ok so this guy just dumped me for this other girl who really doesn't deserve him (sorry i hate when people say that.. but in this case it's true.) she's so annoying.. always making him do stuff for her and complaining all the time and all sorts of stuff like that. do any of you other guys like that? why would you want that? i mean, i REALLY cared about him and was so sweet and would do anything for him and he was also Himself around me. because his best friend even admitted to me that he has changed... and for the worse. and this girl is not very popular at all... not that cute.. and he is not himself, like he was with me. and he's completely changed because of her and everything. i just don't understand why he would chose her over me.. any comments..?
2007-02-18 08:08:08 · 7 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just to let you know Samantha.. the only reason i added that part in about her not being that popular or cute was so people wouldn't be like Cuz she's hotter than you.. cuz that's what a lot of comments are like!
2007-02-19 04:55:32 · update #1
Sry .... as bad as you may feel about it he obviously sees something in her and the bottom line is that it's his choice. You shouldn't dwell on it or waste your time feeling sad or bitter. Move on with a smile .....there are lots of fish in the sea as they say .... something good will come your way !!
No Worries : )
2007-02-18 08:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, if your not cute and popular, the world will NOT end. Get over it, so she's a little plainer and not popular. Your not dating her so thats not your concern. Second of all, HE left you. It was his descision to make. He gets to deal with the bossy girl and you should just move on.
2007-02-18 16:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the other woman always appears to be better. but in the end she's just human. with flaw, sometimes worst flaw than you have. but stop focusing on her and think about you. i did it and it worked great. my problems were more obvious than some. but with prayer, time, therapy i took care of my issues. i started to do it to get my ex back, but in the past two years i do it for the "mr right" who is out there waiting for me to find him. i dont want to enter into a relationship with the baggage i had with my ex. so dont worry about "her", just focus on you. and if you love yourself, then why are you stressing? you deserve a man who can love the you that you love! GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-18 16:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at buying the book
"He's Just Not That Into You"...wasting your time figuring this guy out isn't worth it...it is better to spend your time finding someone who appreciates you.
2007-02-18 16:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You never know what some people likes, so do not worry what his new girlfriend is putting him through, that is not your concern, he picked her, so that is his problem. Move on, and meet new friends, don't waste one ounce of time on him, He may have done you a favor!
2007-02-18 16:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do, if she is as bad as you say then he will see it and finish with her anyway. Let him see it for himself
2007-02-18 16:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is a really strange story, but all u have to do is wait and see if u stop talkin to them. tell them how u feel
2007-02-18 16:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by VanessaRose 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋