My bf is 14. We have been together for 4 months. We see each other basically every day [go to the same school] but he is a grade older than I. Next year he is going to high school, and I'll still be in Middle School.
Do you think he will dump me because of it?
I am his 1st gf......so far--all 4 months--he has been completely loyal and respectful...my family [even extended family] adores him. He has such a wonderful personality....
When I bring up this topic with him [dumping me when he goes to high-school] he meaningfully disagress......
2007-02-18 08:19:52 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
worrying about it now will only cause you anxiety and depression and this might cause your boyfriend to dump you now cuz you are no longer fun to be with. just enjoy the remaining days you are always still together. use it to tighten the bond between yourselves. enjoy and just cross the bridge when you get there.
if it happens...you can not stop it anyway. at least, you made the most out of it and you can truly say to yourself that you gave it your best shot. you loved and you were loved and if its true love...you'd be together again when you get to high school.
2007-02-18 08:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by babytalk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ill be truly honest with you. Im 17, and when i was your age, I was in the same situation except we were the same age. At high school, we split up to different schools and then he dumped me. I think you guys seem really close though, we weren't. I think you will be fine, if you can completely trust him and know that he wouldn't lie to you or cheat on you.
2007-02-18 08:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really love u, he wouldnt dump u even though he is going 2 high school, but if he just go out wit u just 4 fun, he might will b.c he probably want sum one dat goes to his school instead.
2007-02-18 08:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wont dump you!! but if you keep telling him he will then he might do. Your insecurity may put him off. there is no reason why he would dump you, just enjoy your time together and see how it goes and be positive when your together instead of saying how worried you are
2007-02-18 08:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry about it. He sounds like he's a good guy. If he does break up with you, I suggest a visit to the dessert isle of your local supermarket and a payoff to your friends to chase after him with a trashcan. Thats what my girlfriends did to one of my boyfriends when he lied to me. They chased him around the school parkinglot with a trashcan. Dont know if they ever got him, but oh well. good luck :)
2007-02-18 08:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might later on in the new school year!
2007-02-18 08:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋