ok soo i am 13 and i like this guy but he is going out with a girl the broke up one time but then he went back out with her but i really like me i have 2 classes with him and i site right by in in both classes what can i do to make me look better i got contacts and i go tanning and i got my grandma to buy my proactive for my face i am skinny he hase we to a hotel with me befor with my friends what can i do !!!HELP!!!
2007-02-18 08:15:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok ...so you are 13 and NOW is a good time to learn that respect is the best way to go. You shouldn't force yourself on anyone. If he likes you he'll come around on his own but you should be respectful of the relationship he has with this other girl.Liking someone is no grounds to hurt someone else. There is a saying ..... what goes around , comes around. It means that the way you treat others will come back to you in the way you are treated. It is very true !!
It won't always be easy but I would advise you to give it a little thought. You are very young and will have many choices ...... best to make the ones that make you feel good about who you are.
Good luck and smiles 2 u : )
2007-02-18 08:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 13 and well uyou shouldn't be worrying a/b stealing someone's boyfriend let alone hotel rooms. stop trying to grow up so soon. learn to be a self respecting young lady and excelling in school instead of taking courses in homewrecker 101. trust me boys come and go but self respect is forever. besides how would you feel if you were the girlfriend and some hoochie tried to take your man. sit tight. is any guy worth it if they can't see you, for who you are and not what you look like. you need to fix your self esteem first b/fore you start worrying a/b who to date or you will fall for anything. and remember your virginity is something special so save it for marriage!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-18 19:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by freedom fighter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were making sense until the very end of your statement. If you are talking about going to a hotel with him, pleassssssssssssssse!!! you are way too young to be having sex. Besides, he will get with you and dump you as a girl who puts out. Everyone is right, you need to wait until he breaks up with her or you will be known as the girl who broke up the relationship.
2007-02-18 16:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't try to get a boy to like you if he already has a girlfrind. It's his choice if he wanted to get back with a girl that he had already broken up with once, it's not yours. If you want to get a boyfriend, you should try someone who is single, not in a relationship. Plus, you don't have to look perfect, a lot of guys will like you if you would just be yourself. Not all guys judge the book by it's cover. I myself don't. I basically like girls for their personality, not their looks. So, I say again, don't try to get with someone who is already in a relationship.
2007-02-18 16:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, maybe he likes girls who can actually spell and type a paragraph that makes SENSE!! and if he already has a girlfriend you should probably just leave him alone and wait till thats over with. if he likes you... he would be going out with you, but thats not the case, he has someone else.
use spell check next time....
2007-02-18 16:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 13, so you don't want to start being that girl that takes everyone else boyfriend. So just wait, be patient, they eventually will break up, and who knows by that time you may be interested in someone else, good luck.
2007-02-18 16:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by cristi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well don't you think if he sits by you in 2 classes and hasn't asked you out he's not interested in you? but if u want to win his heart from the girl he's dating, you just have to wait and make sure he notices you. If he and the girl already broke up one time...i don't think it's going to work out for them. this is a situation you just have to let work out by itself. just dont be jealous, cause guys dont like jealous girls.
2007-02-18 16:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Ice Baby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait if he is dating someone else he is 13, these things never last. and umm like try talking to him. or just become friends with his friend. so wen ur in the cafeteria youll sit with him even though there r other pplit will satisfy u i think
2007-02-18 16:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by tiff t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes already going out with a girl he probably isnt looking for another girlfriend. BUT if they do happen to break up(im not saying to sabatoge the relationship) you should see if he notices u then, if he doesnt, than you shouldnt try to impress him, because it wont work
P.S. i wasnt trying to be mean
2007-02-18 16:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by Gloom and Doom™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's with his girlfriend because he likes her & he's not ready to move on to someone else. For right now, he's only interested in being friends with you. I suggest you move on & look for someone else to be interested in. If him & his girlfriend break up, than you can try for him. You're focusing too much on the outside, just be yourself.
2007-02-18 16:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by tanner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋