Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

I met this girl in my english class. Everything was normal then she asked me to the sadie hawkings. I really couldn't come so I said no. Then two days later she make this joke about wanting to marry me and wanting me to be the father of her child but I get the feeling she wasn't really joking. I am pretty sure I am in love with her too but my parents won't let me date till I am 16. I am 15 and my birthday is in July and I am afraid that we won't have any classes together next year.

2007-02-18 14:09:42 · 11 answers · asked by Miles V 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i just got in a relationship with this guy who just moved down here from NY and im kinda feeling that we shouldnt be together but im not sure so tell me is this a good letter to give to him!

"hey was up! um i got alot of stuff on my mind and your one of them. im kinda feeling that your we shouldn’t be together because I kno you got a whole lot of stuff on yo mind too! Um im kinda thinking that ppl forced you to like me or something! I actually think we rushed things cause we barley kno each other! We barley talk! So im not saying lets break-up but im saying how do you feel about this you kno, cause I feel like we rushed things! Whats on yo mind?"

we live in the same neighborhood and we go to the same high school! and i feel like my friends forced us together but i dont think he likes me that much!

2007-02-18 14:09:39 · 30 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend never buys me anything, I'm not the tyoe of girl who wants their boyfriend to buy them everything, but even our first date he didnt pay, and he never has. I always pay for myself and a couple of times ive paid for him too. Well Valentines day he paid, but we didnt even go anywhere nice because he only had 15 dollars, i mean it wouldnt be a problem he he never had any money but earlier that week he bought himself a book and a video game, he knew Valentines day was coming, did he think I wasnt worth it? And the necklace he gave me he says he already had it, he bought it last year and just saved it, so that wasnt even bought for me. He didnt even get me anything for christmas. Does he think im not worth it? I mean he apollgizes, but he never makes up for it, what do I do?

2007-02-18 14:08:26 · 24 answers · asked by Butterfly Princess16 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday my boyfriend was trying to be all snuggly, but I just wasn't into it. I felt gross, and fat and just didn't want him to touch me. I haven't been getting alot of sleep so I was really tired, and a bit grumpy. So were watching a movie and he was trying to be all touchy feely and I kept pushing him away. Finally I got so fed up with it I was like "ok just keep your hands to yourself". So then he says "well don't sit on the couch then" so I was like "fine"and moved to the chair. Anyways, he stopped talking to me so I asked him, "what you can't talk to me anymore?" and then he turns to me and goes, "what I can't touch you anymore. what the he!! is up with that?" I pretty much just went home after that without giving him an answer.

Today comes around, and I tried to talk to him but he just isn't speaking to me. What is going on here? I don't think I did anything wrong, am I in the wrong here?

2007-02-18 14:08:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do they work and how od you efficiently use them?

2007-02-18 14:08:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 14:08:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my sister are trying to figure out something either at home or really cheap to do tonight with our dad so we can have some quality time what should we do? ?

2007-02-18 14:07:46 · 6 answers · asked by lo town 2 in Family

Ok... well I applied for a beauty school that I really want to go to, its close to home, but still far enough away. Well ever since my brother went off the the Navy my mom has been really protective over me, so since i got accepted to this school we keep getting into arguements about me moving.. its too far to drive every morning.. she doesn't want me to move.. but she doesnt want me to drive that far.. its 75 minutes away.. and it would be at 6 in the morning and id have to drive back at 7 at night.. and go to work.. Can someone help and give me advice on what I should do or tell her??

2007-02-18 14:07:41 · 12 answers · asked by BeAuTyScHoOlSaVeDmYlIfE 1 in Family

But he does have a daughter and the last time I ask him if she know anything about me and he said she don't. He want to wait. But thats been a while since I did ask him. And we still haven't meet in person yet. And other this I am not to sure if anyone else know that we are dating where he live. And yesterday he told me that he spend part of the day with his daughter and her mother. And mom think it that he might want her back. But he did say that he didn't want anyone or back with any ex either. And now my aunt thinks that I don't want to get married since I don't mess with the guys that live around here that come to me on the dating site. I go for the far away guys. But he did say that he going to come in. And he use to live here in town too. But I am not to sure on what to do or even think for that matter any more. Since what mom thinks has gotting me to rethink somethings as well. Pls I really need the help on this one.

2007-02-18 14:07:13 · 2 answers · asked by Chris 3 in Singles & Dating

Sorry, I have to ask this question again.



If you were in a relationship for almost 4 years, can you be honest about when your were in the relationship, in the first year you cheated or lied? Because you feel guilt.

Or Would you just don't say anything because you have changed and you don't want to lose your love

2007-02-18 14:06:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well we been going out for a few years and we just broke up but i still miss him ever day.

2007-02-18 14:06:12 · 3 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

well we been going out for a few years and we just broke up but i still miss him ever day.

2007-02-18 14:05:48 · 15 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and the guy arent on the same level. I like his friend though alot.

2007-02-18 14:05:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 14:04:24 · 3 answers · asked by hate the sand ~ love the castle 3 in Singles & Dating

I need help because i have a girlfriend and like 2 other people. I really need help with this! I really don't know what to do and it would be so kind if people would give me some really good advice.

2007-02-18 14:04:10 · 5 answers · asked by Mighitman 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 14:04:06 · 7 answers · asked by zoejane 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a guy I like and his girlfriend and I are bff no matter what and she is going 2 break up with him. Well they have only been going out for 1 week . I asked her if it would be alright and she said absolutely. She thinks it would be a good idea. I think he likes me. But how do I make double sure he is into me ? what are signs he is into me?

2007-02-18 14:03:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, here's the deal. I really like this guy. i recently had a guy friend (who is also his friend) tell him that i like him. i am majorly shy so i neva really talk 2 him and bcuz of that he neva talks 2 me. i always catch him looking at me and when my friends tease me about him and bug me 2 talk 2 him, he pretends he can't hear them and smiles really cute (he sits next 2 me in 2 classes and my friends sit with me in one of those classes) btw-i'm 15-almost 16. besides attempting 2 answer my question, i also want some shy guys 2 tell me wat they do when they're crushing on someone. thanks peoples

2007-02-18 14:03:29 · 5 answers · asked by Sarcasmic 2 in Singles & Dating

How many of you know that your spouse is seeing someone else? How many of you don't care?

2007-02-18 14:02:06 · 39 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked this guy to sadie hawkins and i really like him, but this guy that i have liked throughout the year (that i never thot even liked me and i always thot he acted like a *****) wanted me to ask him


the thing is that i think the second guy (the one i have liked for a while) is just trying to get SOMEONE to go with.. but i dont know

anyone got advice?

2007-02-18 14:01:26 · 10 answers · asked by ninabonita101 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it alot of work involved in it, because I had a situation that didn't work out, she ended up using me as a rebound to get over her X in Jamaica a few years ago, and I'm hurting right now, but I'm trusting God through it all though

2007-02-18 14:01:25 · 6 answers · asked by Brian D 1 in Friends

I like this senior (i'm a junior) but the class we had together just ended. It's already second semester meaning in a couple more months he's gonna be off at college. I'm really shy and its really hard for me to approach people, but I don't want to miss my chance. What do i do??? Please keep in mind that i am REALLY shy.

2007-02-18 14:00:30 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

by in the hallway when he is with his group of friends. When I am walking by they all turn to stare at me and than as I am passing by he says "I went out with her. She is my ex". They all check me out and stare. He is the captain of the football team. He has a girlfriend and has been with the same girl for 1 1/2 years now. We broke up two years ago. He still checks me out, still looks, still stares, he started saying hi and stuff too. what is the deal, please enlighten me, someone please!?

2007-02-18 14:00:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He says he has a girl friend but, he is lying maybe to make me jelous? He won't say the name, age or anything. It is breaking my heart though. I like him A LOT he like me A LOT. Everytime he just rubs up against me I feel so warm and fuzzy inside. Our friends always say we are perfect for each other. Every thime we argue people say we act like a married couple. I know him so well and it's not like him to do something like this. One time at lunch we played footies under the table. Then, another time playing football, he tackled me when the ball was 50 yards away. Once I got up we were pushing each other in a flirting way. I like him SOOO much. Everytime I ask him or our friends ask him if he likes me he blushes, says no, and runs off. I like Matt so much. (his name) PLEASE HELP. Thanks

2007-02-18 13:59:52 · 11 answers · asked by writer9393 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 job offers. Im a nurse. one is fulltime, w/ benefits, 8 hour shift days, with every other weekend. my 3 yr old would have to go to daycare fulltime and my 12 yr old would have to get herself on the bus in the AM. But it is stable, although it is in a nursing home and I have no experience in that area. so it would be totally new to me. The other job is an atmosphere that I think I would enjoy. the daycare is right across the street, and he would only have to go 2 days a week. but it is only a part time job. I would keep the part time job i have now as a nurse, so working 2 part time jobs. but no benefits.I wouldn't have to work any weekends or holidays.and the hours work around my kids very well. so do i choose the more consistent job,putting my 3 yo in daycare fulltime for more money and benefits? or choose the 2 part time jobs and have more time for my kids,but less money and no benefits. my kids do have benefits through their father. I won't after divorce is final.

2007-02-18 13:59:49 · 9 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-18 13:59:38 · 14 answers · asked by dimps 1 in Singles & Dating

He wanted desperately to live in Australia so we came here. Life has not been easy what with all our differences. Age, culture, education etc. (please, please really consider mixed marriage before you go into it) Now he wants to go back to Egypt and I don't. He says he will never leave our son. I know it would be awful to even consider leaving your child. I couldn't but what is are the alternatives? Anyone have any good suggestions?

2007-02-18 13:59:30 · 5 answers · asked by JosieWills 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have passed all the healing stages after i had sex with this great guy and after he started acting weird like i was a one nite.. i know he doesnt like me because he never calls, but still i just want to sleep with him.thing is he is very distant and kind of scared because i gave him the idea i wanted a realtionship and he is not ready .He never calls,promises he will come around and never does,never apologizes for not coming,im's me like nothing happened when i talk to him he sounds ver normal and the thing is i just want his body and i dont know how to make him the least interested in me.i have stopped calling him cause i have some dignity left but how do i make him care just a little or is it a no win situation.?HELP!!!

2007-02-18 13:59:22 · 7 answers · asked by patme 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a guy for about 6 months now. He lives in one state I live in another. His bday is in 2 weeks....I want to get him something really special. This will be his 27th birthday! Suggestions, PLEASE!!!

2007-02-18 13:58:28 · 7 answers · asked by Hear2Help 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 13:58:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating