2007-02-18 08:16:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that happens with marriage. Marriage is the reason is my guess. :) Sorry.
2007-02-18 08:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is ok. Who says you need to be sexually aroused all the time like you were in the teen years. You have other responsibilities now, a wife, maybe kids, stress at work, climbing a corporate ladder and other things. If your wife has he same sexual drive as you then you are in a great position. Men go thru phases with the sexual drives so not to worry. It is more normal that you think. The problem arises when the woman, which is not often, after marriage maintains a higher sexual drive than the man. If that is the case then you need to work at helping her with her sex. If she has a kid or two her sex drive will diminish for sure. So not to worry about that. Good Luck
2007-02-18 08:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sad, sounds like you guys need to spice thing up. Try changing the routine, like having risky sex outside, or like on the living room floor with the front door open where someone coming up on the porch might catch you. Or go on an actual vacation (without the kids of you have any) - I hear vacation sex is the best! Or if you're into that, you can like add another person, but that's not for everyone.
2007-02-18 08:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unusual, but could be dangerous to your marriage if your wife doesn't feel like she arouses you anymore. Are you in good physical shape? Being in poor physical condition is a very common cause of this sort of thing in both men and women.
2007-02-18 08:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a Female!!!
My husband says it gets old when you know you can have it every day.
When you are dating and not living together you try to get it whenever you can and then when you move in and get married it just isn't the same.
It was hard for me to understand in the beginning. I am a nympho. But now I just go with the flow.
2007-02-18 08:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by agbridal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its natural, try something different , such as get risky take your wife out on a date and have sex in a different manner or place you will find something that works for you , the trick is to break the same ol cycle. watch a porn movie or something like that.
2007-02-18 08:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by roger c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋