ok i just got in a relationship with this guy who just moved down here from NY and im kinda feeling that we shouldnt be together but im not sure so tell me is this a good letter to give to him!
"hey was up! um i got alot of stuff on my mind and your one of them. im kinda feeling that your we shouldn’t be together because I kno you got a whole lot of stuff on yo mind too! Um im kinda thinking that ppl forced you to like me or something! I actually think we rushed things cause we barley kno each other! We barley talk! So im not saying lets break-up but im saying how do you feel about this you kno, cause I feel like we rushed things! Whats on yo mind?"
we live in the same neighborhood and we go to the same high school! and i feel like my friends forced us together but i dont think he likes me that much!
2007-02-18 14:09:39 · 30 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds fine! same thing happened to me. just say 'lets be friends' since u guys dont talk/dont kno eachotehr. end the awkwardness lol
2007-02-18 14:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are giving him this letter, I would advise that you proofread it and then make a final copy. You got to many um's in there. I do honestly believe that just being straight forward with him would be better. It is more effective and shows true emotions with facial emotions. I think this letter would cause a breakup between you two. You need to get to know him and make sure communication is there because it is a key factor that makes a relationship work. I am not saying this letter is bad, but you will understand that communication through talking is more effective in life the older you get. Good luck with everything.
2007-02-18 14:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm fix the spelling and i would redo it like this:
"Hey (insert name), whats up? i was doing some thinking about us lately and I'm kind of feeling that maybe we should take a breather and think about what we're doing for a moment. I know that you've got a lot of stuff on your mind too, but just hold the thought and keep reading. I actually think we rushed things and a part of me can't help but wonder if the reason why you liked me in the first place was because of what other people said and thought about you, about us. We barely know each other, and we barely talk. (insert name) I'm not saying let's break up but I'm asking you to think about this too.
Love (or sincerely w.e.)
(insert your name)
2007-02-18 14:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by oreoshack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no- this is a terrible letter to give him. it is way 2 harsh- and will hurt him a lot especially if he really did like you and your saying people forced him 2. I've learned from experience guys can get very offended by that. also, a letter is permanent proof of how you felt. doing it over the phone would be much better- that way there is no way that letter could show up to cause more pain latter
2007-02-18 14:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yours is fine, it kinda sounds too happy though but i changed it a little.
"Hey, can I talk to you for awhile...
Ive been thinking for awhile and I just want to tell you that I feel like we shouldnt be together for now, Im saying this because I think our friends wanted us to be together. And I think we need to take things slow because I feel like we have rushed things up too fast and I dont feel like I have known the real you yet, Iam not saying that we should break-up but I want to know how you feel about this?"
TakeCare
2007-02-18 14:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by Thrills 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, if it's possible to talk to him face-to-face, do that.
But if it's not, that's a nice letter. I'd like to receive one like that in a situation like this....
The only thing I suggest revising on your letter is the "um's, kinda's, etc. Be confident with what you say and say what you mean and it will hopefully all work out for you!
2007-02-18 14:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably take that badly. It starts with I have you on my mind then says we should break up. That would hurt. Plus, no offense, but you might want to put that through spell check. Barley is a type of grain and know has a w. He will probably just break up with you if you give him this.
2007-02-18 14:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a pretty good letter!=) You might also want to meet with him after you give him this letter. You should explain why you guys aren't great together and let him down gently. Just be truthful and realistic.
2007-02-18 14:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by freedombah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly nevertheless do and that i'm no longer ashamed of it. My boyfriend keeps each and all of the letters I write to him in his wallet. I usually deliver a text fabric with "satisfied _ months" nevertheless. My boyfriend does not write me letters for our month anniversaries yet he does deliver me a text fabric lower back and he will say it each 5 minutes that we spend jointly on our month anniversaries. i like it, that is lovable.
2016-11-23 17:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's good. Just ask him how he feels about your relationship and ask him if it would be alright if you two take things a little slower to see if your better off as friends or lovers =D
2007-02-18 14:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋