party dis year she met with an guy who is already married bt due to some reasons he is nt living wd his wife.N my gal has started liking him,bt she still says she loves me n dnt wanna loose me.Bt now from d last few days her attitude has totally changed towards me.I told her several times dat u r hurting me bt dis doesnt affects her n she said dat she is helpless.I told her to stop talking to dat guy n she wants few days for dis.At d same time she told me dat she wont b able to get love like me.N even dat guy comes daily speacially to meet her to her office,n even told her dat he likes her.M a year younger to my gal n currently studying n all dis **** tremendously affecting my studies.Earlier she was sooo caring,sooo loving,pls suggest me sumthing by which i would b able to get my love back.pls pls pls pls........

2007-02-18 08:11:15 · 4 answers · asked by b2 1 in Singles & Dating

First of all, I know this is the wrong category, i didnt know where to put it. im desperate. haha
At school I am signing up for National Honor Society and I need to write 2 essays. One of the essays askes in what ways do you see yourself being an active member of the National Honor Society?. does anyone have any ideas on what I can write about?? I am so stressed. Also, I need to get about 9 volunteer hours by Friday. Please help me out, thanks!

2007-02-18 08:09:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My exhusband is Eric Duque he has been in hiding I need to find him. He owes me money he his been in hiding now for over 2months He needs to get served from the sheriffs department and they can't find him. If anyone knows anything in ref to this man please let me know His name is eric duque lives some where in cutler ridge. last know phone number 786-716- 715-8735 I am not the only one looking for this man

2007-02-18 08:09:33 · 4 answers · asked by Mirtha D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want any home alone stuff like light her hair on fire etc.

2007-02-18 08:09:25 · 21 answers · asked by Omar 2 in Family

Why is that if someone treats me really nicely i push them away and go for someone who does not like commitement?

2007-02-18 08:09:13 · 10 answers · asked by elnett 1 in Singles & Dating

And that person gave you a million dollars would that take away the pain? Is there anything that could take away that pain?

2007-02-18 08:08:15 · 8 answers · asked by *What Goes Around Comes Around 1 in Family

She's cleverer than me
We hardly got to know each other
We are seldom in contact
She's single and never had a boyfriend
Not one who likes to surf the net
Doesn't play any games
Mugs like mad to do well in her studies
I'm lost =(

2007-02-18 08:08:14 · 7 answers · asked by puzzledlove 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so this guy just dumped me for this other girl who really doesn't deserve him (sorry i hate when people say that.. but in this case it's true.) she's so annoying.. always making him do stuff for her and complaining all the time and all sorts of stuff like that. do any of you other guys like that? why would you want that? i mean, i REALLY cared about him and was so sweet and would do anything for him and he was also Himself around me. because his best friend even admitted to me that he has changed... and for the worse. and this girl is not very popular at all... not that cute.. and he is not himself, like he was with me. and he's completely changed because of her and everything. i just don't understand why he would chose her over me.. any comments..?

2007-02-18 08:08:08 · 7 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

Who would you pick a stripper or a good girl?

2007-02-18 08:07:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wonderin, wud they be safe to use in the shower

2007-02-18 08:06:58 · 24 answers · asked by vincy015 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well here it goes. I'm 19, im virgin. Ive had girls offer since i was 12. Personally, i would like to wait till im married. lol. I would like to tell the girl i married that i waited my whole life for her It just has been an issue in my recent relationships, first they dont believe me, then alot of girls try really hard to get me to have sex . I would state my reasons for not having sex, they are philosophical and religous, but i wouldn't have enough space. I guess i am really looking for a relationship with a nice girl who loves me but i cant really get in one and, the older i get the worse it gets im starting to get sucessful i just got a good job on wall street for the summer and,alot of girls are in interested in that. IDK? Moreover,I am not one of the losers who cant get laid. Im about 6'9 260lbs,athletic build. i am nice guy. i get a decent amount of attention from the fairer sex. Currently im a student at Columbia. any advice is helpful also do any girls wait anymore?

2007-02-18 08:06:15 · 3 answers · asked by holdencaufield 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 08:06:12 · 14 answers · asked by Girl Nobody 2 in Singles & Dating

I have tapped into my husband's TWO myspace accounts and am so hurt by what i have read telling woman he misses them telling them how gorgeouse they are ect ect i want to confront him BUT as soon as i do he is going to get PISSED that i went into his account and is going to turn it all around that i am nosy or that it's nothing what should i do?

2007-02-18 08:06:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce